This Is My First Time Posting. Im 29 Yrs Old Married With Two Kids In Which We Live With My Mom I Dont Have Ajob Had Ajob But Iquit Because I Hated It I Just Cant Get Myself Together Long Enough To Have Anything My Car Broke Down Yesterday Just As Im Planning To Go To School And Get Adegree Basically Im A Loser Of The Worse Kind Any Advice I Will Acceppt It
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Hi, It's really hard to be without a job and a car. You aren't a loser. Don't let that thought in your head. Things happen and we have to deal with them the best we can.
Since you wrote in the depression area I wonder if you would benefit from seeing a doctor and getting meds if you need them.
I will pray for you and your situation.
God bless you, Tapero
Since you wrote in the depression area I wonder if you would benefit from seeing a doctor and getting meds if you need them.
I will pray for you and your situation.
God bless you, Tapero
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Superlawyerwoman
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Why do you feel this way about yourself? I don't mean to pry but if you feel comfortable would you mind giving me a little background? Thanks.
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IVE BEEN THROUGH THESE THINGS OVER AND OVER AGAIN I CANT GET A FEEL ON THE PURPOSE OF ME SUFFERING CONTINOUSLY FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE I WOULD JUST LIKE TO BE HAPPY AND I CANT FIND THE HAPPINESS AND I TRY GOD AND IM STILL NOT HAPPY
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Hi,
How are you doing today? One of your questions is a question that people have
struggled with for years. Why do we have to suffer? I'm really not sure if anyone can really answer that question.
I do know that we live in an imperfect
world where you can go for years and have nothing go wrong. Then, all of a sudden, your world is turned upside down and things seem to stay that way.
The truth is, things happen. Sometimes the bad seem to happen more than the good. Maybe we can turn that around and make the bad work for our good.
Look back at all the things that have gone wrong. See if you can find a reason why those things in the past went wrong.
Maybe in looking back, you can find something that was the cause of that thing going wrong and try to avoid that in a similar situation. The truth is everyone will suffer at one time or another, in looking back maybe we can
find something looking back that we didn't see before, and turn it around so
we don't follow that path again.
Just a thought. As far as God, you might not like to hear this, but God is more than something we try and if He doesn't work, give Him up. God wants us to be committed to Him, learn about Him, love Him. The thing is He can't work in our lives if we don't give him time. Then it may seem like it's taking forever. God works in ways that are so far above ours
we being human, just can't understand.
I'd say, find a good church, a bible
teaching and preaching church. Get to know God a little better. It could be what you find out in getting to know God,
could hold some of the answers you're looking for. It's hard to listen to people give opinions when we're still suffering,
write down a list of things you're looking for in a job. Then try to find them. If you can't it may be a matter of give and take in order to get along on a job. I think the same thing. Why do these things happen? I don't know, but they do.There isn't anything we can do to make suffering and problems go away, we can only learn to deal with them and live one day at a time, and get to know God, who
might not make the problem go away,
but will give us strength to get thru it.
Amin.
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inHisgripkim
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Dear Hoping:
The situation and the thoughts you have are not new to many of us. Somewhere in our lifetime, we, too, have been hit with a series of circumstances. Not just one, but several at a time. Know that there is light if you only press on and keep your chin up and your thoughts positive. Know that your situation is NOT a reflection of you; it is the result of life circumstances. Circumstances are your culprit - not you. When things pull us down, it's easy to internalize the feelings of grief and sadness. In other words, we blame ourselves for life circumstances. Don't do that. You have a family and beautiful children who adore you. I don't have that blessing. I live alone and I don't have children. God has blessed you with the love of family and the love of a child. That is your hope. Let your love for them and their love for you be your inspiration.
I do not know if you have developed faith in God. That is something that you may want to look harder at. When the universe was created, it's creation was designed to support planet earth and life upon it. The cosmos works in perfect harmony to sustain life on earth and the end result is you and I here today to live and breathe and feel love, joy, sorrow etc. No gas explotion could have created that which is before us. The universe cannot go on forever. In a human mind, there is no such thing as infinity. All these concepts point to one thing - a force far more powerful than you and I can ever imagine.
I have come from such tragedy and trauma and can honestly say at age 48 that I wouldn't be here had I not turned to God and developed faith. My whole life came together when I found God and pursued His spirit. Faith is a wonderful anchor and a powerful foundation that keeps us from tumbling over in the temptest of trials and tribulations. I recommend that you look first to the blessings before you. Your children and family and then turn to the spiritual part of you - your soul. Realize you are miracle, your family is a miracle and only a God could create such miracles.
Look up and look around you and above you. All miracles. Do not look down too long. Your vision goes right to the ground and you miss all the blessings of creation.
Creation - don't miss it.
Things will get better. Pray. Start praying to that which created you and me, your children, and your family. Your prayers will be answered in proper timing. Keep hope and develp faith and the natural course of your life will move to the better and blossom.
Hang in there. Don't let your mind play tricks on you. Life circumstances will come and go. You will remain to tell the story. It will get better. This I know for I will be praying for you and will so many others that read your post.
With Godly love and understanding. We are here for you and praying for you.
Sister in spirit,
Kim
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