Clearing some things up...

[Evan Wright]

So earlier I made a thread about how the girl I asked out wasn't interested in me and changed up the date on me. It turns out that wasn't correct. I decided to talk to her about what was going on and she told me the reason why she switched up was because she thought that I wasn't interested in going with her which was the reason why she thought he car was just an excuse to bail. I understand where she is coming from. She's been through alot in the past of having her heart broke as well as family issues that she's dealing with so she has her guard up for this. I felt bad for what I said earlier in the thread I was just mixed with jealousy and anger and some of it came out. I just really care alot about her. I now realise I was in the wrong for jumping to conclusions and making assumptions and will work on not doing it I the future. She told me that she was just going through some changes and needed some time alone but that she liked me and was still open to going on a movie date together when she got her personal situations sorted out which I understand. We will be going on a date soon when she is ready. Just pray for both of us that when we do go out we will have a good time, and that her and I's relationship will be pleasing to God. Also pray for us as individuals. This is our first time dating so we have much to learn and experience. If you guys have any tips for new relationship as well as advice please leave it down in the comments below. Thanks

God bless.

 

[sunshine100]

So earlier I made a thread about how the girl I asked out wasn't interested in me and changed up the date on me. It turns out that wasn't correct. I decided to talk to her about what was going on and she told me the reason why she switched up was because she thought that I wasn't interested in going with her which was the reason why she thought he car was just an excuse to bail. I understand where she is coming from. She's been through alot in the past of having her heart broke as well as family issues that she's dealing with so she has her guard up for this. I felt bad for what I said earlier in the thread I was just mixed with jealousy and anger and some of it came out. I just really care alot about her. I now realise I was in the wrong for jumping to conclusions and making assumptions and will work on not doing it I the future. She told me that she was just going through some changes and needed some time alone but that she liked me and was still open to going on a movie date together when she got her personal situations sorted out which I understand. We will be going on a date soon when she is ready. Just pray for both of us that when we do go out we will have a good time, and that her and I's relationship will be pleasing to God. Also pray for us as individuals. This is our first time dating so we have much to learn and experience. If you guys have any tips for new relationship as well as advice please leave it down in the comments below. Thanks

God bless.

depending on how long you have known this girl for,I would say to just take it slow,there is no rushing into anything.

 

[Albion]

Exactly. That is the #1 piece of best advice we can give.

 

[Sketcher]

She told me that she was just going through some changes and needed some time alone but that she liked me and was still open to going on a movie date together when she got her personal situations sorted out which I understand. We will be going on a date soon when she is ready.

That's what girls who string boys along say. Never put yourself in a situation where you have to wait for her in an open-ended way. Women in this society generally don't pursue men, and if a woman deigns to, many people from both genders will attempt to "correct" that. Therefore, you cannot count on her to let you know when she is "ready." Instead, demonstrate that you are ready, and if for instance, Friday isn't a good day for her, have her pick another specific day/date that you can make before you end the conversation. That way, she either has to commit to a real date with you, or give you a hard "no." Both of which are preferable to "maybe someday" that lasts until she enthusiastically says "yes" to someone else. And if she likes you, there's a good chance she'll be impressed with you making it clear that you are ready to jump into this.

 

[SleepingAtLast]

As you have already learned, communication is key. Keep openly communicating. That will go a long way.