Well, the preparation day is *just* tradition (not demanded by Torah), but it makes sense to get as much of your work done and out the way as possible in order to enjoy the sabbath to it's full.
A further question, although I will state my pre-determined opinion on this, which may change if anyone presents a worthy argument, but right now I can only really see that we can only rely on opinion and reasoning with regards to anything beyond what we have already established in this thread, and my opinion is:
- I think that in certain circumstances such as the circumstances that I'm about to present, there is no harm in some limited spending on the sabbath, HOWEVER, I'm sure there are ways to avoid it, and if they can be avoided without detriment to your enjoyment of the sabbath rest, then they still should be.
And, the question is:
Imagine a scenario in which someone is a parent, and works long hours, perhaps even night shifts, and only gets one day off work a week. Let's say, for arguments sake, because I know what long hours they do, how tired they are and how limited free time they get that isn't just spent sleeping, and hopefully you guys understand just how heavy this and similar professions and trades can be.
So, let's say that Saturday, the shabbat, is the only day that this person has to do all their shopping (regardless of whether or not they have a partner who may or may not take care of the groceries), and the only day in which to take their children out, and say they want to experience things like taking their children to McDonalds, to the funfair, to the movies, to have icecream, to have treats, to have toys, etc etc, do you think that, in the previously described situations in which there are gentiles who would be working anyway, regardless of whether or not sabbath keepers buy there, who are selling, and so you are not putting anyone to work, could you bend the rules of the sabbath, so that the parent can enjoy their free day with their kids and have fun? Maybe it dsoesn't even have to be EVERY sabbath, it's true that there are ways they can enjoy their time together for free; football at the park, dinner at home, some scripture reading and a dvd, board games, etc, but still, every parent wants to enjoy taking their children out, right?
It doesn't only apply to children, also family and friends or potential partners, etc, but I'm trying to build a picture of a specific example, for consistency, in order to demonstrate my reasoning, somewhat.
I would liken trying to limit that person to a strict no spending money policy based on what evidence we go on in order to establish the basic "no buying on the sabbath" policy in the firt place, akin to saying that Yeshua was breaking the sabbath when he took an ear of corn, because the sabbath law prohibits reaping our crops on the sabbath (and such trains of thought have lead to people prohibiting typing on a computer keyboard or switching on lights because 1. they require you to use force and energy in pressing, and 2. we require that an electricity supplier be working - when in my logical understanding, this is stretching the law out of being something that makes the sabbath a gift into making it a restriction; and if a service is offered on a sabbath that is provided regardless of our acceptance or rejection, such as electricity, internet, running water, etc, then we are only cutting our noses off to spite our faces in prohibiting it).
If my assumption is wrong, then of course I am glad to accept it, but for the time being,I will assume myself to be correct with this post, HOWEVER, this post doesn't really cover my own circumstances, I am fortunate enough to not need to purchase goods on the shabbat (except a few times in emergencies, unsolicited necessities) and therefore am always able to be o prepared, and I can always spend time out with people at other times during my working week, so I am fortunate, but not everyone has the same circumstances.
Thanks in advance for any input
