I'll try, I am better with drawing stuff than words.
A centimeter is an arbitrary unit. It is as long as it is because most don’t question its lengths. It’s unlikely someone will claim circular reasoning when confronted with a length of an object, given in centimeter.
Measuring the age of a rock falls in the same tasks of measuring something. The proverbial centimeter equals an event in relative dating, or rock layers. It does not give you an actual age yet, only that a rock or fossil was at a given event. One also needs to make sure the rock layers were not turned upside down with earths’ relentless motions, are all accounted for and so on and so forth. One pieces this slowly together on how old a given rock might be. To arrive at the age, one needs an absolute read out. Rocks, well, they are not all that willing to volunteer for a gcystiphyllum niagarenseood read out. Fossils embedded in a rock may give one a better absolute reading with radiometric dating than the rock itself. And this is where I think that phrase comes from. Yet the fossil was in the rock. So it's a one way street, nothing two way or circular, unless you challenge the entire unit of measurement.
Hopefully this is making more sense, if not, I have all weekend, to re-read my old books, and give a better answer with back ups.