- Feb 5, 2002
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There is this man at Church that I got to know that seems very holy & devoted to the Church. If you had one person to pick as the most devoted, it would surely be this guy.
Too many details to go into here but I'm starting to feel extremely uncomfortable around him & do not want to hurt his feelings but I'm feeling extremely stifled & pressured.
I took over for him as an EMHC for nursing homes, etc.
We became quick friends & I know he is alone, elderly, shack of a house & recently suffered a light stroke but fully recovered.
I drop off food to his house about once a week.
Anyway, he calls me constantly, tells me of his past sins which he says he can never pay for...(well, of course not! Jesus did it.)
Basically....wayyyy too much information.
He sends cards about twice a week, sent 3 dozen roses Valentines Day & is always dropping hints about things he would like to see me do in the Church.
I live 12 miles from Church & have other responsibilties.
He is friendly to both my husband & I but I'm feeling like he has some sort of unhealthy attraction to me & I don't like it.
He is 72 & old enough to be a Grandpa to me. I almost dread going to Church now. How can I cut this off without hurting him?
Lastnight he called again after I told him I had things to do & said he was praying & the Holy Spirit told him to call me & ask if I was under a lot of stress at home & how things with me & my Hubby were.
My answers- No & Fine.
He said 'ok' & hung up.
There is so much more I could say as far as disturbing details but you get the general idea.
I really hate this.
How can this be handled gracefully?
Too many details to go into here but I'm starting to feel extremely uncomfortable around him & do not want to hurt his feelings but I'm feeling extremely stifled & pressured.
I took over for him as an EMHC for nursing homes, etc.
We became quick friends & I know he is alone, elderly, shack of a house & recently suffered a light stroke but fully recovered.
I drop off food to his house about once a week.
Anyway, he calls me constantly, tells me of his past sins which he says he can never pay for...(well, of course not! Jesus did it.)
Basically....wayyyy too much information.
He sends cards about twice a week, sent 3 dozen roses Valentines Day & is always dropping hints about things he would like to see me do in the Church.
I live 12 miles from Church & have other responsibilties.
He is friendly to both my husband & I but I'm feeling like he has some sort of unhealthy attraction to me & I don't like it.
He is 72 & old enough to be a Grandpa to me. I almost dread going to Church now. How can I cut this off without hurting him?
Lastnight he called again after I told him I had things to do & said he was praying & the Holy Spirit told him to call me & ask if I was under a lot of stress at home & how things with me & my Hubby were.
My answers- No & Fine.
He said 'ok' & hung up.
There is so much more I could say as far as disturbing details but you get the general idea.
I really hate this.
How can this be handled gracefully?