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Buddhism's concept of no self

VVV

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Personally I do not spend much time on this subject of no self, no me, emptiness, mind - no mind and the like. I just accept what is and I'm done with it. It makes great fuel for the 'over thinkers' among us. The concept of no self is of course mandatory to accept if one is dedicated to escaping samsara with their Buddhist practice as I will go into at the end of this post. But for the vast part of the Buddhist population, they do not have such a dedicated practice. In this case, just believe whatever you wish ... you exist or you don't exist...but whatever you believe be at peace with it and do not 'force the belief' onto yourself. A successful practice should always be natural and authentic.
Over thinking blinds us to living right, for when a man's mind is concentrated he is blind. Over thinking is also a great escape from thoughts of death or to pull us out of the ugly lives we have created for ourselves. A man or woman can spend their whole life pondering no self and emptiness and never come to a satisfactory answer and then one day they die. Yes, emptiness was an important question is such a life, as their life they lived or actually the life they did not live was indeed empty. I once heard a lecture by Alan Watts where he quoted Anton Van Leeuwenhoek (The father of the microscope) "The mystery of life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced." Yes, we need to do some time in contemplation, but for the most part a flourishing life is spent 'actually living' and not just 'thinking about' living.

The reason that this debate of self or no self comes up is that we exist only temporally with our body due to the law of impermanence. But such extreme views as 'no self' and 'no mind' must be balanced with how things really are in the physical world if we wish to live within society and to be at peace. Confused Buddhists wishing to be at peace with this subject can balance the 2 extremes of existence and non existence with a middle path. From extreme views of no existence to convectional ideas of existence, we get a blend of the two to see how things really are in our life - we exist temporality but not ultimately. (at least not in our present form) It is the same with a river for example. the river is never the same from millisecond to millisecond, yet just because it is in flux it does not mean it is not real or exist. Just because it died up does not mean it never existed.

For enlightenment we need to seek a place of 'self without self. What does that mean? We need to transcend our own little fixed and limited conceptions of how things are in order to see the big picture. Protagoras, an early 5th century BCE philosopher said, "Man is the measure of all things" As such, within your own little sphere of life, you as well as I, are each our own measure of all things. We need to absorb life and make some sense of it to try and be at peace. But to be successful at it we need to develop a good vipassana practice of seeing things clearly in terms of impermanence, suffering and non-self. Seeing things for what they are helps prevent further uprising of new passions from ignorance. With any interpretation of phenomena whether spiritual or mundane there are 3 things that come to play:

1) Observing signs.

2) The interpretation of those signs in the mind

3) The expression of the interpretation of the signs in words either spoken, written or visual communication.

If one does not go beyond self and all the attachments and prejudices, likes and dislikes contained within that self, then one will have hard time getting at the true nature of things. The 'interpretation of signs' is where most people get lost. They lose themselves as Psychologist William James pointed out by 'confusing thinking time with just rearranging their prejudices.' One time a discussion came up at eSangha at the women corner about the possibility of a woman finding enlightenment. She recounted how when she asked her teacher if a woman can ever reach enlightenment the teacher told her no. As she was perplexed, she continued questioning the teacher until he told her in essence that a woman cannot reach enlightenment until she transcends the concept of being a woman. Or as I told you in the beginning...self without self. If we look at the average woman what does she do in the morning? She spends a half hour putting on a mask to be something that she is not. Can such a person reach enlightenment? (No) Is makeup up all that is holding her back from enlightenment? (NO) If makeup was the only issue, men would have it made. But we each carry our own self with us and define our lives with who we 'think' we are via this conception of self. And for men, they define life and self for the most part tough their penis, whereas most women define self though beauty.

This 'delusion of self' will be seen in the hate mail I get from women from this post. Some women will see only what their 'self' wants them to see and nothing more. Other women are more clear thinking in nature and can see truth without obscuring it with their own prejudices. Delusional persons concentrate on personalties, whereas persons not of this deluded nature concentrate on truths. When we invest excessive time and energies in acquiring or building attachments to self, these attachments become veritable extensions of our being and come to define us for ourselves as well as define who we are for others. When these attachments take on this role we become susceptible to pain via these extensions. If the person, place or thing we are attached to gets rebuked it is a personal rebuke on us, if they get damaged or defaced so goes the defacement and damage to our very being. The ancient Greek philosophers knew that when passion rules the mind, that the only job left for reason is that of the subservient task to find cleaver ways to satisfy the passions. They called it "putting passion before reason."

Passions are rooted in the self and the self is always is in flux which accounts for the rise and fall of these passions.

Whereas, truth is stable - for the truth is that which does not change.

No self is a concept that was meant to help dispel one of ego based attachments as well as attachments whether they be material attachments or concepts. It is also used to detach one from ideas of an eternal life in the hereafter. With regard to an immortal soul. no one can definitively answer that question. Sure we all have opinions, but as the famous saying Clint Eastwood used in his 'Dirty Harry' series, "Opinions are like *******s - everyone got one." My own tool for peace is the tool of acceptance coupled with mindfulness. I have worked to create a practice for me that seeks change first and if no change is possible it readily accepts what is. In this case, if an immortal soul or spirit is the truth I accept it, if an immortal soul or spirit is not the truth I accept it. But in either case I know that no man, except the ego based individual that claims to be God can claim to answer this question.

For practitioners that cannot move as freely in all directions as I do, they must work to disassociate self form self and convince themselves that a self does not exist. And in this way they can find peace with the no soul theory. This topic is complicated somewhat since Buddhist generally believe in no self, yet they believe in reincarnation and the accumulation and transference of karma. If there is nothing that survives death, then there is no entity or spirit that will be reincarnated. Sure, the reincarnation is in a different form than the previous, but it still carries the seed of karmic debt or surplus from original owners previous carnations. If death is ultimate in Buddhist eyes, they would have no fear of future pain in future lives. One could do as one wishes in this life with no fear of future retributions. But is fear all that drives you to do good?

These "fear based" reasons for being a Buddhist, Christian or any other faith are not authentic or natural. The persons actions are based on fear or negative consequences otherwise they would not do them. My actions are based on inner peace and if I stray - there goes my peace - it is my choice. Take away the fear of pain of karma or hell and you have a different person? A truly virtuous life remains the same irrespective of such fears and is not based on them. You see much over thinking going on when the topics of dependent or conditional arising and the like. Don't get lost is such things. Align right actions with a right life and you will have no need for such fears. Ground your practice in peace and not in fear and if not then feel free to stay grounded in fear and not in peace.

Many contradictions with religions. Religion was created by man and as such every religion is imperfect, since their creators were imperfect themselves. But, just as each religion contains imperfection they also contain many perfection's within them. It is up to the practitioner or end user to use the tools in the right way. Accepting what is beyond our control is the way to peace as long as we have done our foot wok in the area of the eightfold path as our foundation to peace. It is a common fault with humans that they look for an enemy to blame their problems on whether it be karma, God or a golden calf. We must always remember that all problems are created in the mind and our problems are individual as well. Sometimes there is someone to blame for these problems which is usually us. Other times it is just how things are and no one is to blame. When you stop looking for an enemy to blame for your problems on you have made a big breakthrough with finding acceptance and peace. The universe does not discriminate against us...we do the discriminating. My earlier post 'Enemy God' discusses this topic in detail

Some Buddhists say we have no self since you cannot point to it or upon dissection of a body you cannot find it. You cannot find the mind as well. But neither can you dissect and point to gravity, the wind or magnetism but they exist as well. You can't point to smells and odors, hot or cold yet they exist. So it also goes with the self and mind. Humans are not fungible commodities for the most part. We all have our natures and personalties. Can you point to a personality? Can you dissect a human and find their personality? Does this mean personalities do not exist? If this was not the case, no one would bother dating before marrying and you could substitute one person for another without issue and get the same result in marriage.

Throughout history man has needed an escape to concentrate his or her mind on. As I told you above, over thinking and the endless speculation over religious fervor makes a great escape from thoughts of death or to pull us out of the ugly lives we have created for ourselves. Just work to change or readily accept what cannot be changed and you can circumvent all the needless concentrations to be at peace in the present. One day your life, just as mine, will be spent. And the defining characteristic of our lives will not be not be much money we grabbed, or how many posts we sent in. But a very important component that will define whether a life flourished or not will be if we 'really lived' our lives in the present and in an authentic manner. Or was our life spent empty and devoid of real expedience, a life in a haze of delusion, always fixated on speculation of the past or the future, but seldom living in the now...the now of actually experiencing life first hand for OURSELVES.

I know many of you have problems you wish to escape from. If you wish to change things, then take that first step in the 'opposite direction' from where you have been headed in for so long. Walk in the path of right living and peace and as you as you make this change you will see your problems starting to diminish. As they diminish, your capacity for rational thought and clear thinking well increase. And then you can start thinking about balanced living instead of useless speculations as way to tie up your mind. Remember...a constantly busy mind cannot heal itself.

You see, while pondering such unanswerable questions as the immortality of the soul and trying to decide if I exist ultimately or temporally or not at all, I can still do great damage to other sentient beings with my actions that 'do exist' in the present moment. As such, I prefer to spend my time being mindful of my actions and am wary not over concentrate in theory and debate. I'd like to point out that my views are not the orthodox or traditional vies on these subjects. So, please do not think I speak for anyone other than 'myself' with whatever I write. Of course, as this topic discusses, traditional Buddhists also believe there is no 'my' or 'self' so, I guess it really doesn't matter in that case since 'V' is empty and 'V' does not exist. In addition, belief of self is also one of the ten fetters that binds a being to samsara, so if you wish to escape samsara, then do not believe in self. But also realize you need to get off the computer this instant, as a 'being' that is attached to such electronic passions will not be escaping anything.


Good luck,





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VVV said:
Personally I do not spend much time on this subject of no self, no me, emptiness, mind - no mind and the like. I just accept what is and I'm done with it. It makes great fuel for the 'over thinkers' among us. The concept of no self is of course mandatory to accept if one is dedicated to escaping samsara with their Buddhist practice as I will go into at the end of this post. But for the vast part of the Buddhist population, they do not have such a dedicated practice. In this case, just believe whatever you wish ... you exist or you don't exist...but whatever you believe be at peace with it and do not 'force the belief' onto yourself. A successful practice should always be natural and authentic.
Over thinking blinds us to living right, for when a man's mind is concentrated he is blind...
Oh dear student of the light and wisdom of Buddha. All you say is quite correct and yet sadly say nothing that is heard.

He who climbs the mountain to the light of enlightenment finds that although he is at a great peak, he stands as though on a calm pond of water. Misery has no reach unto him. Want has no place within him. He is free of the Earth and of death.

But as he stands with feet afloat, the slightest breeze pushes him to edge. upon the mere touch of earth, he can no longer be free from it gravity and must tumble or run quickly with the wind and pull down the mountain again.

What is there to be gained by that which cannot be maintained but the knowledge that it was there for a brief moment.

The distinction between what the Buddha had taught and what Jesus had taught was concerning that which maintains the height once gained. Love that which yields enlightenment and you gain it. Love that which is love and you maintain it.

I would say to you that once you have reached that ever so great peak and stand upon the pond therein, make of the pond a whirl, a momentous whirl. And in the dance that is the life of that whirl, become the balance of it.

As such, no wind can blow against you without also blowing for you. Nothing can push you without also pulling you equally. You can then dance your life with vigor and never be brought low for nothing can reach you without helping you and much as harming you.

As one stable and living in the light, then you will find the compulsion to reach out to others and offer a hand. Your hand they can take without upsetting your balance because you move with such a greater harmony than they.

As they reach that same whirling harmonious pond, they join in the harmony of the dance and its momentum grows. The light becomes brighter and stronger and reaches even further through the clouds below.

The point and purpose of selflessness is merely to find that pond as to know of it. Maintaining selflessness has no value and has never been a treasure. To constantly seek the lack of self is to be nothing in the eyes of man but clay to be pushed up and down mountains in his blind lust for power to make your struggle toward selflessness merely fuel for his self.

Make momentous harmony of the selfless calm, and nothing can take it from you nor return you to the unpleasant earth and samsara.

You need not have luck, if you but open your eyes.
 
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