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well i broke it off with my bf, we decided that it was better we went our seperate ways..he realized there is a girl he really likes and im really happy for him, i feel alot better now he just told me i better find someone for me that will love me im crying rightnow because im happy and sad a bit because he was my first boyfriend but i know in time god will give me someone i am meant to spend my life with :)

but why does it hurt so much...
 
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Oh heaven...I am so sad for you. So saddened to hear it didn't work out. But honey, it's better that this should happen now than if you were married to him. It wasn't a perfectly happy romance, and it's so natural that you should be hurting right now. You have lost your first boyfriend. And, you have lost a closeness with him. Nevertheless, you are young and have your life ahead of you. I don't think you were really suited as you felt as though you weren't good enough for him, and he yelled at you which made you feel more insecure. Life strange turns and very often, when one door closes, another opens. But please don't spend time looking at the closed door and forget to look in the direction of the freshly opened one?
Right now...you need a big hug. You did everything to save this romance and had a wonderful holiday in Scotland with Chris. Please take heart dear one. There's a wonderful guy out there for you somewhere. And, may God be with you.:hug: :hug: We love you Heaven.
 
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Oh precious heaven Jesus understands how hard this is but though you may be upset and hurting now, this will pass and you will know of peace and comfort to replace it.
All of us feel this way when we decide to go separate ways. It feels sad because we once enjoyed being close to someone and it is a loss. However, my love whatever we go through Jesus goes through it with us and we are never alone.

The Lord will bring you many people in your life, some perhaps for a little while, others for longer but in the case of boyfriends you need to be very sure that they are the person of God's choosing for you. Marriage is a committment that is life changing and God will prepare you and the right man for you to marry. We have to be patient about these things. Meanwhile enjoy getting to know Jesus better and the friendships you gain by being with others.

Everything will work together for good, so my love, feel at peace. You both felt the need to make this decision and God will help both of you to recover and know His love and joy once more.

Praying you are filled with peace and can look forward to the many more blessings that God has in store for you, just around the corner. Don't look back my love, look ahead to what God is going to give you. He never closes one door without opening another one. :)

Be strong in Jesus, for in Him you are.
Big hugs, and love in Him
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Praying for you heaven....and I stand in agreeance with Gentle-heart's post.
 
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Gentle-Heart said:
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Oh precious heaven Jesus understands how hard this is but though you may be upset and hurting now, this will pass and you will know of peace and comfort to replace it.
All of us feel this way when we decide to go separate ways. It feels sad because we once enjoyed being close to someone and it is a loss. However, my love whatever we go through Jesus goes through it with us and we are never alone.

The Lord will bring you many people in your life, some perhaps for a little while, others for longer but in the case of boyfriends you need to be very sure that they are the person of God's choosing for you. Marriage is a committment that is life changing and God will prepare you and the right man for you to marry. We have to be patient about these things. Meanwhile enjoy getting to know Jesus better and the friendships you gain by being with others.

Everything will work together for good, so my love, feel at peace. You both felt the need to make this decision and God will help both of you to recover and know His love and joy once more.

Praying you are filled with peace and can look forward to the many more blessings that God has in store for you, just around the corner. Don't look back my love, look ahead to what God is going to give you. He never closes one door without opening another one. :)

Be strong in Jesus, for in Him you are.
Big hugs, and love in Him
Gentle-Heart
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Well said Gentle Heart...
:pray: You will be in my prayers, and may the Spirit comfort you, and give you peace :pray:
 
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