I don't think that's the point that was being made. I think that Jesus would have accepted homosexuals if they were willing to change. That's the whole idea of repentance
We must never lose sight of the fact that sin is sin. Those who lie are no better off than those who steal, than those who fornicate, than those who are homosexuals. Someone who lies and will not repent is no more accpetable than someone who is a homosexual and will not repent.
I believe that this is something that christian-only understands

and was what he meant by his post. In my understanding he mean that those homosexuals who expect to be accepted without having to change, without having to repent, are the ones who will be in trouble.
This does not mean that we shouldn't love them as we are commanded to love all in the command to love our neighbors - but we must understand that if we really do love them, then we will not shy away from trying to teach them the truth and help them to repent of their sins.