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Chasing Lost Children!

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[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, serif]9How can young people keep their way pure? By guarding it according to your word. 10With my whole heart I seek you; do not let me stray from your commandments. 11I treasure your word in my heart, so that I may not sin against you. Psalm 119:9-17[/FONT]

We brought our babies to church twice on Sunday and for Wednesday fellowship. We made sure they were in every holiday pageant and that hopefully they were in front so we could get the good pictures taken. We made sure they remembered their weekly scriptures and learned the hymns in childrens choir. We had a our lock ins for them and try to make things cool enough so they didnt feel left out in youth group. We scraped the money up so they could attend summer camp and have the coolest stuff to wear at it.

But somewhere in all this effort, the enemy saw our attempts to rear them in God's holy will, sitting on the sidelines the darkness looked for weeknesses not always in the child but mostly the parent (s). Giving in to earthly desires, fads, styles, peer pressures, by popular demand the parent (s) buckles in by the demands of the wordly pace. Little by little the Godly front is worn down until the child that grew up in church no longer believes that Jesus is their special friend anymore.

It is too easy to just throw all the blame on the parent (s). Or just throw in the towel and claim it was the rebellious child who could not be tamed. Like the pastor of a church; if he teaches in blatant error form, misleading the people, that church will fall. So, in respect to leading astray a child, is it from laziness, inconsistencies, or parent burn out that they choose to let go? For a lot of families, they just let the child drift until they are hellbent on destroyng themselves and taken down their family in the process.

The enemy sees everything, hears everything and knows his prey. He has had several milliniums to perfect his tactics. The seeds of rebellion and destruction are sown in the hearts of children through their social structure, peers, and common forms of medias. Home and family are the places inwhich your child seeks solace and refuge from all the ugly terrible things that happen in youth. Satan knows this therefore he will chew at the roots of the family tree to destroy its mighty fortress. He will do everything in his bag of dirty tricks to make fools of parents.

Meanwhile, you have the most devasting task before you..watching the baby you both love with everything you have fall, and they fall hard. For families who do not know the Lord, can you imagine the insurmountable pain they suffer, the sick feeling in the depths of their soul....watching their child brake. Then you think its not so bad after all. It still hurts, it still gets you burning mad and you still want justice for your child is being attacked and beaten up literally by the world and unseen principalities.

Yet, they came to Jesus with a babes faith and again we have to hope that once again Christ in his loving mercy will let them come unto him again and restore that baby's faith and renew their love once again. God promises if we train them up right they will return to what they know. I believe God already knew that mothers and fathers would unfortunantly suffer this plight, not all of them but some.

Remember in prayer that hope in the unseen is faith in the promise of mercy and grace. Pray for those who are lost and running after their lost child in this very unforgiving dark world.
 
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I see tons of ways families represent God and our relationship to Him. When I think of having 'wayward' children it just reminds me of how we have turned away from God since the beginning. A parents suffering is but a glimmer of what God has been through with our rebellion.

I confidently believe that if we raise up our children in the way that they should go, and they SEEMINGLY fall to the wayside or give up, that we can intentionally reel them back in with our love. That is how God did it. I don't think I would desire the things of God so much if it wasn't for His actions of love.

If it is any indication, I fell HARD (although I often wonder if I had ever stood up to begin with) for a long while. The prayers of my mother and other saints, in love and dedication, is what ultimately brought me back to my source of life. I still remember getting angry, and fighting the prayers, because I could actually feel they were changing me despite me being states away at the time. My mom was ecstatic when I made that call to tell her that her prayers had worked.

Be blessed!
 
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I see tons of ways families represent God and our relationship to Him. When I think of having 'wayward' children it just reminds me of how we have turned away from God since the beginning. A parents suffering is but a glimmer of what God has been through with our rebellion.

I confidently believe that if we raise up our children in the way that they should go, and they SEEMINGLY fall to the wayside or give up, that we can intentionally reel them back in with our love. That is how God did it. I don't think I would desire the things of God so much if it wasn't for His actions of love.

If it is any indication, I fell HARD (although I often wonder if I had ever stood up to begin with) for a long while. The prayers of my mother and other saints, in love and dedication, is what ultimately brought me back to my source of life. I still remember getting angry, and fighting the prayers, because I could actually feel they were changing me despite me being states away at the time. My mom was ecstatic when I made that call to tell her that her prayers had worked.

Be blessed!
Beautiful post, yes, love never fails, thank God for praying moms! It's amzing that you could feel her praying you back!
 
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I see tons of ways families represent God and our relationship to Him. When I think of having 'wayward' children it just reminds me of how we have turned away from God since the beginning. A parents suffering is but a glimmer of what God has been through with our rebellion.

I confidently believe that if we raise up our children in the way that they should go, and they SEEMINGLY fall to the wayside or give up, that we can intentionally reel them back in with our love. That is how God did it. I don't think I would desire the things of God so much if it wasn't for His actions of love.

If it is any indication, I fell HARD (although I often wonder if I had ever stood up to begin with) for a long while. The prayers of my mother and other saints, in love and dedication, is what ultimately brought me back to my source of life. I still remember getting angry, and fighting the prayers, because I could actually feel they were changing me despite me being states away at the time. My mom was ecstatic when I made that call to tell her that her prayers had worked.

Be blessed!

I agree, beautiful post!
Thanks for the encouragement.:hug:
 
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Hey hawlak,

Like your new outfit!;) :)
:D what to do in all the spare time. Thank God for cf armoury to satisfy my shopping sprees w/o the outflow of cash ^_^

The freestore where I work is closed for the summer too, so "shopping' at cf is the next best thing!!!!!
 
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My parents were crushed when I turned from God and just kept getting further and further away. Eventually I fell into Satanism and thought I would never have anything to do with God again. I liked the false sense of security, freedom, and power that came with being a Satanist. I hated God and everything that had to do with God, or so I told myself. The entire time I was away from God I knew that He was still there, waiting for me to come back. I knew that my parents loved me and even though they weren't forcing me to go to church or lead the spiritual life they wanted me to they were praying for me constantly. The Satanism started to scare me and scare the people closest to me. I couldn't do it anymore and I gave my life back to God. Now that that period of my life is done and over with I realized that I only did what I did not because I really hated God, but because I didn't want my parents to be right about everything they had taught me in growing up. All the "rules" that they set for me and the "family devotional time" that we had each week I thought were all stupid. I thought they were just trying to be the King of the castle and do whatever they could to make my life miserable. So I rebelled. But it's ok because now I know that my parents love me more than anything and that's why they raised me the way they did, because they wanted me to have a loving relationship with the Father that I now have. I am very thankful for my parents and their teachings and I am so sorry for what I did to them. But I'm also thankful that even through those dark times I still felt God and I still carried my parent's teachings with me even though I didn't want to. Proverbs 22:6 says "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." This is so true. Have faith. Just because a child may fall, doesn't mean he's lost. Keep on praying for the youth that fall away from God, and they will find their way back.
 
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my parents love me more than anything and that's why they raised me the way they did, because they wanted me to have a loving relationship with the Father that I now have.


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I'm thankful that even through those dark times I still felt God and I still carried my parent's teachings with me even though I didn't want to. Proverbs 22:6 says "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." This is so true. Have faith. Just because a child may fall, doesn't mean he's lost. Keep on praying for the youth that fall away from God, and they will find their way back.

That's beautiful and I really believe that for all the mothers that have prayed and for those who's loved one died with an uncertain future, I honestly believe that the millinium is for those who are prayed in and are given another lifetime (well, an old testement lifetime of 1000 yrs) to get it right again before satan entices them again.
Prayers are that important so like the unfaithful steward who ingratuated himself with the kings debtors. the spiritual equivalent of that is storing up the prayers of the saints, imo
Praise God for those who have re-turned their life to Him.
 
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My parents were crushed when I turned from God and just kept getting further and further away. Eventually I fell into Satanism and thought I would never have anything to do with God again. I liked the false sense of security, freedom, and power that came with being a Satanist. I hated God and everything that had to do with God, or so I told myself. The entire time I was away from God I knew that He was still there, waiting for me to come back. I knew that my parents loved me and even though they weren't forcing me to go to church or lead the spiritual life they wanted me to they were praying for me constantly. The Satanism started to scare me and scare the people closest to me. I couldn't do it anymore and I gave my life back to God. Now that that period of my life is done and over with I realized that I only did what I did not because I really hated God, but because I didn't want my parents to be right about everything they had taught me in growing up. All the "rules" that they set for me and the "family devotional time" that we had each week I thought were all stupid. I thought they were just trying to be the King of the castle and do whatever they could to make my life miserable. So I rebelled. But it's ok because now I know that my parents love me more than anything and that's why they raised me the way they did, because they wanted me to have a loving relationship with the Father that I now have. I am very thankful for my parents and their teachings and I am so sorry for what I did to them. But I'm also thankful that even through those dark times I still felt God and I still carried my parent's teachings with me even though I didn't want to. Proverbs 22:6 says "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." This is so true. Have faith. Just because a child may fall, doesn't mean he's lost. Keep on praying for the youth that fall away from God, and they will find their way back.


You know something.when I read your post it moved me to humility and a place of hope. I am in a place with my adult children that is very uncomfortable...the only thing I can trust at this time is the Lord and in my prayers I find solace. God bless your parents for "fighting the good fight" because YOU ARE WORTH IT! God Bless You for the revelation of your past and the ability to share with others.

Strangely enough in the mystery of God's plan you have the to tools now to tell others of your rebellion, your transformation and the grace in your salvation. AMEN!:amen:
 
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