You're in no position to say what is and isn't God's criteria,
Sure I am.
in this instance. I think it's just as likely that the verse in 2 Timothy is referring to people who hold your point of view.
What is just is likely is that you're drumming up excuses and not aligning what you're saying with the FULL COUNSEL of God's Word.
Show me Scripturally that this is the way God wants to teach it, and that it's not, in fact, the way YOU want to teach it because you're angry at the world and want to put people in their place.
Surely let's look at the Old Testament.
See now that I, even I, am He, and there is no god with Me: I kill, and I make alive; I wound, and I heal; neither is there any that can deliver out of My hand. For I lift up My hand to heaven, and say, I live for ever. If I whet My glittering sword, and Mine hand take hold on judgment; I will render vengeance to Mine enemies, and will reward them that hate Me (Deut 32:39-41).
Because God is holy, He hates all sin, and because He hates all sin, His anger burns against the sinner.
11 God is a righteous judge,
a God who expresses his wrath every day. (Psalm 7:11)
And Daniel's prayer in Daniel 9:4-12
4 I prayed to the LORD my God and confessed:
"O Lord, the great and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love with all who love him and obey his commands, 5 we have sinned and done wrong. We have been wicked and have rebelled; we have turned away from your commands and laws. 6 We have not listened to your servants the prophets, who spoke in your name to our kings, our princes and our fathers, and to all the people of the land.
7 "Lord, you are righteous, but this day we are covered with shamethe men of Judah and people of Jerusalem and all Israel, both near and far, in all the countries where you have scattered us because of our unfaithfulness to you. 8 O LORD, we and our kings, our princes and our fathers are covered with shame because we have sinned against you. 9 The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him; 10 we have not obeyed the LORD our God or kept the laws he gave us through his servants the prophets. 11 All Israel has transgressed your law and turned away, refusing to obey you.
"Therefore the curses and sworn judgments written in the Law of Moses, the servant of God, have been poured out on us, because we have sinned against you. 12 You have fulfilled the words spoken against us and against our rulers by bringing upon us great disaster. Under the whole heaven nothing has ever been done like what has been done to Jerusalem.
Throughout the Old Testament the prophets frequently told their hearers that their wicked lives provoked the Holy One of Israel, and that they were treasuring up to themselves wrath against the day of wrath.
But lets move to the New Testament.
First of all, consider the fact that the expression "the wrath of God" is used a number of times in the New Testament. For instance, the Bible says in Ephesians 5:6
Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience
Furthermore, anger or wrath is ascribed to Jesus. On one occasion when Jesus had entered a synagogue on a sabbath day, some of the people watched Him in order to find some fault in Him. Jesus was angered. The Bible says :
"And when he had looked round about on them with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts . . ." (Mark 3:5).
Yes Jesus loves us! But don't forget that Revelation 6:16 speaks of "the wrath of the Lamb."
Don't forget that the Word of God says in Revelation
Then I heard a loud voice from the temple saying to the seven angels, "Go, pour out the seven bowls of God's wrath on the earth." Rev. 16:1
Many times the Book of Revelation speaks of God's wrath. And of all the Books of the Bible, it is the one that gives the greatest sense of urgency to get the truth of God's Word out to the unsaved.
If a man truly loves Jesus Christ, he does not want anyone to have to suffer God's impending wrath.
But let's look further. Are there instances of God's wrath further displayed in the New Testament?
In the Book of Acts Ananias and Sapphira were struck dead for lying to the Holy Spirit (Acts 5:1-11).
After King Herod Agrippa I accepted the praises of men and did not glorify God, the Lord smote him and he died (Acts 12:21-23).
When Elymas, or Bar-Jesus, tried to withstand the preaching of Barnabas and Paul, "the hand of the Lord" struck him blind (Acts 13:6-11).
Countless times God's wrath is displayed. Countless times He shows Himself to be a God of love AND a God of wrath.
From Genesis to Revelation there is example after example of preaching repentance for sin. There is example after example of pointing out of sin as Ezekiel 3:18 says and a calling to repentance.
Why? Because there can be no salvation without repentance and there will be no repentance if the sinner does not know WHY he needs a savior.
The Word of God says in Romans 6:23 "
For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord"
There is a price to be paid for sin. God's wrath is exacted upon those who reject His Son, and their end will be the lake of fire.
They're not going to deal with the "sin issue" if you portray God as an Entity who isn't interested in having a loving relationship with each and every individual human being.
Have you not read(probably not) the number of times in this thread I have said that you don't preach God's love without preaching God's wrath because the two are inseparable?