The scripture literally says it is the elders job to give the wake up call of church discipline to unrepentant church members and not even eat with them.
Scripture does not say that being fat, or obese, is a sin.
If the church elders thought that it was, and that it was any of their business to judge, they SHOULD eat with an obese person, to monitor their food intake.
Wonder how many church members they would lose if that were to happen?
So like, why do American Christians pretend the whole concept of church discipline is only for people who have affairs?
No idea; I'm not American.
I just don’t get it. If someone is sinning, you go to them and they won’t repent, you take the elders and they won’t repent, then you Have to do the drastic step of church discipline with the goal of repentence.
Being overweight is not a sin for which repentance is demanded.
I guess people keep forgetting the OP is talking about people morbidly obese that’s 100 pounds overweight. I literally can’t imagine how some of these people can say it’s a “slow metabolism.” It’s abject gluttony.
It may be in many cases, but not all.
A person's weight is a personal thing; it's rude to comment on it and not our place to judge. As I said, the only person, outside of family, who could get away with it, would be a GP.
There is no medical condition in the universe that can make you 100 pounds overweight.
Yet only this week I read of someone who went to a slimming group, was thought to be cheating because she put weight on and gained 17 stone in weight before being diagnosed with Cushing's disease. This might be an extreme, and rare case, as Cushing's disease itself is rare. But it contradicts your "no medical condition in the universe" statement. People can also gain weight with an under-active thyroid or a tumour - maybe not 100 pounds, it depends how quickly it is diagnosed or spotted. There is also a condition called Prada Willi syndrome where a person cannot stop eating - and not only food.
So there ARE medical conditions, and drugs like steroids, that cause weight gain. We don't know the reasons for someone's gain in weight, so it's not for us to judge.
These people are often too fat to even feed themselves and they have full time enablers who work and buy them and cook them and feed them massive amounts of food. It’s the epitome of gluttony to be 100 pounds overweight
It MAY be - it may be due to a condition that you know nothing about.
Even overeating/using food for comfort can be a symptom of something else.
It’s the epitome of gluttony to be 100 pounds overweight and it needs to be called exactly what it is not protected by well meaning Christians. That’s not love.
It's not love to go up to someone you don't know, call them out on their weight, say they are sinners and demand that the elders/church leaders discipline them.