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Church Singles Groups

Citanul

Well, when exactly do you mean?
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I am biased here as I'm a big board games fan, but I do think that they're a very good group activity as it's an activity which does encourage interaction, and that's something which can make more introverted members of a group feel more comfortable. I can often fade into the background when it comes to general group interaction, but I don't have the same problem when playing board games, and I do think I come out of my shell that way.

And I would say that people who don't think they'd be into board games all that much might find themselves surprised as to what's out there. The hobby has moved a long way from the likes of Monopoly, Scrabble and Trivial Pursuit. There's an incredible variety of games out there, and importantly a lot that are very easy to learn and do reasonably well at (even if experience with a game will generally triumph), or alternatively co-operative games where everyone is playing against the game and will win or lose as a group.

The one downside is that board games aren't ideally suited for large group. In my experience, it seems that the majority of games can only handle up to four players, and while there's a good number which go up to six, beyond that options become very limited, and the nature of the games that accommodate large numbers is different from the ones for fewer players.

An option is to split up into smaller groups, but that would require having enough experienced game players so that there's at least one person in each group who can teach the others. It also can mean that if the intention is to play more than one game in an evening then you can end up being stuck playing with the same people throughout as there's no way of ensuring that games are going to finish at similar times to enable switching up the groups.

None of those are insurmountable problems, so they're certainly not reasons not to have a games night, but just things to be aware of when it comes to planning for large groups.
 
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NOTWHATIWAS

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Is anyone here a part of a singles group/ministry at a local or nearby church?

If so what has your experience been? Good? Bad? In between?

The reason I am asking is that earlier this week I did some research about singles groups of various churches within the community in which I live. I was surprised that I almost came up 'empty handed' in that most church websites did not even so much as mention a singles ministry.

The few that did failed to go into much detail beyond 'send an e-mail to such a such an individual for further details about our singles ministry'. I believe there was one church that mentioned a singles group that meets at church on an early weekday evening. Unfortunately, that does not quite fit my schedule.

I did, however, come across one 'mega church' that has a singles groups that gets together each Sunday morning at 9:00 AM. I am thinking about attending this Sunday but am uncertain what to expect. For example, I have no idea about what the leadership is like or what type of people I will be encountering.

I like to think it would be a positive environment in that I will be sharing two things with the people I will be meeting: a shared single status but also the same faith. But also keep in mind I am somewhat of a loner and lack the strongest social skills. I am also not the most attractive guy. So all things added up I am uncertain if I am going to be accepted within this group.

So for those that are currently part of (or previously been) part of a church singles group what suggestions do you have? Right now I am getting butterflies in my stomach at the thought of showing up this Sunday, but I also need to get out and meet people. Please note that my motives are not to 'date' anyone or form a relationship but rather meet people and make new friends.

I get social anxiety as well. I think you should just start attending the group and the more you attend the easier it will get. Don,t focus on how attractive you are or see yourself to be. Just focus on the fellowship and making friends with other singles. You are right that this is not a dating group but God can use it if He wants to bring a prospective soul mate to you. Pray, believe and don,t doubt. He will make His will for your future known to you.
 
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