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I came to terms with mine shortly after I was told I had it. Once I got on my lithium, After a few weeks I was doing much better and had a clearer head to think things thru. I realized what a mess I had in my lap and need to fix it. I had been married for several years at that point and my wife at the time did not trust me in case I had a relapse.
We divorced shortly after that. She (my ex) still has not dealt with the fact that I have BP. She thinks it is all a make believe thing.
 
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I am not sure I will ever completely come to "terms" with bp. I have it, I am active in dealing with it, medically and otherwise; active in identifying my triggers and trying to do all I can, but I do get so tired of it. It breaks my heart everytime I realize it will never go away. At the same time as I hate it and definitely some of it's symptoms, I can see many "silver linings" that God has created in my life thru this experience. I would like to go back to "being me" (I was 35 when it all hit.) and yet, I know who I am now. Do I sound confused, sometimes it feels like it. But bottom line is I KNOW that I can trust God with anything, even my BP.
 
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Alive again said:
I am not sure I will ever completely come to "terms" with bp. I have it, I am active in dealing with it, medically and otherwise; active in identifying my triggers and trying to do all I can, but I do get so tired of it. It breaks my heart everytime I realize it will never go away. At the same time as I hate it and definitely some of it's symptoms, I can see many "silver linings" that God has created in my life thru this experience. I would like to go back to "being me" (I was 35 when it all hit.) and yet, I know who I am now. Do I sound confused, sometimes it feels like it. But bottom line is I KNOW that I can trust God with anything, even my BP.

I know what you mean it is really depressing to know it might never go away God is an amazing God he can do anything! maybe we should all BP people pray that God will heal us? What do you think?
 
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In some ways I think God has used my bp to heal other things in my life that were out of whack. Don't get me wrong I am ready and willing to be healed, but I am also ready and willing to TRUST GOD to walk me thru whatever path I am on.
 
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