I got this from a blog and thought of posting it. There are 2 true stories about breakup.
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STORY 1
I quite agree with your statement that some men really truly love with their heart and when break up happens, it really hits those men hard.
One of those men is my younger brother. Let me call him E. Well E from outside looks like a typical MCP, strutting around and basically be a MAN, i'm sure u know those types of people. He met this girl, lets call her G, who is basically his schoolmate from way back and they got together. They went out for awhile and this really got serious. He was into this girl, going on holidays and giving presents. They were really looking towards a life together, looking for houses and all that stuff.
Well apparently she wasn't really looking into a life together or just not into him, i'm not sure. They had breakups and patch up. During the last breakup, E's friends saw G's car parked in one of their friends house at night. No problem there i guess since they already broke up. E was quite upset over this and just couldn't let go of her during this break up. Futher faced with this situation.Now i'm not sure whether G broke off with my brother to go with other people or it was already happening behind my brother's back. The fact is i dont really care.
The thing is my brother, E, he took the break up hard. He never confided in me or the family but we could see he was just plain upset over something. He did however confided to my sister who was overseas, online. She advised him to let him go but he just couldn't do that. I guess the pain got too much and he started to drink heavily. One saturday night he ask 2 of his best friends out to drink who knew about the situation. They also advised him to let it go but he just couldn't bring himself to do it and they had an argument. In short then they proceded to drink a substantial quantity of whisky.
Nothing more was said till they drove home. Upon reaching the house of his friends which he parked his car , he took off without a word to his friends who could not do anything but watch helplessly. About half and hour later his friend got a call from a passer by that my brother was involved in a car accident with himself and was thrown out of his car ( he wasn't wearing his seatbelt) . They went to the scene of the accident where the paramedics declare him dead. He was on his way to see his (ex) girlfriend. For what purpose? i dont know? to talk into accepting him back?Who knows.....
I never knew this side of my brother , the sentimental brooding romantic who couldn't let go... who was so pained by the breakup that he had to drown it in alcohol.... Your blog struck a chord with me, but there is no happy ending here.... I dont mind if u share this story with others.. to show that sometimes men get hurt so bad that they can't do anything .I guess he felt G was the one for him and the thought of losing her is so overwhelming....I dont blame G for anything at all , its just one of those things that happens.
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STORY 2
This is a story from my personal experience. Thought it would be nice to make my contribution here. If you think its good enough for Part 4, Youre free to post this, but please let me remain anonymous. Thanks Mr. Hustler.... Keep the stories flowing
He(S) met her on her 21'st b'day party. His frens N & L have been wanting him to meet her, they had been planning this for sometime. His first impression of her.....she was too skinny......!! He was aware he was being fixed here and just played it kewl acting as if he was really blur when in actual fact N & L has been telling him stories of W, and on the other side W was being told of the existence of S.
In a way she(W) was really curious as to whom he was! Throughout the party S wasnt much in a mood to socialize....he didnt talk much despite being asked to by L. All he got by the end of the party was just her phone number and a few new things bout her (she had a lesbian admirer and the party was at her place)
A few days later he finally decided to pop her a msg....just out of courtesy. Thanking her for her hospitality and the good food! It started out with the beep of that message...Message after messages commuting form his phone to her phone.....slowly getting to know each other....Then to ICQ and sometimes phone calls. His perception towards her changed...she suddenly seemed more that just a skinny gal.
He discovered in her was an independent, simple and also sporting and also witty young lady! She was getting his attention. In the meantime his fren L was feeding him with some insiders she says "She's INTERESTED.." At this stage messages just kept on pouring and some even meant more than just a message. He knew that this might be it.....but despite of that just kept it all locked aside as exams was just round the corner. In the mean time he was wondering how would this relationship workout when he was bout to leave for Aussie for a year in a few weeks time? Now that exams were over and done with..it was back to business.
And They met up....While walking to the club she said to him in a cute tone"Tonight you must take care of me ya"...He responded "Yes of course....no worries we'll have a great time tonight"......She had put on a look to kill to win him over...even put on her fav pair of sandals just for the outing with him. he was flattered. That night he held her hand for the 1st time in the club.....It felt so soft, tender and the warmth just warmed his heart. He knew he was in love with her.....but still in a dilemma. He asked his bestfren K who was back for holidays for some advise. K said "You love her you gotta tell her....You go get her tiger".
He thought bout it over and over again...in the end he made up his mind he was going for it. "Actually I have something that I need you to know. I have feelings for you. I know its abit selfish of me to say this when we both know that I'm gonna be leaving. But I would like to know how you feel bout me. Whatever you decide on I would respect that. I just hope you understand it isnt easy for me either"
She reacted with a blushing face, smiled while saying "Give me time let me think of it okay" He waited and waited finally the answer came....in a form of a sms. "I do admit I love you too, just let this distance be a test of our feelings" The day that he was to leave for Aussie finally came. It definitely wasnt easy for him. But for he did what he had to. Time seemed to have passed so fast that day.....she was there too at the airport looking rather confused. Announcement "Flight MH 29 FINAL BOARDING" This was it, just before he proceeded to "the point of no return", he gave her a hug told her he was gonna miss her heaps. He bid his frens goodbye and hugged mum & dad b4 boarding the plane. He left with a really heavy heart in pursuing his dreams.
Days after days passed in Aussie he missed her a bunch and would call her whenever he could, and she would be waiting eagerly for his call at times sneaking behind her parents back! He was relieved to hear her sweet voice and also listening to her stories and wittiness....all these helped warmth his heart...easing of the chill of winter. Like they say all good things would come to an end.....She started behaving real coldly towards him when he was really missing her. He knew something wasnt right and she wouldnt tell him what was wrong. Those phone calls and sms, which used to be frequent was only there for memories.
All thats left for him now was on pictures and those old messages. Finally the time came and he was to come home for good. Doing some last min shopping he saw something that she would like and bought it. Indeed she's still in his heart. Despite of all of those heartache he kept on believing. He has just touched down in KL all of his frens even N & L knew bout it.....but she didnt had the slightest clue he was back. When she did find out she was exited and wanted to meet him. She waited patiently in Coffee Bean.....finally he showed up behind her back. From the outside, she hasnt changed alil bit....But from the inside? She saw him and carved a smile on her face....He asked her to give him a hug......He felt as if he was hugging a pillar.....
Finally she found courage to voice her troubles to him "Forget bout all those things I said in the past. I think we shouldnt go out as a couple" Already expecting this, he was expressionless. He was crushed and torn apart by emotions and was left to nurse this big wound all by himself. Despite of that he just hid it all and carried on with life, with her still in his heart. He still treated her as a fren and did his best to be a fren. Occasionally they would meet up. But being Mr. Nice guy all the time was indeed very torturing for him.
He knew deep inside his feeling and passion for her never changed. He was saddened as she took him for granted. At last he decided he had have enough....He confronted her and all the things she said hurt him even more "All these while I only treated you as a fren. I really dont want to loose a fren like you".....Before hanging up he told her "I'm sorry if this is gonna sound very ungentlemanly, but we're going separate ways....I cant just hang out with you and look you eye to eye and pretend nothing happened. I love you"
Months after months passed by they have definitely gone separate way.....no sms no calls from one another. N & L had some new news bout W that they thought he should know. She was seeing another girl. His heart skipped a beat....He felt for her....He wished he could help her change that..sadly they hardly talk these days...All he could do was to pray for he well being. He couldnt believe it.....but the facts given to him does support that.
Out of the blue lately she would sms him......This time he's more careful in entrusting his heart. It seems that she's trying to reach out to him. What should he do? What does she want from him?He realizes...She had made a big impact in his life. He has never forgotten her and never did blame her as he didnt understand what was going on. Till today she still has a special place in his heart. Whats good is a heart if you're not gonna use it....What good is a love if you're not gonna choose it?
Well there you go exactly 100% no extra ingredients inside or what soever....Ahaha I'm kewl with it. I've only learned from it more than regretting it. "What that doesnt kill you only makes u stronger". Man I seriously still cant believe I wrote that! K back to my ciggies! Hope you enjoyed reading that.....Cheers!
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STORY 1
I quite agree with your statement that some men really truly love with their heart and when break up happens, it really hits those men hard.
One of those men is my younger brother. Let me call him E. Well E from outside looks like a typical MCP, strutting around and basically be a MAN, i'm sure u know those types of people. He met this girl, lets call her G, who is basically his schoolmate from way back and they got together. They went out for awhile and this really got serious. He was into this girl, going on holidays and giving presents. They were really looking towards a life together, looking for houses and all that stuff.
Well apparently she wasn't really looking into a life together or just not into him, i'm not sure. They had breakups and patch up. During the last breakup, E's friends saw G's car parked in one of their friends house at night. No problem there i guess since they already broke up. E was quite upset over this and just couldn't let go of her during this break up. Futher faced with this situation.Now i'm not sure whether G broke off with my brother to go with other people or it was already happening behind my brother's back. The fact is i dont really care.
The thing is my brother, E, he took the break up hard. He never confided in me or the family but we could see he was just plain upset over something. He did however confided to my sister who was overseas, online. She advised him to let him go but he just couldn't do that. I guess the pain got too much and he started to drink heavily. One saturday night he ask 2 of his best friends out to drink who knew about the situation. They also advised him to let it go but he just couldn't bring himself to do it and they had an argument. In short then they proceded to drink a substantial quantity of whisky.
Nothing more was said till they drove home. Upon reaching the house of his friends which he parked his car , he took off without a word to his friends who could not do anything but watch helplessly. About half and hour later his friend got a call from a passer by that my brother was involved in a car accident with himself and was thrown out of his car ( he wasn't wearing his seatbelt) . They went to the scene of the accident where the paramedics declare him dead. He was on his way to see his (ex) girlfriend. For what purpose? i dont know? to talk into accepting him back?Who knows.....
I never knew this side of my brother , the sentimental brooding romantic who couldn't let go... who was so pained by the breakup that he had to drown it in alcohol.... Your blog struck a chord with me, but there is no happy ending here.... I dont mind if u share this story with others.. to show that sometimes men get hurt so bad that they can't do anything .I guess he felt G was the one for him and the thought of losing her is so overwhelming....I dont blame G for anything at all , its just one of those things that happens.
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STORY 2
This is a story from my personal experience. Thought it would be nice to make my contribution here. If you think its good enough for Part 4, Youre free to post this, but please let me remain anonymous. Thanks Mr. Hustler.... Keep the stories flowing
He(S) met her on her 21'st b'day party. His frens N & L have been wanting him to meet her, they had been planning this for sometime. His first impression of her.....she was too skinny......!! He was aware he was being fixed here and just played it kewl acting as if he was really blur when in actual fact N & L has been telling him stories of W, and on the other side W was being told of the existence of S.
In a way she(W) was really curious as to whom he was! Throughout the party S wasnt much in a mood to socialize....he didnt talk much despite being asked to by L. All he got by the end of the party was just her phone number and a few new things bout her (she had a lesbian admirer and the party was at her place)
A few days later he finally decided to pop her a msg....just out of courtesy. Thanking her for her hospitality and the good food! It started out with the beep of that message...Message after messages commuting form his phone to her phone.....slowly getting to know each other....Then to ICQ and sometimes phone calls. His perception towards her changed...she suddenly seemed more that just a skinny gal.
He discovered in her was an independent, simple and also sporting and also witty young lady! She was getting his attention. In the meantime his fren L was feeding him with some insiders she says "She's INTERESTED.." At this stage messages just kept on pouring and some even meant more than just a message. He knew that this might be it.....but despite of that just kept it all locked aside as exams was just round the corner. In the mean time he was wondering how would this relationship workout when he was bout to leave for Aussie for a year in a few weeks time? Now that exams were over and done with..it was back to business.
And They met up....While walking to the club she said to him in a cute tone"Tonight you must take care of me ya"...He responded "Yes of course....no worries we'll have a great time tonight"......She had put on a look to kill to win him over...even put on her fav pair of sandals just for the outing with him. he was flattered. That night he held her hand for the 1st time in the club.....It felt so soft, tender and the warmth just warmed his heart. He knew he was in love with her.....but still in a dilemma. He asked his bestfren K who was back for holidays for some advise. K said "You love her you gotta tell her....You go get her tiger".
He thought bout it over and over again...in the end he made up his mind he was going for it. "Actually I have something that I need you to know. I have feelings for you. I know its abit selfish of me to say this when we both know that I'm gonna be leaving. But I would like to know how you feel bout me. Whatever you decide on I would respect that. I just hope you understand it isnt easy for me either"
She reacted with a blushing face, smiled while saying "Give me time let me think of it okay" He waited and waited finally the answer came....in a form of a sms. "I do admit I love you too, just let this distance be a test of our feelings" The day that he was to leave for Aussie finally came. It definitely wasnt easy for him. But for he did what he had to. Time seemed to have passed so fast that day.....she was there too at the airport looking rather confused. Announcement "Flight MH 29 FINAL BOARDING" This was it, just before he proceeded to "the point of no return", he gave her a hug told her he was gonna miss her heaps. He bid his frens goodbye and hugged mum & dad b4 boarding the plane. He left with a really heavy heart in pursuing his dreams.
Days after days passed in Aussie he missed her a bunch and would call her whenever he could, and she would be waiting eagerly for his call at times sneaking behind her parents back! He was relieved to hear her sweet voice and also listening to her stories and wittiness....all these helped warmth his heart...easing of the chill of winter. Like they say all good things would come to an end.....She started behaving real coldly towards him when he was really missing her. He knew something wasnt right and she wouldnt tell him what was wrong. Those phone calls and sms, which used to be frequent was only there for memories.
All thats left for him now was on pictures and those old messages. Finally the time came and he was to come home for good. Doing some last min shopping he saw something that she would like and bought it. Indeed she's still in his heart. Despite of all of those heartache he kept on believing. He has just touched down in KL all of his frens even N & L knew bout it.....but she didnt had the slightest clue he was back. When she did find out she was exited and wanted to meet him. She waited patiently in Coffee Bean.....finally he showed up behind her back. From the outside, she hasnt changed alil bit....But from the inside? She saw him and carved a smile on her face....He asked her to give him a hug......He felt as if he was hugging a pillar.....
Finally she found courage to voice her troubles to him "Forget bout all those things I said in the past. I think we shouldnt go out as a couple" Already expecting this, he was expressionless. He was crushed and torn apart by emotions and was left to nurse this big wound all by himself. Despite of that he just hid it all and carried on with life, with her still in his heart. He still treated her as a fren and did his best to be a fren. Occasionally they would meet up. But being Mr. Nice guy all the time was indeed very torturing for him.
He knew deep inside his feeling and passion for her never changed. He was saddened as she took him for granted. At last he decided he had have enough....He confronted her and all the things she said hurt him even more "All these while I only treated you as a fren. I really dont want to loose a fren like you".....Before hanging up he told her "I'm sorry if this is gonna sound very ungentlemanly, but we're going separate ways....I cant just hang out with you and look you eye to eye and pretend nothing happened. I love you"
Months after months passed by they have definitely gone separate way.....no sms no calls from one another. N & L had some new news bout W that they thought he should know. She was seeing another girl. His heart skipped a beat....He felt for her....He wished he could help her change that..sadly they hardly talk these days...All he could do was to pray for he well being. He couldnt believe it.....but the facts given to him does support that.
Out of the blue lately she would sms him......This time he's more careful in entrusting his heart. It seems that she's trying to reach out to him. What should he do? What does she want from him?He realizes...She had made a big impact in his life. He has never forgotten her and never did blame her as he didnt understand what was going on. Till today she still has a special place in his heart. Whats good is a heart if you're not gonna use it....What good is a love if you're not gonna choose it?
Well there you go exactly 100% no extra ingredients inside or what soever....Ahaha I'm kewl with it. I've only learned from it more than regretting it. "What that doesnt kill you only makes u stronger". Man I seriously still cant believe I wrote that! K back to my ciggies! Hope you enjoyed reading that.....Cheers!
