Why do so many people use the phrase "but God would want me to be happy" or "I can't believe God would want me to be unhappy" as justification for decisions they may or may not be making in their lives?
I did an NT search on bible.com and found only the following references to the word "happy" in the NIV version...

I did an NT search on bible.com and found only the following references to the word "happy" in the NIV version...
So... where does all of this Godly happiness that we talk about come from??? Where does that phrase... or where does that mindset come from? And should I even be asking on the divorce board?John 13:17 - If ye know these things, happy are ye if ye do them.
Acts 26:2 - I think myself happy, king Agrippa, because I shall answer for myself this day before thee touching all the things whereof I am accused of the Jews:
Romans 14:22 - Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.
James 5:11 - Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy.
1 Peter 3:14 - But and if ye suffer for righteousness' sake, happy are ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled;
1 Peter 4:14 - If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you: on their part he is evil spoken of, but on your part he is glorified.