This is not exactly true for starters you can not walk into an eastern rite church that distributes by intinction and receive on the hand. You could try to complain to rome but nothing will come of it.
The concept of autonomy makes bringing the Eastern Churches into this irrelevant. What you fail to realize is that the Church also protects the Eastern Churches right to preserve its culture as well as the West.
The Eastern Churches can and do receive in the hand if they so choose as well and always have just as the Western Church did for over 1000 years.
The point is that just because a thing is allowed doesn't mean that it is recommended. The fact that things are allowed and not recommended means that their is a possibility that something else that is also allowed might be better.
Thats an irrelevant point as well. That fallacy presumes that the Church is wrong in its judgment or that one can predict what is in the hearts of people because of how they choose to receive as if one way is better than the other. You have no way to know that. Absolutely none. And even if it were true, it is better to express that love from the heart, that the Lord alone can judge, and as the Church approves of than by some man who cares only for appearances and is hardened of heart toward the needs of others.
Would you stigmatize all those who receive standing and in the hand as somehow loving the Lord less? That would come off as rather bigoted and full of ones self wouldn't it?
For the sake of that fallacy, lets assume everyone loves the Lord in varying degrees. What should the Church do for those folks who struggle with a weaker faith than some? Force them on their faces? As if doing that would make them love the Lord more. How would you personally encourage folks to love the Lord more, by forcing them to kneel and receive on the tongue?
Would you tell those who prefer the ancient practice of receiving in the hand they aren't as Christian as they could be because they don't want to perform the same praxis as you when the CHURCH has officially sanctioned what they
are doing? This is in effect what one is doing when they push a false notion contrary to the Church like receiving on the hand or standing is not good enough.
Should these who follow the Church be receiving communion as you seem to approve of or how the Church approves of? Obviously the answer is the Church. Would you presume to tell the Church what she should allow or not? It seems you would.
What would Jesus do for these folks who others don't think love him as much as they do because they don't express that love the same way as they do? It seems those hardened of heart may actually be the lessor Christian because they fail to recognize that Christs will is for us all to be sensitive to the plight of our neighbor. It seems those of divisive opinions could not care less about the plight of ones neighbor because they would shun them for not doing things as they would have them.
Can one claim to be a better Christian when they neglect the plight of those around them in lieu of appearing more holy when inside they are actually hard of heart? Isn't that the same mistake the Pharisees made? it is.
"The crux of the problem on both sides of this issue is resistance to authority."
The Red Herring of Communion in the Hand
In its early history the members of the Christian community did what Jesus told them to do - they took and ate and drank knowing in faith that this was indeed a sharing in the Body and Blood of Christ. The sacred bread was taken in hand and the Sacred Cup was shared by all.
As time went on and the Church no longer consisted of members who had actually seen and known the Lord, and for many cultural and historical reasons, Eucharistic practices slowly began to change. By the 9th century the language of the Mass was no longer that of the people, as it was in the early Church. The altar table was moved from the midst of the people to the back wall of the church. The presider no longer faced the people as he led them in prayer. The Eucharist became so removed from the people that the Christian community came to see themselves as unworthy of this precious gift, even though they were baptized and redeemed by the Lord. Few people received Holy Communion, and only then on the tongue. By the 13th century the cup was no longer shared with the people. As a result of these and other practices, the people’s main contact with the Eucharist was through the elevation of the Eucharistic species which was actually added to the Mass. For the people this elevation was their opportunity to “receive” for “seeing” became “receiving.” Jesus’ command to his followers to “take and eat, and take and drink” seemed to no longer apply to all believers.
In modern times, the event which began to change this approach to the Eucharist was the election of Pope Pius X in 1903. Pope Pius X knew the great importance of the command of Jesus that believers “take and eat” that he changed the practice of the Church. No longer did a person have to wait until the age of 14 or 15 to be eligible to share in Holy Communion. Children who reached the age of reason, usually about 7 years old, were
now welcomed to the altar table of the Lord. By bringing the children to the altar table, Pope Pius X also brought with them their parents and grandparents. Through this action participation in Holy Communion began to be returned to all believers.
http://www.archdiocesesantafe.org/Offices/SacramentalPolicies/GuidelinesEMHC.pdf
Historically, the wrong way of thinking lead to no one recieving communion. Thank God for the Church to lead the faithful back to the sacraments.