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Did/would you circumcise, and why?

  • Yes-religious

  • Yes-hygiene

  • Yes-other

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tessas212

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I'm not Jewish, so I don't circumsize for religious reasons. Christians are not required to circumsize.

Circumcision is not cleaner. It is not healthier. It is not better.

I was learning towards not circing.. hubby wanted to, so I allowed it to happen. NEVER again. God made my baby perfect, and I allowed some stranger to mutilate his penis. Any future boys will be left intact, as God intended them to be. The healthier, cleaner, more Godly choice.
 
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tessas212

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Thought I'd provide some information

March 1, 1999: After a two year investigation, the American Academy of Pediatrics concluded that the "potential medical benefits" of infant circumcision aren't significant enough and therefore, they do not recommend it as a routine procedure.
American Academy of Pediatrics Circumcision Task Force Monitor page

"There is a less than 1% chance that circumcision will ever be medically necessary. If only one out of a hundred boys will require circumcision later, why then should the remaining 99 be automatically circumcised?"
Mothers Against Circumcision

"The current fallacy being spread to excuse circumcision is that the circumcised penis is cleaner and easier to take care of, therefore reducing the risk of urinary tract infections (UTI)...."

"In infancy that foreskin protects the glans, or head, the penis from feces and abrasive diapers. The foreskin continues to protect the glans throughout a man's life by shielding it from rubbing against clothing and zippers. Many parents also do not realize the diminished sexual sensitivity that they are inflicting on their sons."
Circumcision Paper
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""Circ doesn't always prevent phimosis, but can even cause it:
Phimosis may occur after circumcision if redundant inner prepuce slides back over the glans, with subsequent cicatricial scarring and contraction."
Phimosis, Adult Circumcision, and Buried Penis: eMedicine Urology

"Data have shown that the foreskin is retractable in 90% of boys by age 3 years. Only 1% of boys have physiologic phimosis that persists until age 17 years."

So the medical profession as a majority promotes a very painful operation, circumcision, to 100% of infant boys because 1% might not retract and end up with phimosis?

"The foreskin of an uncircumcised child should not be forcefully retracted. This may result in significant bleeding, as well as glanular excoriation and injury. Consequently, dense fibrous adhesions may form during the healing process, leading to true pathologic phimosis." They, in fact, could cause phimosis as well by not properly handling an infant's penis, therefore it would not have actually occurred if it had been left alone to retract on its own.
The estimated **1% to 3%** (which is great than the incidence of adult phimosis) incidence of complications after newborn circumcision covers only the immediate postoperative period prior to the infant's discharge from the hospital. The reported risks are hemorrhage in 1%, infection - occasionally leading to sepsis - in 0.5%, meat[iti]s and meatal... See More stenosis, u[r]ethrocutaneous fistula, adhesions between the glans and remaining prepuce, secondary phimosis, and cosmetically unsatisfactory results. The rate of subsequent repeat surgery to correct adhesions of the glans, meatal stenosis, fistula, and phimosis with buried penis is unknown, but our practice at Children's Hospital of Philadelphia includes about two such cases per month. While this is not a large percentage of the total number of circumcisions preformed, it is a significant number of children undergoing surgery for the complication of this operation. "

- Schwartz, et al. "Pediatric Primary Care: A Problem-solving Approach" pp 861-862.

(At 1.25 million circumcisions of newborns in the US per year, a 0.5% infection rate amounts to 6000 cases per year, and a 4% overall rate of complications requiring treatment represents 48,000 patients experiencing avoidable morbidity.)

Meatal stenosis is a relatively common acquired condition occurring in 9%-10% of males who are circumcised.
Meatal Stenosis: eMedicine Pediatrics: Surgery
 
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ChildByGrace

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No we didn't have our son done. I don't believe it's needed for religious reasons or hygine reasons. If there was a hygine reason in the future then yes I would consider it. I don't see the need to put a child through an operation if there is nothing wrong
 
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No. It's very difficult to get a baby circumcised here. Only a small percentage of Canadian babies are circumcised at all, and only one doctor in our city does it and he doesn't encourage it.

The risk of complication from the surgery is greater than the possible advantages. Some types of complications are actually quite common, like leaving too little skin.

It is nasty for the baby.

Men's penisis and little boys don't look much alike anyway. And kids usuually take such differences in stride - no child worries because his nose or hair colour is different.

Historically Christians have not circumcised for religious reasons.

My husband was done, but none of the boys on my side of the family but one, and it was botched.

I would never cut off my daughters labia for any of these reasons either.
 
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I'll admit the thought of it scares the crap out of me but I am in the process of converting to Judaism so if we ever have a son, he needs to be circumcised. I admit, I'd just about rather have all girls than deal with it. If for some reason I didn't complete my conversion, I'm not sure what we would do if we had a boy.
 
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