I've worked nearly ten years with my present church's youth ministry, and I'm in a fairly strong authority position with the kids there.
I'm wondering how to cross tougher subjects with kids -- subjects which may not commend them, and subjects where they may well already feel embarrassment at their own behavior. But I also get the feeling they are sometimes harder on themselves (without fixing the problem) than I would be. I'm also quite certain they'll have problems that I still have with myself, too.
Does anyone have pointers on how to bring up points tenderly, carefully, so we can work them through, together?
I'm wondering how to cross tougher subjects with kids -- subjects which may not commend them, and subjects where they may well already feel embarrassment at their own behavior. But I also get the feeling they are sometimes harder on themselves (without fixing the problem) than I would be. I'm also quite certain they'll have problems that I still have with myself, too.
Does anyone have pointers on how to bring up points tenderly, carefully, so we can work them through, together?