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This is not aimed at any specific person but is a general statement about how things have been going in this forum. I think it's a shame there is so much conflict over this subforum due to trads reporting and such, but I think it's an even greater shame that we make so many new threads about it. When I first joined this website I created a thread called "Why the Antagonism?" because nearly half of the threads I saw were retaliation against trads for reporting or some other abuse. It isn't that I don't agree we should have better rules to prevent this abuse, but the way we let it get us so upset I don't agree with.

There are several threads I simply don't bother getting involved in anymore. And it's not because I don't have a strong opinion about it, but because I wouldn't be helping anyone or anything, but my ego, by saying what I think. I just hope maybe we all can think about that. I'm sorry if this sounded like a sermon because I don't mean to patronize anyone, but if anyone has noticed my inactivity on here over the last couple days that is why.

"Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose himhe must gently instruct, in hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will." (2 Timothy 2:23-26 NIV)
 

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Andrew--just so you know--your people come over to the trad area and do just as much reporting as you are claiming the we do. I think the field is pretty well even on that account. But as you say-the BIG difference is that you don't see us starting 50 new threads whining about it.
 
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Andrew--just so you know--your people come over to the trad area and do just as much reporting as you are claiming the we do. I think the field is pretty well even on that account. But as you say-the BIG difference is that you don't see us starting 50 new threads whining about it.

I don't see Andrew as one who is trying to point a finger at either side, but as one who would like to encourage all of us to just simply act like Christians and stop all of this foolishness of hurting each other.

I think that is a good idea.
 
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Andrew--just so you know--your people come over to the trad area and do just as much reporting as you are claiming the we do. I think the field is pretty well even on that account. But as you say-the BIG difference is that you don't see us starting 50 new threads whining about it.
given that the process is now private you don't know that for a fact..... I doubt very seriously that people go to the traditional section, the traditionals barely use that section themselves.... it is onesided and it is not the progressive camp that is waging war in the progressive section, nor the traditional section....
Nice try at spinning it though....
 
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well actually...i see lots of progs in there reading. Just thought i would clear that up.

Dont get me wrong, i have no problem with that. as long as everyone practices the forum rules, i have no problem with anyone posting anywhere. Like i said, as long it follows forum rules and everyone behaves themselves.
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well actually...i see lots of progs in there reading. Just thought i would clear that up.

Dont get me wrong, i have no problem with that. as long as everyone practices the forum rules, i have no problem with anyone posting anywhere. Like i said, as long it follows forum rules and everyone behaves themselves.
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reading is not the problem.... the problem would be if they began to bait, flame and report what is being posted there.... that is not happening like it is here... IMO....
 
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reading is not the problem.... the problem would be if they began to bait, flame and report what is being posted there.... that is not happening like it is here... IMO....

Actually, posts in there have been reported on many occasions.

Do you think the Trads are reporting each other?
 
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This is not aimed at any specific person but is a general statement about how things have been going in this forum. I think it's a shame there is so much conflict over this subforum due to trads reporting and such, but I think it's an even greater shame that we make so many new threads about it. When I first joined this website I created a thread called "Why the Antagonism?" because nearly half of the threads I saw were retaliation against trads for reporting or some other abuse. It isn't that I don't agree we should have better rules to prevent this abuse, but the way we let it get us so upset I don't agree with.

There are several threads I simply don't bother getting involved in anymore. And it's not because I don't have a strong opinion about it, but because I wouldn't be helping anyone or anything, but my ego, by saying what I think. I just hope maybe we all can think about that. I'm sorry if this sounded like a sermon because I don't mean to patronize anyone, but if anyone has noticed my inactivity on here over the last couple days that is why.

"Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose himhe must gently instruct, in hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will." (2 Timothy 2:23-26 NIV)

I dont believe in reporting anyone, unless their intent is evil or improper for this type of forum. I feel we can all have a friendly discussion no matter what we believe and show love through our sharing of truth and fellowship. If we cannot love our brother or sister here, then what will we do in eternal life... the answers is, we wont be there...
 
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given that the process is now private you don't know that for a fact..... I doubt very seriously that people go to the traditional section, the traditionals barely use that section themselves.... it is onesided and it is not the progressive camp that is waging war in the progressive section, nor the traditional section....
Nice try at spinning it though....
Wrong again ole Storm boy---I know for a FACT that a few of you have come over to the trad area and started reporting. As a matter of fact--a few threads were started in the prog area as a direct result of some snooping in our area.

So we really need to do some research before posting something as fact when it isn't.
 
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Wrong again ole Storm boy---I know for a FACT that a few of you have come over to the trad area and started reporting. As a matter of fact--a few threads were started in the prog area as a direct result of some snooping in our area.

So we really need to do some research before posting something as fact when it isn't.
I do go read over there, although if I were to 'snoop', as you say, I would log out first. But I don't log out. And I have NEVER reported ANYTHING from the TRAD area. I could count my reports in the past year with only my fingers. When you see my name in the TRAD area, it's because I don't mind at all if you do. But I have noticed that there's not much action over there, and I'm reluctant to post anything because of the inevitable reporting. It's not exactly a forum open to discussion unless you already agree with everything that is said. Consequently that's why false ideas and teachings are allowed to flourish, because there is no opportunity to hold accountable those who promote certain lines of thought without being reported and having your posts deleted. It's much like the main forum where TRAD's are allowed to post whatever they want without any accountability.
 
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Wrong again ole Storm boy---I know for a FACT that a few of you have come over to the trad area and started reporting. As a matter of fact--a few threads were started in the prog area as a direct result of some snooping in our area.

So we really need to do some research before posting something as fact when it isn't.
I am speaking fact.... other than Night, who else would visit your area and reports anything? There really isn't that much going on.... since discussion cannot take place there Night has come to this area and started threads... last I checked that is allowed.... and as I said, since the reporting is now hidden from view how do you know who is reporting?
 
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I have already said I have made many reports from that area. I have never tried to hide that. Not one of them was offensive in nature. They have all been defensive and in retaliation to the reports given to me. It is not for 'snooping' purposes, as I really could care less what you talk about over there. Doesn't interest me in the least. In fact, if it wasn't for necessity in the war against harrassment in here, I would never be over there and have to feel like I have to take a shower afterwards to wash off the intolerance.

If you want it to stop, simply stop reporting us. But, of course, Woob has already stated he will be reporting any and everything I say that he deems offensive. So, you can expect more Honor. Much more. I already have PM's from two people who have said they plan to take affirmative action with thier report finger until the Trads stop coming in here to cause problems.

And, since we now have it on good authority from two mods that mass reporting is not against the rules and Woob will not be held accountable for doing it, what is good for the Trads is good for the Progs.

A report for a report. In my case, two for every one, until you guys stay out and stop reporting us.

I see no one takes the time to notice that it was Woob who made the first report in this whole recent mess. But of course, that is ignored in favor of blaming the Progs.

Do you seriously think he can come blowing in here in complete arrogance, demanding everyone share his opinions and start mass reporting without some sort of response? Hello, reality check!!

As for starting threads over here for the sole purpose of responding to false accusations and charges made about us over there, I am within my rights to do so. I have no desire to post in your area, so the record has (and will continue to be) set straight here.
 
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I have already said I have made many reports from that area. I have never tried to hide that. Not one of them was offensive in nature. They have all been defensive and in retaliation to the reports given to me. It is not for 'snooping' purposes, as I really could care less what you talk about over there. Doesn't interest me in the least. In fact, if it wasn't for necessity in the war against harrassment in here, I would never be over there and have to feel like I have to take a shower afterwards to wash off the intolerance.

If you want it to stop, simply stop reporting us. But, of course, Woob has already stated he will be reporting any and everything I say that he deems offensive. So, you can expect more Honor. Much more. I already have PM's from two people who have said they plan to take affirmative action with thier report finger until the Trads stop coming in here to cause problems.

And, since we now have it on good authority from two mods that mass reporting is not against the rules and Woob will not be held accountable for doing it, what is good for the Trads is good for the Progs.

A report for a report. In my case, two for every one, until you guys stay out and stop reporting us.

I see no one takes the time to notice that it was Woob who made the first report in this whole recent mess. But of course, that is ignored in favor of blaming the Progs.

Do you seriously think he can come blowing in here in complete arrogance, demanding everyone share his opinions and start mass reporting without some sort of response? Hello, reality check!!

As for starting threads over here for the sole purpose of responding to false accusations and charges made about us over there, I am within my rights to do so. I have no desire to post in your area, so the record has (and will continue to be) set straight here.

I don't think it is fair to accuse people of doing something wrong for reporting posts that are offensive.

Should such posts be ignored?

What is the purpose of having a report system if reporting is a bad thing?

As I had said before, the simple solution is to just simply not flame other members or use ad hominem when addressing their posts.

If such behavior would stop there would be no reason to report anyone in here and we could all get along with each other.

And as I had requested of you before, please refrain from referring to me in a negative way in your posts. It is not necessary to say 'woob' in order to make a point.

Thank you.
 
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I don't think it is fair to accuse people of doing something wrong for reporting posts that are offensive.

Should such posts be ignored?

What is the purpose of having a report system if reporting is a bad thing?

As I had said before, the simple solution is to just simply not flame other members or use ad hominem when addressing their posts.

If such behavior would stop there would be no reason to report anyone in here and we could all get along with each other.

And as I had requested of you before, please refrain from referring to me in a negative way in your posts. It is not necessary to say 'woob' in order to make a point.

Thank you.
Since you seem to be a person witha trigger finger when it comes to reporting members I don't understand why you enter a section where the chances are you will come across views that you disagree with and that will offend you? You seem easily offended, do you have a problem dealing with opposing viewpoints?
 
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Since you seem to be a person witha trigger finger when it comes to reporting members I don't understand why you enter a section where the chances are you will come across views that you disagree with and that will offend you? You seem easily offended, do you have a problem dealing with opposing viewpoints?

No.

I just want people to be more polite about sharing them with me.

It would also be nice if they would address the content of a post rather than try to assassinate the character of the poster.
 
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Oh, you mean like the way you called me a 'demon', Senti a 'snake' and God knows what else to Stormy? What non-character assassination things did you say to Free in your hate-PM's to him? Or how about how you constantly attack our spirituality and never miss an oppourtunity to personally slander us, even going so far as to claim we are not even Christians?

Yeah, I got your number alright.
 
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