So a continuation of this thread:
I think I will break up with her again tomorrow. Advice?
You guys keep telling me it's not fair to her for me to keep dating her and I need to let her go so she can stop wasting her time with me.
Well. I tried. It was so sad and hard to do because I do really love her and care about her and I want the best for her. The look on her face was so sad. We both cried. She reframed things saying she doesn't want to just give up and she said how about we try to work things out. I said ok. We continued to hang out and by the end of the night it was as if nothing had happened.
I know I should have just continued to say no but it's just so hard and sad to see someone in her situation. And with her continuing to persist it makes things reallllllyyyy hard to just continue to say no. It's as if she can't be happy unless I stay with her and get married to her. I don't think that's good for her to think that way and I try to help her out and say that it's going to be ok regardless. She has told me that she knows God told her that I am the one. That thinking is so dangerous. I've thought like that before and it usually doesn't end well because then you aren't prepared if things don't work out. You always want to plan for the worst.
Please help me. And don't tell me I'm the bad guy. I have tried to take your guys' advice and "do the right thing" and let her go so she can find someone else. But she won't let me. Remember this is the second time I have tried breaking up with her. But yeah. I'm out of ideas. Let me know if you have any.