Birth Control?

[hooverbranch]

As soon as the sperm and the egg meet cells beging to divide and a being with a completely different system is being formed. Implantation doesn't happen until about a week to 10 days later. I believe that any form of birth control that keeps a conceived child from implanting is abortion and is wrong. All barrier forms that I know of only keep the egg and sperm from meeting. The comment "If it's God's will you will get pregnant anyway" takes away all human responsibility. Well if it's God's will I'll lose weight today. If it's God's will I'll treat my husband right today and if I don't I guess that was just God's will. What God has ordained will happen, but that does not take away our will that can go against God's will. Our going against God's will will never stop Him from completing His will but we can rebel against God and our relationship with Him as a Christian can be strained because of our decisions to do our own thing. If you are truly reformed then the logical answer to this question is that you wouldn't use birth control because God's will will be done no matter what. I on the other hand think that God opens and closes the womb when he pleases but that because of our lack of faith (including my husband and I) we use barrier methods to prevent pregnancy. I really don't know where I'm going with this and I'm totally in the wrong forum for my beliefs but I was sent here by a reformed guy that wanted me to see what he believed and I ran across this. Sorry if it didn't make any sense : )

Its ok. You do have a bit arminian belief in this and yes you are in the wrong forum. But I guess that would be my fault wouldnt it.