christian boyrfriend vs. catholic girlfriend, can it work?
Well, I am very new to this site and stumbled upon cause I was looking for an answer(s). I am catholic and my boyfriend is a divorced (christian). So, I am really confused. I know he wants to remarry (with me), but I dont feel our marriage wont be validated by God. Second I want to marry in a catholic church and want to know if this is agaisnt any christian rule. Third my boyfriend stated to me that we should not have sexual relations till we were married. Which i am fine with its just now I notice he is not ok with it. I dont know what to do, I dont know if having sex is wise before we are married, especially since he already said not to in the beginning ( I feel he contradicts himself, (even though we both have in the past). we constantly fight about religon. He said I dont know about the Holy Spirt because I am catholic and that I am a sinner cause I dont go to church all the time. I told him than he cant be a that much of a christian if he has been divorced and now knowingly want to have sex. I am tired of fighting and I want to know can christians and catholics marry, attend seperate church, raise kids on different beliefs and be happy, or am I gonna have to convert (because I dont want to). I dont want to lose or not marry him its just sometimes he makes me feel that a christian women would be better for. Please help me because I love him, I hope you didnt find any of my comments or problems resentful. Its just I had to ask another christian these questions who would answer them without and prejudice and honestly, thanks so much
Well, I am very new to this site and stumbled upon cause I was looking for an answer(s). I am catholic and my boyfriend is a divorced (christian). So, I am really confused. I know he wants to remarry (with me), but I dont feel our marriage wont be validated by God. Second I want to marry in a catholic church and want to know if this is agaisnt any christian rule. Third my boyfriend stated to me that we should not have sexual relations till we were married. Which i am fine with its just now I notice he is not ok with it. I dont know what to do, I dont know if having sex is wise before we are married, especially since he already said not to in the beginning ( I feel he contradicts himself, (even though we both have in the past). we constantly fight about religon. He said I dont know about the Holy Spirt because I am catholic and that I am a sinner cause I dont go to church all the time. I told him than he cant be a that much of a christian if he has been divorced and now knowingly want to have sex. I am tired of fighting and I want to know can christians and catholics marry, attend seperate church, raise kids on different beliefs and be happy, or am I gonna have to convert (because I dont want to). I dont want to lose or not marry him its just sometimes he makes me feel that a christian women would be better for. Please help me because I love him, I hope you didnt find any of my comments or problems resentful. Its just I had to ask another christian these questions who would answer them without and prejudice and honestly, thanks so much