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Boundries?

Melethiel

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In the end, it's up to you to decide, based on your own strengths and weaknesses.

We don't really have any emotional or spiritual boundaries (I'm not even sure what those are?) Physically, it's simple: clothes stay on, hands don't go where they shouldn't. Anything else is fair game.
 
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The Nihilist

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Well, my exgirlfriend would never let me (do gross things). Of course, we're not together anymore, so maybe boundaries aren't what they're cracked up to be.


I'd like to take this opportunity to point out how hard it was for me not to be hilariously explicit. I hope you all appreciate it.
 
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wishbenash

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Rules with other people...


Dont do behind my back that you wouldnt do in front of me.
(this could be something that would make you feel uncomfortable to see your SO do)

Do not do something that makes our relationship feel like it means less what it does.
(Possibly including something that makes you feel less of a partner, eg taling down your feelings for one another)

:thumbsup:
 
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