Great post Andry.
You're right that worship is much more than being in church, enjoying music and tingles.
However, a few tingles are well overdue in my church, where the service has been carefully engineered over centuries to eliminate all danger of praising and worshiping "too long."
We have 5 or 6 hymns, interspersed with the other elements of the service involving sitting, standing, kneeling at particular moments, so we have the "mood" broken between each song.
If it's a really, really short song, (by which I mean 4 lines), we might sing through twice. Three or more times would be decadent.
If it's a traditional hymn with more than 4 verses we are very likely to cut at least one out.
Sometimes hardly anyone even bothers to sing some of the hymns at all.
The danger of our type of worship is that we are really not given the opportunity to absorb the beautiful words, relax into it, settle our minds and hearts on the Lord.
Just thought I'd mention the other end of the spectrum on time and worship.
One day maybe the Holy Spirit will decide enough is enough and descend on our entire church.

Please Lord!
Meanwhile I love to sing alone at home, and listen to/sing with CDs, and a couple of times a year I visit a friend's more relaxed church, where I find it difficult to enter into the fullness of the experience because I'm so used to being restrained.
Inside I'm dancing ...
God bless, Susana