Caught my uncle chekcing me out.

[shinbits]

I would advise against sending an email, and wait (if possible) to talk to him in person. The reason is, that you can't take an e-mail back, and it's there forever that you accused your uncle of checking you out.

If you can, try to talk to him in person. Use an e-mail as a last resort if you don't think you'll see him in person any time soon.

 

[brinny]

Whatever you do, do not trust being alone with your uncle.

I agree.

 

[brinny]

I would advise against sending an email, and wait (if possible) to talk to him in person. The reason is, that you can't take an e-mail back, and it's there forever that you accused your uncle of checking you out.

If you can, try to talk to him in person. Use an e-mail as a last resort if you don't think you'll see him in person any time soon.

She should not be alone with him. If he was checking her out he could twist whatever she says and use the fact that she sought HIM out, to say that she must've not been too upset that he was checking her out, and he wasn't checking her out anyway....and see? She's the one after me.

She should ALWAYS trust her gut.

 

[shinbits]

She should not be alone with him. If he was checking her out he could twist whatever she says and use the fact that she sought HIM out, to say that she must've not been too upset that he was checking her out, and he wasn't checking her out anyway....and see? She's the one after me.

She should ALWAYS trust her gut.

She doesn't have to be in an upstairs bedroom with the door locked in order to discuss something privately. She can pull him aside to an empty corner in a room full of people, or be in another room that is still visible to people next to that room.

But you're right, gut instinct is still the best. If she doesn't feel comfortable doing even that, then she should send the e-mail, if that's what she feels is best.

 

[brinny]

you are a wise brother in Christ....she needs the wisdom and discernment that God gives us, and our "gut" instinct is part of that. Too many women stifle it or shush it up only to find out later they should'a paid heed to it.

God bless you, shinbits.