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I'm reading Blue Like Jazz, and it intrigues me. The author comments about the word "Christian". I relate to his perspective.

What does the word "Christian" mean to people?

I have to agree with Donald Miller. It does seem like a rather negative word nowadays. Reminiscient of... idealisms, and offense.

After reading and contemplating about this a little, I've come to agree with the author. Speaking in context of church, I feel like it means either selling out to an audience, being among a few godly people while the rest are following the idealisms crafted by the response to this post-modern world - more specifically, how people seperate from living out a simple, child like faith, and follow after others' beliefs.

Come to think of it, I used to be this way. I still am I suppose. I guess I can't help it. My natural instinct to the unknown is to either... ramble on about some ideal, state the core beliefs of Calvinism (TULIP), or just say "God doesn't want me to do this/that". It's hard to admit that, well, I just don't know. Yeah it's easy to think about saying that to my Youth Pastor, but a non-believer? I feel like that's almost Christian suicide.

And these differences in churches. I come from a conservative background. My take is that more liberal-oriented churches are liberal in response to the conservative-ness. But... isn't it true to say that conservative churches are conservative because they fear the unknown? Fear change, challenge, or a different God? What about liberal churches? "Community" churches, for example. Isn't it true to say they are more open-ended because they fear the unknown just as much as the conservative churches? Fear matrix of beliefs, constructed systems, stipulations, deemed unnecessary ceremonies?

The church seems neurotic. But I can see how one can have child-like faith in both "wings" of the church I can worship God while knowing that he has saved a totally depraved, unconditionally elected, have atonement of the elected, intrinsically desiring of a Savior, and protected beyond life and death. And I can worship a holy, infinite, wise, all-knowing Father who loves me (His child), cares for me, and wants the best for me.

So where's the balance? How should I present myself in the face of the world? In light of the term "Christian", with the background that comes with that label? Killers, murderers, thieves, haters, ignorant, idealistic, arrogant, inconsiderate, close-minded, selfish? Crusades are stamped in history. Interviews on television are nonwithstanding. People who don't know what they're talking about... like me.

What do you think? How can a "Christian" be relevant in an anti-"Christian", post-modern culture? Is it by setting definitions on my life, reasoning, knowledge and understanding now... or is it an event-by-event basis?
 
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I think the answer to your post can be found in these 13 words said by Jesus in Matthew 5 v 16...Let YOUR light shine before men, that THEY may see YOUR good deeds.


Jesus tells us to be like light to towards others. If we go into a room at night and close the door, but don't switch the light on, then we can't see anything until the light is switched on, everything is in darkness. But if someone else came into the room and switched the light on for us, we would see everything clearly. And so it should be that if we live for Christ, we should be like a light switched on in a darkened world showing others what Jesus is like.

So the real question we need to ask ourself is-
Do we own Jesus or disown Jesus?

we disown Jesus when we hope none of our non-Christian friends will find out that we proclaim to be Christian's. When we decide to keep our mouths closed by not speaking up for our belifes and are silent about our relationship with Jesus. blend into society accepting non-Christian values. But when we truley own Jesus then we look for opportunities to share our faith with others. We help those in need. take a stand against non-Christian values. Use our lifes and resources to carry out the desires of Jesus rather than our own desires.

God bless you
Paul.​
 
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I think an answer to your question would require a better understanding of how the word Christian is used. Is it merely a label for a few nuts sitting behind right feel, or is it the name given to a way of life that scares many because of its nature in a very secular world? The more the arrogance of society grows the more the word Christian will mean the former. However as believers in Christ Jesus we must remember that no matter how our faith is viewed by outsides we must be strong and resist the temptations the represent. The more we resist these temptations the stronger they will become and the more they will turn the very name or our religion into something to be mocked.
 
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Ok. “Christian” is one of the words which can be defined the most hardly, as “God”, “Love” , “Chosen People” and “Israel”. On my opinion, “Christian” is one who is separated from Pagans. It was just Abraham that converted to Father and became the ancestor of all believers.


So, we should be Christian truly. :amen:
 
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