Dear Umaro, our soul is our inner man, it grows, as our bodies grow. Human eye cannot see it, and as we learn to think, to make decisions, it is the soul which will follow our bodies. We also have a part of God`s Spirit in us, we were made in God`s image, and that small part of God`s Spirit, we call it our conscience, will lead us too, but in a way which God would approve of. The soul is following either the body`s promptings, or that small, still voice of God inside us. When we leave our bodily remains behind, it is the soul, (our inner man) which will return to our Maker, or not. God gave us free will to decide our own future, He gave us His Commandments for our own good, if we follow them, we will receive many blessings, if we ignore them, or blatantly go against them, we will pay the consequences. Jesus died to reconcile us to God, He will lead us back to God, but we must Repent, exchange our selfish and wilful natures, into loving God first, and loving each other, as we love ourselves. The Bible, God`s Word to us, will explain it more thorough, Umaro. I say this with humility and love, and send greetings. Emmy, sister in Christ.