Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
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We can control what we believe. We can control if we will be loving or unloving.AFallingStar said:Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
AFallingStar said:Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
A woman can chose to leave. Liking mayonnaise or liver is not the same as acting in a loving way to someone. We can chose to be loving and we can chose to be unloving.Lynden1000 said:I'm not convinced that we can choose what to believe. Can I choose to like mayonnaise? I'd certainly prefer to, because it would make it so much easier at parties to find something to eat, when the only thing available is mayonnaise-laden finger sandwiches. But, sadly, I can't seem to find it appealing even if I want to.
I'm sure lots of women in abusive relationships would LOVE to be able to freely choose to just not be attracted to someone; but alas, it doesn't seem to work that way.
I can't "choose" to find something believable if I don't find it believable, any more than I could choose to find mayonnaise delicious or my husband unattractive.
Randomly? Or does she finally get the "nerve" or "confidence," whatever those may mean?elman said:A woman can chose to leave.
Arbitrarily? Or do we act lovingly because we love?Liking mayonnaise or liver is not the same as acting in a loving way to someone. We can chose to be loving and we can chose to be unloving.
AFallingStar said:Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
elman said:A woman can chose to leave. Liking mayonnaise or liver is not the same as acting in a loving way to someone. We can chose to be loving and we can chose to be unloving.
AFallingStar said:Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
AFallingStar said:Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
Do you make any of these choices randomly, or is there some reasoning occurring?jamesMarion said:The very core of my beliefs are not determined by outside factors. I control what I believe. It is as simple as making any choice. Do I use a black ink pen or a blue ink pen. The very core of my beliefs have eternal consequences. At age 9 I realized I wanted more info about my creator than the Catholics were providing. I got the gospel.
You see, hear, or read info and you accept or reject. I possess explicit free will. I was not predestined to believe. I understand the difference between genuine and enforced humility.