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They don't challenge you. Challenge is a good thing to have in a relationship, someone that keeps you on your toes (not in a performance sense), in the sense that they want excellents for you (and you for them) and they won't compromise on you. It's an important thing to desire in a mate.Silver Speak said:Is it just me or does anyone else ever feel that the opposite sex bores you to death? I mean, I know the 'type' I wanna date (if there is such thing) but so far I haven't really found anyone who can keep me interested for too long... I get just so boooooored with them, sooner or later. Maybe it's because I have no interest starting a serious relationship but gee, all the guys seem the same to me!!!
Can you see me rolling my eyesTriptychR said:Learn to play video games. You'll never get bored with a guy again.
Woe, finally someone who feelws the same way...wildthing said:I don't know I find that most potential dates turn out to be boring. They fail to be interesting and they fail at wanting to learn to do new things. They want to stay doing same old stuff. They become plain old "white bread" I guess this really does not give you any answers.
Grunt said:I think I'm like that with people in general. Just looking at them and the things they do and are interested in, it just all looks so uninteresting and... irrelevant to me.
People that I can really connect with (of either sex) are probably about one in a billion.
I'm not really into that basic, plain old-fashioned christian guy who dresses all preppy, listens to Wow-cds all day long (with all respect to the ones that represent the stereotype, if so) and is oh-so-holy and everyone thinks he's the sweetest thing. It seems to me that some christian guys think they need to stop being human just because they're christian, dress certain way, act certain way. I don't like it with guys that are too 'stable'; I guess I need someone who's a little neurotic like me and who I can actually make mad instead of the you-can-do-whatever-but-I'll-just-keep-calm thing *shivers* I'm not into the sweet type either... I just want a little edgePetraFan007 said:What are you looking for in a guy?
Let's see, you want a guy who is smart, neurotic, manic, and edgy. Trouble's a-brewin'!!Silver Speak said:I don't like it with guys that are too 'stable'; I guess I need someone who's a little neurotic like me and who I can actually make mad instead of the you-can-do-whatever-but-I'll-just-keep-calm thing *shivers* I'm not into the sweet type either... I just want a little edge
Oh, and I really like guys who are intellectual (without being too conscious about it, though). Guess it's true what someone said about being challenged by that person. *Calling for all the smart guys out there*
We should be careful not to attribute people with a bit of an edge with these problems that you listed. It is possible to have a man that has an edge to him that doesn't have these problems (the converse is true as well, it is possible for the guy Silver says she doesn't like, to have these problems).Fatolia said:Sorry to hear that Silver Speak...but I gotta tell you, if you got to know these guys better, you'd probably found out they are different and have all sorts of problems. Pride issues, pornography and masturbation addictions, lust and selfish ambition issues, short tempers....you're wanting problems in people?
amen, that is soo true, the_man....the_man said:They don't challenge you. Challenge is a good thing to have in a relationship, someone that keeps you on your toes (not in a performance sense), in the sense that they want excellents for you (and you for them) and they won't compromise on you. It's an important thing to desire in a mate.
It's good thought that you have recognized this, it will save you plenty of heart ache.
Yep, yep ... that would be instrumental.OhhJim said:Sounds like you want a musician. Yep, definitely a musician, preferably one who writes his own music.
For a moment I thought a signed on and posted this with another IDSilver Speak said:I'm not really into that basic, plain old-fashioned christian guy who dresses all preppy, listens to Wow-cds all day long (with all respect to the ones that represent the stereotype, if so) and is oh-so-holy and everyone thinks he's the sweetest thing. It seems to me that some christian guys think they need to stop being human just because they're christian, dress certain way, act certain way.
They exist and maybe you will even meet them. And to be fair: not only musicians are like this. Alas, not all of them are (yet) believers.Silver Speak said:I don't like it with guys that are too 'stable'; I guess I need someone who's a little neurotic like me and who I can actually make mad instead of the you-can-do-whatever-but-I'll-just-keep-calm thing *shivers* I'm not into the sweet type either... I just want a little edge
Oh, and I really like guys who are intellectual (without being too conscious about it, though). Guess it's true what someone said about being challenged by that person. *Calling for all the smart guys out there*
Amen! Stereotypes...the_man said:We should be careful not to attribute people with a bit of an edge with these problems that you listed. It is possible to have a man that has an edge to him that doesn't have these problems (the converse is true as well, it is possible for the guy Silver says she doesn't like, to have these problems).
No problems with musicians, haha.OhhJim said:Let's see, you want a guy who is smart, neurotic, manic, and edgy. Trouble's a-brewin'!!
Sounds like you want a musician. Yep, definitely a musician, preferably one who writes his own music. What's Gene Simmons up to these days?
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