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Okay... it's not a joke, but it's very encouraging and I just had to share.

Coffee
A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee...
(You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again)

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling.It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, "tell me what
you see." Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the
coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich
aroma. The daughter then asked, "what does it mean?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity..boiling water. Each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.
However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had
protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the
water.

Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are
you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"

Think of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?


Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but
changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit,
but after a death, a break-up, a financial hardship or
some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I
bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened
heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that
brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it
releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean,
when things are at their worst, you get better and
change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their
greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level?
How do you handle adversity?

Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to
keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the
best of everything; they just make the most of everything
that comes along their way. The brightest future
will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go
forward in life until you let go of your past
failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so at the
end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around
you is crying.

God Bless!!!
 
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Am I an egg because I think things like this are mainly B.S.? We are not eggs, carrots or coffee beans. Some of us may be rocks, feathers, water vapor, sea-shells, tea bags, hats, zippers, forks, hair clips, pencil erasers, sponges, ect….I could go on all night.

Bleh, I’m just not a mushy person.
 
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