CHEATING

[HeatherJay]

I'm sorry, in one sentence you talk about personal responsibility, why not apply personal responsibility to this? If a wife is frigid and cold, naggin and hateful, she has a personal responsibility to change. A wife has choices in this area as well.

I didn't mean to imply that she didn't. She definitely does have a personal responsibility to treat her husband well. My point was that one person's bad behavior doesn't justify the bad behavior of another. Ultimately, we need to realize that the only person who's behavior we can change is ourselves. As I said, everything comes down to a choice...you either choose to act this way, or you don't.

I agree with your post 100%...I didn't mean to imply that it's acceptable for anyone to act the way you (and I) described. I only meant to say that there is nothing that can justify cheating.

Love, Heather

 

[believer12]

It isn't you. That is a lie from the enemy. I am going through a similar situation (my husband has struggled with internet porn). I know the pain you may be going through... the lonliness... feel free to IM sometime. Keep praying for him and you.