Bill Gates: I don't pay enough tax!

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So then why doesn't he give more money to the government? To my knowledge there is no law forbidding that.
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strange thing to complain about.
he should just donate money instead of broadcasting that he thinks he should pay more.
to me this is a: "look at me! I want the 1% to love me"
Precisely.

His [complaint] that he doesn't pay "enough" in taxes is pure dissemblance. I don't know his true motives for uttering such nonsense, but clearly, it's about as genuine as his software is bug-free.
 
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It isn't charity in the sense that he's being coerced to give money to the government.

If he's using the excuse that he "doesn't pay enough taxes" as an excuse to support levying a tax on everyone else, then, quite frankly, he has no credibility for any reasonable person.
One has a legal obligation to pay taxes to their government. That amount is determined by a variety of factors, but once it is determined, that much money is owed.

If he believes that he's not giving enough money to the government (which is what a tax is) it's perfectly acceptable for him to offer more.
But that money would not be him paying taxes, that would him donating (ie. being charitable).

If an individual chooses to give money to an entity, whatever that entity is, that donation is an act of charity.
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You need to have the difference between a government and a charity explained to you?
I'm not calling the GOVERNMENT a charity, I am saying that paying money on TOP of legally required taxes is not TAX but CHARITY.
If he believes that he's not giving enough money to the government (which is what a tax is) it's perfectly acceptable for him to offer more.
I concur whole heartedly.....but that money would no longer be "tax", it would be charity.

To clarify (hopefully) my point, I happily pay the taxes I am legally obliged to do so. I would not pay more because, while I am happy to support most government programs, there are MANY government programs I do NOT support and there are agencies in my community that I am philosophically in line with from first to last page. Like an adult, I accept that I can't always have my way with everything and if some of my tax dollars go to programs I disagree with (but many other do) I'll swallow that pill.
If I am not legally obligated to pay more, then anything else is charity and I would rather give my charity to organizations that have a more direct impact on my and my communities lives (and with whom I more closely align philosophically).

If somehow, increases in taxes are passed and I'm forced to give more, well, that is a contextually different discussion. I'm more interested in ensuring my idea of the differentiation between "Extra taxes" and "charity" is understood.
 
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If he believes he doesn't pay enough taxes, why does he need the government to force him to pay more? Why can't he choose to charitably give the government more of his money?
perhapshe feels like i do, that, as charitable organizations go, I wouldn't give to the government. He has the bill and melinda gates thing going on
 
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Welcome back Scottish John. We have missed your insight and debating experience since the election. I know that election caused some questions for you and I see that the Lib Dem icon has disappeared from your profile. Are you SNP now?

I've not posted here for a long time. But I saw this and was interested to see what people would think. Often the debate here takes place in a fairly polarised manner, but this comment struck me as being quite interesting because it is not framed as a question of it being one thing or the other, it is an interesting middle place. If I can explain what I mean: often the debate about taxation, and public services and so on contains a postion which says withdraw from taxation, cut public services, rely on freewill giving and charity and then another position which says, increase the size of government, increase public services, and tax and spend more. I am simplifying a bit, but the reality is often just as polarised.

However, it strikes me that Gates is saying that those who are amongst the very rich need to do both. Need to fulfill what I understand as being a responsibility to their government and society by paying taxation which is proportionate to their ability to pay, AS WELL as being philanthropists and giving charitably to the causes which move their hearts.

In the context of the USA , where taxes are overall much lower, what you say makes some sense and the real social needs in the USA can be addressed with a more positive approach to tax and to organised charitable endeavours. Bill Gates is an admirable model in this respect. He both understands that the rate of tax paid by Americas wealthy is on an international level quite low and raises serious social justice issues in the US and also that there are things that wealthy individuals can do to change the world for the better for all mankind. In the UK I think things have become more polarised and we may be on opposite sides of the fence there as I think tax and big government have become the problem rather than the answer to much at all.

I don't know an awful lot about Bill Gates, and I am aware that factions sieze and own personalities and then those people are tarnished for the other faction. However I am impressed by what Gates is doing in terms of his own fortune and giving. I think some issues need to become almost apolitical and not debated in the tired partisan way we approach so much of politics.

I'm interested to hear what everyone else has to say.

BBC News - Bill Gates: I don't pay enough tax

I think it is a serious issue that people like Bill Gates tend to emerge in an entrepreneurially friendly and free society like the USA rather than in more socialist Europe. I would trust a public sector department run by the man as much as his tropical disease foundation although I tend to think he has more freedom to do good without being under governments yoke and he has organised the response to dealing with tropical diseases in a highly efficient manner.

I believe the guy gave about 20 million to the trust funds of each of his kids and that they are unlikely to inherit his billions which are more likely to go to his charitable trust funds and continue the work he has started long after he has gone. He's right noone really needs more than about 20 million unless they have a big mission and dream to fulfil for the greater good like Gates does.
 
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Welcome back Scottish John. We have missed your insight and debating experience since the election. I know that election caused some questions for you and I see that the Lib Dem icon has disappeared from your profile. Are you SNP now?

Hi Mindlight, yeah I just lost the will to participate in any kind of discussion about anything. I found the whole coalition thing so utterly disappointing, power at any cost rather than standing up for the principles that had drawn me to the party in the first place. As far as I am concerned the lib dems are pretty irrelevant now, and I fully expect their vote to collapse at the next election, and I can't really say that it is any more than they deserve. Watching the pantomime of deals and publicity stunts is painful. I've kept an eye on the forums from time to time, and I know you've had your own disappointments with the tories since the election too. A painful time for everyone. I think my problem has always been a kind of political idealism which stretches way beyond what people will swallow in the politics of today. There is no room for creativity or radical solutions - we have an electorate which will continue to reward mediocrity and swap allegiance every eight years or so, but who refuse to engage in the business of holding government to account. I used to believe that by being involved in discussion with people that this was something that might change, but the fact is most people don't want to be involved in politics, they don't want to do the work to inform themselves, they don't want to spend time effort or money on good government, they just want to be able to vote every now and again and hope for the best in between. That being the case we end up with a pretty cynical system which is about soundbites and pr, and not about real solutions.

The only thing that has given me any optimism at all about the political process is doing some research on early intervention and reading through some of the reports Cameron commissioned from Graham Allen and Frank Fields. Both of those are incredibly insightful, well informed and practical, and call for more real cross bench attempts to solve some of the very real long term problems facing our society.

For me politics has to be about creating a structure within a country which allows the best opportunities for people to thrive, fulfill their potential, and that has to be about making sure that everyone - nomatter where they start in life, or what their specific problems are, is treated with respect and humanity, and where necessary given extra support and mentoring.

The kind of work I do I am confronted with brokenness every single day, people crushed by life, by the experiences they have had, the experience their parents had and how that affected their upbringing. We are simply not treating them the way we should be. The daily mail may label them as wasters and a drain on society, but as a society we can choose to walk past on the other side of the road saying its their fault for choosing to travel to Jericho alone, or we can accept that people make all kinds of mistakes and we are all weaker if we just let people crumple and destroy themselves and others. It's not about doing things to people, but standing with them and offering the right kind of assistance.

Your comment about the SNP made me smile. I cannot stand them, I have nothing good to say about Alex Salmond who is in this solely for egotistical purposes. An independent scotland would be a disaster for Scotland and would hasten the breakup of the uk - which seems uneccesarily expensive and pointless. Unless perhaps you live in the south east, in which case it might make little or no impact. I am currently fairly disgusted with all political parties and there are none I would affiliate myself to. I didn't vote in the scottish election because I hadn't bothered to inform myself of the positions of the parties, and because I was scunnered with all of them. I would have been part of the problem rather than an agent for change. If I vote again, it will most likely be about who is the best local candidate rather than about which rosette they wear. Unless of course they are tories. ;) We are seeing now the problems with image remodelling, if the Tories had been honest about what has always been their agenda - smaller government and smaller social spending - I doubt they would have been elected. Cameron made a big song and dance about loving the NHS and wanting to protect it. I don't really see that in his bill. More vandalism. But this time the party I voted for are complicit in it. Which is depressing.

mindlight said:
In the context of the USA , where taxes are overall much lower, what you say makes some sense and the real social needs in the USA can be addressed with a more positive approach to tax and to organised charitable endeavours. Bill Gates is an admirable model in this respect. He both understands that the rate of tax paid by Americas wealthy is on an international level quite low and raises serious social justice issues in the US and also that there are things that wealthy individuals can do to change the world for the better for all mankind. In the UK I think things have become more polarised and we may be on opposite sides of the fence there as I think tax and big government have become the problem rather than the answer to much at all.

Yeah I can agree with that up to a point. I think for me it is all about management and efficiency. We have a false dilema in which we seem to associate the one with private enterprise and the other with public sector projects. And on these forums our approach even to that is not consistent when it comes to for example spending on defense vs spending on healthcare.

There has to be a balance between avoiding punitive taxation, and also ensuring everyone contributes in a way that is fair to all. I do not subscribe to the socialist model of chasing all the rich people out of the country through taxing them ridiculously, I do think however it is profoundly unfair that people who scrape by get no relieft, and people who have more money than they could ever spend, are able to use bully tactics with the exchequer threatenign to reflag their corportations and therefore pay less and less of their share. We need prosperity, but there should also be a strong sense of social responsibility tied to that - a culture where people are proud to contribute to fantastic government programmes. I think people would grudge their taxation less if they felt what they were getting was value for money. There are two issues in that - one is a lack of awareness of what we actually have in comparisson to so much of the rest of the world. We love to grumble yet some of our services are amazing. All could be better though. The other side to it is poor management, poor strategic change, poor politiicians doing poor jobs. Change motivated by what is easy and achievable and a sound basis for election, rather than what is maybe more unpalatable but sounder practise for the long term.

mindlight said:
I think it is a serious issue that people like Bill Gates tend to emerge in an entrepreneurially friendly and free society like the USA rather than in more socialist Europe. I would trust a public sector department run by the man as much as his tropical disease foundation although I tend to think he has more freedom to do good without being under governments yoke and he has organised the response to dealing with tropical diseases in a highly efficient manner.

IN my mind the problem is not about a success or failure in creating immensely wealthy individuals. But about the opportunities for everyone. I dunno how much of Gates success is really about socialism or capitalism, and how much of it is about money and minds coming together in the right place at the right time. Some of it must be put down to him as an individual and his ability to function in any system. We have our entrepreneurs, and actually in terms of population and GDP we probably still punch above our weight. We are smaller than some individual states in the US and I think that has to be taken into account. I think culture is a big issue too when considering the differences between the US and UK. The people who left their country to build something new vs the people who stayed behind and endured industrialisation and two crippling wars. I wonder where the US will be in another couple of hundred years. And I don't know how much of that is going to be about financial systems and how much of it is about the social life identity and psyche of a nation.

If you imagine the two nations as individuals, the UK has to battle with complacency of being the elder and more established, the fight not to rest on laurels. The different circumstances in which we have existed in the last century as our star has waned and the US's has waxed. We have lost identity, lost much of our place in the world. Whereas the US is possibly past it's peak but not yet aware of that. Perhaps not. They have also carved a country out of nothing over a relatively short period of time, turned that country into one of the most prominent and powerful nations on the planet. Those things have a profound impact.

Economics is important but it is not the only story or only factor. I would not be racing to set up a system which had as its main aim ensuring the creation of lots of entreprenuers, I would prefer a system which took a wider view - encouraging all kinds of growth.

mindlight said:
I believe the guy gave about 20 million to the trust funds of each of his kids and that they are unlikely to inherit his billions which are more likely to go to his charitable trust funds and continue the work he has started long after he has gone. He's right noone really needs more than about 20 million unless they have a big mission and dream to fulfil for the greater good like Gates does.

Yup I think that shows a great deal of sound judgement - and is a pretty big stept to take.
 
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Hi Mindlight, yeah I just lost the will to participate in any kind of discussion about anything. I found the whole coalition thing so utterly disappointing, power at any cost rather than standing up for the principles that had drawn me to the party in the first place. As far as I am concerned the lib dems are pretty irrelevant now, and I fully expect their vote to collapse at the next election, and I can't really say that it is any more than they deserve.

The mess that Labour made of the accounts was pretty devastating so the Lib Dems are a little unfortunate in the context in which they wish to prove their economic credibility. I would love to believe as a Tory that prosperity will return in time for the election but there are no guarantees on this and the cuts must still bite deep. To some extent the Lib Dems have been in the way of delivering the necessary painful medecine but they have also made some substantial contributions.

the fact is most people don't want to be involved in politics, they don't want to do the work to inform themselves, they don't want to spend time effort or money on good government, they just want to be able to vote every now and again and hope for the best in between. That being the case we end up with a pretty cynical system which is about soundbites and pr, and not about real solutions.

There is nothing wrong with the idealism you shared. Indeed it would be a shame to ever lose sight of what really matters and what will endure. However politics is the art of the possible in most cases. I think in a culture where your job determines the size of your house and your ability to shop people no longer worry about their closeness to the king (or political system) as thats not what buys them their place in society any more. However politics can and should be more than a play with advertising images to a politically ignorant populace.

For me politics has to be about creating a structure within a country which allows the best opportunities for people to thrive, fulfill their potential, and that has to be about making sure that everyone - nomatter where they start in life, or what their specific problems are, is treated with respect and humanity, and where necessary given extra support and mentoring.

The kind of work I do I am confronted with brokenness every single day, people crushed by life, by the experiences they have had, the experience their parents had and how that affected their upbringing. We are simply not treating them the way we should be. The daily mail may label them as wasters and a drain on society, but as a society we can choose to walk past on the other side of the road saying its their fault for choosing to travel to Jericho alone, or we can accept that people make all kinds of mistakes and we are all weaker if we just let people crumple and destroy themselves and others. It's not about doing things to people, but standing with them and offering the right kind of assistance.

A good political structure is of course essential. The work you do with the poor and disadvantaged is admirable. The child poverty actions and reports that you commended seem to be a highly positive initiative to break the cycle of poverty and to prevent it being passed down the generations- education, social mobility and also physical mobility when failed communities themselves are perpetuating the problem and need to be broken up. I think economics e.g, getting a job and the willingness to move on to new frontiers and away from the wounds of the past maybe essential parts of this also.


Your comment about the SNP made me smile. I cannot stand them, I have nothing good to say about Alex Salmond who is in this solely for egotistical purposes. An independent scotland would be a disaster for Scotland and would hasten the breakup of the uk - which seems uneccesarily expensive and pointless. Unless perhaps you live in the south east, in which case it might make little or no impact.

I am not sure London or the SE really care if Scotland goes its own way and indeed think that they will probably save some taxes if it does. However independence would be good for neither Scotland or the UK in my view

Unless of course they are tories. ;) We are seeing now the problems with image remodelling, if the Tories had been honest about what has always been their agenda - smaller government and smaller social spending - I doubt they would have been elected. Cameron made a big song and dance about loving the NHS and wanting to protect it. I don't really see that in his bill. More vandalism. But this time the party I voted for are complicit in it. Which is depressing.

Now who is bound to what Scots often perceived as the "bitterness" of the Thatcher years on that one? The NHS budget has not fallen, as promised, but the days of plenty are over for now and this is vital if we are ever to balance the budget. I really believe small government and lower taxes and focusing government on what it does best is important. But there is also the simple fact that we still have a large deficit and the money has to come from somewhere.


There has to be a balance between avoiding punitive taxation, and also ensuring everyone contributes in a way that is fair to all. I do not subscribe to the socialist model of chasing all the rich people out of the country ......We need prosperity, but there should also be a strong sense of social responsibility tied to that - a culture where people are proud to contribute to fantastic government programmes. I think people would grudge their taxation less if they felt what they were getting was value for money.

The 50% income tax was a mistake and needs to be removed. I agree that riches and social responsibility should walk hand in hand . It is the degree of compulsion to the latter that we probably disagree on.


If you imagine the two nations as individuals, the UK has to battle with complacency of being the elder and more established, the fight not to rest on laurels. The different circumstances in which we have existed in the last century as our star has waned and the US's has waxed. We have lost identity, lost much of our place in the world. Whereas the US is possibly past it's peak but not yet aware of that. Perhaps not. They have also carved a country out of nothing over a relatively short period of time, turned that country into one of the most prominent and powerful nations on the planet. Those things have a profound impact.

Economics is important but it is not the only story or only factor. I would not be racing to set up a system which had as its main aim ensuring the creation of lots of entreprenuers, I would prefer a system which took a wider view - encouraging all kinds of growth.

The UK grew its empire to its widest extent after it lost America and then lost it fighting wars it won but which bankrupted it. I think it is a little early to write off the USA - China is more likely to stumble in the coming decades. Something very important was lost with the loss of our greatness that was far more essential than imperial power. It was a moral identity and sense of civilising mission and I believe this is a product of a crisis of faith. I think this young passion and zeal for the future is something every nation has the potential to recover. It walks hand in hand with the revival of its churches.

However the moral rot runs deep in the UK and all parties have bought heavily into it in the last years. There is no party that perfectly captures the Christian agenda for the UK but I still believe that reducing the power of a deceived, parasitic and debilitating state has to be a part of opening up the possibility of the revival of the people of our once great nation. Yes there are things that the state does well and indeed I would not want an American health service,with all its costs, to replace the NHS, however it is also doing too much badly and having lost its moral anchor in recent years it taints much that it touches.
 
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The mess that Labour made of the accounts was pretty devastating so the Lib Dems are a little unfortunate in the context in which they wish to prove their economic credibility. I would love to believe as a Tory that prosperity will return in time for the election but there are no guarantees on this and the cuts must still bite deep. To some extent the Lib Dems have been in the way of delivering the necessary painful medecine but they have also made some substantial contributions.

I think I'd have more sympathy with that mantra if there had been more people shouting out along the way. But Labour were there for almost 13 years, and it was only once the global crisis was well underway that people started to cast blame. We were all complicit in the years of plenty, the failure of all parties to form a credible opposition as well as whatever mistakes or misjudgements Labour made contributed to our own version of what hit every country in the world in some way or other. There are a number of failures alongside public spending, failure to regulate and to moderate greed.


mindlight said:
There is nothing wrong with the idealism you shared. Indeed it would be a shame to ever lose sight of what really matters and what will endure. However politics is the art of the possible in most cases. I think in a culture where your job determines the size of your house and your ability to shop people no longer worry about their closeness to the king (or political system) as thats not what buys them their place in society any more. However politics can and should be more than a play with advertising images to a politically ignorant populace.

Thats kind of it in a nutshell and it goes round and round, our governance will not improve unless we as an electorate up our game. But where does the time and energy come from? More and more I think there is something utterly utterly empty about the way we do life and work and even church. Been reading ecclesiastes! Our economy is so much about consumerism and loads of crap we don't really need, houses that are worth far and away more than their constituent parts, money is almost meaningless. But when you look at the breakdown of our time and how much of it goes into work and money compared to how much of it goes into family and leisure and volunteering, what does it say about us? If we work really hard and make tons of cash, we might be able to put a huge wad of cash in the collection plate, we might tell ourselves that society needs taxpayers like us, movers and shakers, and that we are justified in creating an idol out of work and money. But I think the cost is too great. Children are children only once and if you miss it then it is gone. People come through your life and if you don't make time for them they are gone. You die and leave a half million pound house to your kids, but is that really worth all the sacrifices, all the bits of life you didn't live? Even in church. What is the balance between effort spent keeping buildings open, paying heating bills, etc etc and actually serving the communities the churches are in? Victorian follies are beautiful, but is the church really a preservation society for impractical buildings? Whatever was in the hearts of the people who built them, every hard earned £ that goes on a new roof, or a patch on a heating system, or whatever it is, is a £ that is not going serving the commission laid out to us.


mindlight said:
A good political structure is of course essential. The work you do with the poor and disadvantaged is admirable. The child poverty actions and reports that you commended seem to be a highly positive initiative to break the cycle of poverty and to prevent it being passed down the generations- education, social mobility and also physical mobility when failed communities themselves are perpetuating the problem and need to be broken up. I think economics e.g, getting a job and the willingness to move on to new frontiers and away from the wounds of the past maybe essential parts of this also.

Theres not a lot to disagree with here. LIke you go on to say though, it is how we achieve that that we never seem to see in the same way.

A woman came into my work yesterday. She was really upset. She had spent the last six months in rehab, she is an alcoholic and occasional drug user, and she has a fifteen year old daughter. She was scared because she had only been out of rehab a few months and she was back drinking. She was utterly broken. Years of self abuse has meant she has a number of health and mental problems. I would go as far to say that in her current state she is totally unemployable. She came in because she was lonely, her problems were crushing her and she didn't know what to do with herself. She has been going to a pentecostal church, and has had a few experiences there that have really spoken to her, but recently has felt nothing when she has been prayed for and has decided that she is too rotten on the inside for God to be intersted in her, that she has done too many terrible terrible things.

Now she is not in any way unusual. And we can sit and talk about the decisions she has made and the consequences those have had. The daily mail would have a field day with her. What does not happen, what never happens, is any of us trying to understand why she has made those decisions. We take an easy road of saying well she's just a waster and a drain on society. But she is a precious - if broken - human being. And to get her functioning again in a way where she could work, take care of herself and her daughter, is going to take years, consistent high quality input. Input that is not cut off the first time she relapses. Input that is not about arbitrary goals set around government targets. Input that is not set around someone else deciding what her 'problem' is and making a simple solution that does nothing to address the emotional pain she is in, the mental health problems she has. There are hundreds of people like her, and we used to let them die or rot in workhouses. I would like to see us investing in people like her, not because there is a huge return, but because they are human beings and utterly worth it.

Then there is her daughter, who knows what damage has been done there, and what the future holds.

Early intervention is good and would nip a lot of this stuff in the bud and break a lot of cycles. But there is also a need to catch those who are already falling hard. Not to stigmatise them, not to blame them, not to wash our hands of them because they have made and might continue to make bad choices, but to do our best by them. I have met literally dozens of women like her. it is not a small problem, but what are we really going to do about it?


mindlight said:
I am not sure London or the SE really care if Scotland goes its own way and indeed think that they will probably save some taxes if it does. However independence would be good for neither Scotland or the UK in my view

I agree. :)


mindlight said:
Now who is bound to what Scots often perceived as the "bitterness" of the Thatcher years on that one?

I'm going to appeal to your compassion on this one mindlight. Yes the unions needed dealt with, yes the state industries needed reformed. But the human cost of what Thatcher did is horrendous, and that in turn has created a financial cost. Binning people, removing their purpose, their self respect, their ability to provide has left a lasting legacy. It is not bitterness, it is poorly contained fury. I deal every day with her mess, I have spent the last 10 years living in and confronted by the direct consequences of her few years of victory. Over 15% unemployment in Scotland - as much as 20% in Northern Ireland. And no real plan for how to get those people new jobs, no real concern for them or their families or their wellbeing. This is not a woman I could ever ever admire. She made a choice - she had a big problem to deal with. Her choice was wrong, and the legacy of it is several generations of people who are broken.

mindlight said:
The NHS budget has not fallen, as promised, but the days of plenty are over for now and this is vital if we are ever to balance the budget. I really believe small government and lower taxes and focusing government on what it does best is important. But there is also the simple fact that we still have a large deficit and the money has to come from somewhere.

If the Tories had the support of the colleges I might grudingly agree with you.But the last Tory attempt at efficiencies in the NHS got rid of sister and gave us dirty hospitals and super bugs. It does not look like the tories do not have the support of the health profession. Forgive me if I am thinking fool me once...

Privatisation of contracts does not always equal savings or efficiency. It means that the money that was spent before has to go further, because as well as providing a service, it has to turn a profit.

We do need to tighten our belts. I do not follow the news the way I used to and have not read up in detail on the bill so cannot pretend to understand the ins and outs of what is being proposed. But I am struck by the way that doctors who were initially on board are now jumping ship. If the budget is not going down, perhaps you can explain what the benefit of the bill is and why we need it when it seems to have so many healthcare professionals so upset and concerned for the future of our healthcare?

mindlight said:
The 50% income tax was a mistake and needs to be removed. I agree that riches and social responsibility should walk hand in hand . It is the degree of compulsion to the latter that we probably disagree on.

I don't particularly wish for there to be compulsion. But the fact is that leaving it up to the concience of the individual did not work. Which is the very reason the wellfare state was invented. If people did their bit voluntarily, then there would never have been any reason for the wellfare state in the first place. However people are greedy and selfish and if there is no compulsion then for every philanthropist like Gates there are a dozen who don't care a hoot about their fellow man, and who will pocket whatever they can, pay as little tax as they can. When Reagan cut taxes in the 80s there was a much lauded rise in charitable giving, but when you look at the actual figures, the the increase in charitable giving is miniscule compared to the money which stayed in the pockets of the rich. So while services are cut, the equivalent charities are not sprinign up to provide what government no longer can.


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The UK grew its empire to its widest extent after it lost America and then lost it fighting wars it won but which bankrupted it. I think it is a little early to write off the USA - China is more likely to stumble in the coming decades.

It is just the nature of things, the crown passes on, no empire lasts for ever. If it is not now it will be later, but I think America has some really significant problems to overcome if it wants to retain its place at the top. And I don't see much progress in that direction.

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Something very important was lost with the loss of our greatness that was far more essential than imperial power. It was a moral identity and sense of civilising mission and I believe this is a product of a crisis of faith. I think this young passion and zeal for the future is something every nation has the potential to recover. It walks hand in hand with the revival of its churches.

I think identity and mission and purpose are important. But also complex. You and I will never agree on the colonial period. You have your own personal ties to that period of time and I have my perspective which is quite different. You have to accept that you are in a very small minority of people who think that colonialism was on the whole good. And I don't know how real a grasp of the actual history of colonialism you have, there were christian men involved in colonialism, but the prime motivation and factor was money. We never annexed or invaded anywhere to protect mission stations - it was always about trade. There was so much moral flexibility, institutional racism and just downright brutality involved in building the empire. And so many current conflicts can be traced back to issues cemented in the colonial period. I honestly don't know how to understand your enthusiasm for it. Not that I don't want to - I just don't know how.

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However the moral rot runs deep in the UK and all parties have bought heavily into it in the last years. There is no party that perfectly captures the Christian agenda for the UK but I still believe that reducing the power of a deceived, parasitic and debilitating state has to be a part of opening up the possibility of the revival of the people of our once great nation. Yes there are things that the state does well and indeed I would not want an American health service,with all its costs, to replace the NHS, however it is also doing too much badly and having lost its moral anchor in recent years it taints much that it touches.

Never mind the parties - theres not even a church which perfectly captures the christian agenda - you and I are both christians but would come from quite different perspectives.

When we start talking about moral rot, it is back to that same place of seeing the actions and classifying them as good or bad, but not understanding the motivations. Having said that, we probably couldn't even agree on which fitted into the good category and which fitted into the bad.

It is easy to point out fault, ajnd it exists in every section of society and in every person. Some are very public and easily condemned. Some are socially acceptable - like greed for instance. Some are private and rot away under the surface. I think if we as christians can step away from judgement and pointing out fault and seeking to provoke feelings of guilt or shame, and instead journey beside people then we might do a bit more good, and Christianity wouldn't have the poor reputation that it currently enjoys in the UK. People responded to Jesus with joy and spontinaety. Not out of guilt or having been shamed into it. If I had turned round and said to that woman yesterday - of course you are miserable look at all the stupid stuff you are doing, I would have been correct, but utterly lacking in compassion, Adopting a position that ignored my own faults which might or might not be more socially acceptable or hidden, and I would have lost the chance to be anything useful to her. But again and again that is how we treat people, and we are reaping the withered and paltry harvest of having been pretty rubbish for a long time.
 
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I have seriously missed our discussions and have been thinking about your post most of the day. I can respect you are a Christian and yet yes we do have very different ways of looking at the world. The combination of those two things is a definite stimulus to serious debate :)
I think I'd have more sympathy with that mantra if there had been more people shouting out along the way. But Labour were there for almost 13 years, and it was only once the global crisis was well underway that people started to cast blame. We were all complicit in the years of plenty, the failure of all parties to form a credible opposition as well as whatever mistakes or misjudgements Labour made contributed to our own version of what hit every country in the world in some way or other. There are a number of failures alongside public spending, failure to regulate and to moderate greed.
That's not entirely fair the Tories have always been about smaller government and objected to the various quangos and bureaucracies that Labour were foisting on the public services at an early stage. The mess made of the defence budget is a national disgrace and the mismatch between commitments and expenditure would be funny if it were not so costly. Other countries came into this crisis much better prepared and there is no real reason why Britain, unlike Germany for instance, could not have been running a surplus rather than a substantial deficit coming into this crisis. Gordons Browns vision of a socialist state is a primary factor in Britains current problems. The Tories did share the blindness to a considerable extent over the banking industry, however they had been saying for some time that we needed a more balanced economy and were with the CBI mourning Labours apparent disregard for the manufacturing sector for instance before the crisis struck.
This theme of greed being the ultimate evil of the rich and powerful reoccurs in your writing and I want to come back to that later in my post.
our governance will not improve unless we as an electorate up our game. But where does the time and energy come from?
More and more I think there is something utterly utterly empty about the way we do life and work and even church. Been reading ecclesiastes! Our economy is so much about consumerism and loads of crap we don't really need, houses that are worth far and away more than their constituent parts, money is almost meaningless. But when you look at the breakdown of our time and how much of it goes into work and money compared to how much of it goes into family and leisure and volunteering, what does it say about us? If we work really hard and make tons of cash, we might be able to put a huge wad of cash in the collection plate, we might tell ourselves that society needs taxpayers like us, movers and shakers, and that we are justified in creating an idol out of work and money. But I think the cost is too great. Children are children only once and if you miss it then it is gone. People come through your life and if you don't make time for them they are gone. You die and leave a half million pound house to your kids, but is that really worth all the sacrifices, all the bits of life you didn't live?
I share your concerns with the ways in which a consumer society and the pressures to earn enough to live in it, eat away a persons time for more productive activities with children and with church for instance, or indeed for the simple concern for ones fellow human beings. It can seem an utterly empty vision and seems petty by contrast to the age of empires, or indeed to the times of grand wars for noble purposes, demanding great sacrifices, or to grand projects like building cathedrals to the glory of God, or sending people to the moon to explore the Creation. Our visions have grown small and parochial even as the world has come together and the mental and chronological distances between global places and cultures have shrunk. There is a distinct lack of nobility in the fat slob on his couch watching TV and posting on Facebook who lacks the energy to reach for anything higher. A real vision energises a culture to aspire to something more and it's true this vision may even be lacking in a church wrapped up in the personal pursuit of inner peace and pastoral advice for complex psychological problems. It may well be that answer for the mess we have allowed to grow within may be something that draws us out there into a larger vision and purpose.
Regarding the price of houses I think actually the reason for the inflation of prices in England is basic supply and demand. the population is still growing on a small island. It is the price of the land rather than the increasingly cheaper materials used to build houses that is the problem. There has always been an outward population pressure in the place- the early version was male primogenitur and the latest is the price of houses. The difference now is that net inward immigration is accelerating the trend to higher prices. More people may have to live in flats is the simply answer.
Even in church. What is the balance between effort spent keeping buildings open, paying heating bills, etc etc and actually serving the communities the churches are in? Victorian follies are beautiful, but is the church really a preservation society for impractical buildings? Whatever was in the hearts of the people who built them, every hard earned £ that goes on a new roof, or a patch on a heating system, or whatever it is, is a £ that is not going serving the commission laid out to us.
I definitely disagree that impractically beautiful old church buildings are an unnecessary cost. Though this does depend on the quality of the building we are talking about. Not all are worthy of the cost of preservation but many are a powerful witness to the glory of God built into the very architectural fabric of our nation. It's a fact that beautiful churches often attract larger congregations and also allow for church tourists at weddings and funerals who later join the church proper , originally attracted by nothing stronger than an attractive place for a wedding. The effective management of these resources and fund raising activities are crucial factors of course but go hand in hand with the other aspects of the church budget.
 
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LIke you go on to say though, it is how we achieve that that we never seem to see in the same way.
A woman came into my work yesterday. She was really upset. She had spent the last six months in rehab, she is an alcoholic and occasional drug user, and she has a fifteen year old daughter. She was scared because she had only been out of rehab a few months and she was back drinking. She was utterly broken. ....... I have met literally dozens of women like her. it is not a small problem, but what are we really going to do about it?
My first reaction to this story was to pray for this lady but I think it is also a good example of how to approach the kind of brokeness you are experiencing daily from our different political perspectives. She needs a friend and you are there for her. She has some deceptions in her head about how God could never forgive her or love her because of her sins but they can be undone. She has addictions which have broken her self esteem and left her feeling helpless before the personal forces which seem to drive her towards self destruction.
So how did this happen and what's the best way to deal with it in the current circumstances? All sorts of questions were provoked in me by this.
Why is she talking to you- where is her family , her friends or the man with whom she conceived her daughter, why isn't the church speaking a language she can understand? You might be right and right now she may well be unemployable but I think the roots of this are deep in the culture that spawned her and her own complicity with that. I also associate this example very heavily with your very Scottish reactions to Thatcher. I was amazed at the lack of balance and perspective in so many Scots when I researched their attitudes towards Thatcher.
http://discuss.glasgowguide.co.uk/index.php?showtopic=15756
http://www.newsnetscotland.com/index.php/scottish-opinion/4045-the-scotland-that-opposed-thatcher
Thatcher tried to put a poll tax on such people to encourage them to personal responsibility and to break the socialistic dependency culture and the sense of entitlement that it voiced but that definitely did not work very well and I have to say she may well have missed the deeper problems here. The preThatcher Scotland was heavily unionised but in many ways very male and hierarchical. Masculine self identity was bound up in steel manufacture, coal mines and shipbuilding. Real men built stuff with their hands and belonged to traditional hierarchies and communities. But these industries had failed long before "that woman"- Thatcher ended the charade and the culture is still recovering from the reality check she brought to it. Proud but broken men have yet to forgive and forget and my die stubbornly clinging to long dead notions of a perfect Scotland shattered by Thatcher. But a failure to forgive and to move on is seriously poisonous for Scottish people on so many levels and is possibly a reason why Scottish parties are all so left wing and so blind to the good stuff in Thatcherism and the lessons they should have learnt from the destruction of failed industries. The result is a culture that cannot be entrepreneurial, cause that is too like Thatcher, but at the same time still has a shattered welfare dependent version of the unionised left wing culture that destroyed Scotlands prime industries in the first place. How else could anyone explain a vote for the socialistic SNP except in terms of some kind of deranged response to a satanically enhanced vision of a monstrous diabolical woman of Iron holding a dagger to the throats of Scottish babies in one hand while stealing their milk with the other.
I have been in situations of brokeness with noone to call on but the Lord. Our responses to such moments define us as people. To considerable extent the change comes from our own personal choice but the culture can be supportive of that also. Where is the man that fathered this womans daughter he has responsibilities here. Where is her dad, her mother her brother or her sister. Why did the rehab programme she was on apparently fail to get to the root causes of the problems she faces? Getting on in this world means facing it as it is and the best way to get over addicitons is often to find healthier addicitons or visions to displace them e.g. Exercise, church, a hobby, a job for instance- sometimes God just gives the grace to make a choice as he did in my case with alcohol. Each small choice to do the right comes together to create a better world and we all have a role to play in that.
perhaps you can explain what the benefit of the bill is and why we need it when it seems to have so many healthcare professionals so upset and concerned for the future of our healthcare?
Actually I too am not that familiar with the precise details of this latest bill. My perception is that doctors and nurses have not been involved in preliminary discussions about various risks to the NHS being considered by the government. It makes sense to me that preliminary discussions about reform programmes should not necessarily involve the people who may well be the heart of the problem but of course these people need to be involved and won over as the real policies are formed. The self importance of doctors can be a definite problem and their egos have been massaged by 10 years over fundings without the call for reform of bad working practices. It may well be that the Helath Secretary is just telling them they cannot walk on water. If they take a step back for a moment they may well realise he is right. But again I would need to look more closely at the detail to be sure that this was actually what was going on here.
However people are greedy and selfish and if there is no compulsion then for every philanthropist like Gates there are a dozen who don't care a hoot about their fellow man, and who will pocket whatever they can, pay as little tax as they can. When Reagan cut taxes in the 80s there was a much lauded rise in charitable giving, but when you look at the actual figures, the the increase in charitable giving is miniscule compared to the money which stayed in the pockets of the rich.
Giving money back to people in lower taxes may not lead in itself to a commensurate rise in charitable giving - TRUE. But by empowering families these charities and services may also not be so necessary as before. Boosting family spending power and available choices means that they are better able to support the care of dependent or broken relatives. Indeed this is the default way that these problems have been dealt with historically. To some extent socialism was a response to the breakup of traditional support and family networks with the move to the cities and factory culture. But it has always been an artificiality compared to the real thing. When families are bled dry by high taxes and by the insistence that loving your brother or sister is now a job for the experts they lose their power to help people. Restoring that power is essential to helping people like that broken women in my view.
You see a mass of petty and soiled motivations in the private sector and indeed in the emergence of the British empire which if truth be told was driven by adventurers, pirates and corporations. But you miss the courage, the hope the desire for a better life and the faith of these people who made the impossible happen and often toppled regimes far worse than the ones they brought with them or built businesses that spanned the world. 3000 British troops beat 100,000 well equipped soldiers at Plassey. A handful of Christian conquistidors toppled the corrupt, pagan and barbaric empires of South America. Disciplined RedCoats destroyed the armies of blood thirsty tyrants and slave traders. Yes I have a very different perspective on these victories - like the battle of Milvian Bridge in the distant past that preceded them all they were a good thing that brought good fruit in their wake.
It is easy to point out fault, ajnd it exists in every section of society and in every person. Some are very public and easily condemned. Some are socially acceptable - like greed for instance. Some are private and rot away under the surface. I think if we as christians can step away from judgement and pointing out fault and seeking to provoke feelings of guilt or shame, and instead journey beside people then we might do a bit more good, and Christianity wouldn't have the poor reputation that it currently enjoys in the UK. People responded to Jesus with joy and spontinaety. Not out of guilt or having been shamed into it. If I had turned round and said to that woman yesterday - of course you are miserable look at all the stupid stuff you are doing, I would have been correct, but utterly lacking in compassion, Adopting a position that ignored my own faults which might or might not be more socially acceptable or hidden, and I would have lost the chance to be anything useful to her. But again and again that is how we treat people, and we are reaping the withered and paltry harvest of having been pretty rubbish for a long time.
Personal and pastoral is not the only way to respond in a positive way to the problems of people in our society. Joining the church is like changing sides in the struggle between superpowers- you join a new army with a new and better vision , with a sense of excellence, truth , nobility and righteousness that outclasses its rivals. Our witness is motivated by the love of God not the desire to please people. We infect people with the hope, faith and love that comes from Him alone. Compassion is altoften an empty vessel cause it has not been filled with the love of God.
 
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I have seriously missed our discussions and have been thinking about your post most of the day. I can respect you are a Christian and yet yes we do have very different ways of looking at the world. The combination of those two things is a definite stimulus to serious debate :)

Yeah I've missed them too, but I think it's good that I;ve been away. I was too angry and bitter in the wake of the election, and had become too dogmatic in the months preceding it. the last couple of years have been really very tough in my life, and I think I'm coming back to this in a better frame of mind.

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That's not entirely fair the Tories have always been about smaller government and objected to the various quangos and bureaucracies that Labour were foisting on the public services at an early stage. The mess made of the defence budget is a national disgrace and the mismatch between commitments and expenditure would be funny if it were not so costly. Other countries came into this crisis much better prepared and there is no real reason why Britain, unlike Germany for instance, could not have been running a surplus rather than a substantial deficit coming into this crisis. Gordons Browns vision of a socialist state is a primary factor in Britains current problems. The Tories did share the blindness to a considerable extent over the banking industry, however they had been saying for some time that we needed a more balanced economy and were with the CBI mourning Labours apparent disregard for the manufacturing sector for instance before the crisis struck.
This theme of greed being the ultimate evil of the rich and powerful reoccurs in your writing and I want to come back to that later in my post.

I dunno if I feel like this is all about the tories. I think it is a catelogue of failure of government opposition and electorate and it's just not honest to single out one party or one group and heap all the blame on them. In so many ways we were all so busy not caring because the sun was shining, that we were all caught by surprise when it started to rain. And it could always be worse. But we find ourselves in a difficult place, and I just wish with all my heart that it would be a real lesson, and not a point scoring excercise for those we have elected. And a lesson to us too. There is no integrity in us electing a group of people, delegating much more responsibility to them than we should - basically ignoring them for four years at a time - and then crucifying them when things are tough.

Greed is one issue - a driving factor behind the crisis - and important issue and one that needs dealt with. I will never 'trust' capitalism as a system because it is amoral. At it's most basic level it is a machine which has no place for compassion or humanity, it is all about what is most efficient, what makes the most money and the shortest distance from here to there. It needs moderation. And I understand and respect your concerns about the other end of the spectrum where there is a total drop off in productivity and efficiency. Where my heart lies is in a system which prizes efficiency and profit and productivity, but places them always second to human dignity, wellbeing and the connections between individuals which make up a healthy society.

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I share your concerns with the ways in which a consumer society and the pressures to earn enough to live in it, eat away a persons time for more productive activities with children and with church for instance, or indeed for the simple concern for ones fellow human beings. It can seem an utterly empty vision and seems petty by contrast to the age of empires, or indeed to the times of grand wars for noble purposes, demanding great sacrifices, or to grand projects like building cathedrals to the glory of God, or sending people to the moon to explore the Creation. Our visions have grown small and parochial even as the world has come together and the mental and chronological distances between global places and cultures have shrunk. There is a distinct lack of nobility in the fat slob on his couch watching TV and posting on Facebook who lacks the energy to reach for anything higher. A real vision energises a culture to aspire to something more and it's true this vision may even be lacking in a church wrapped up in the personal pursuit of inner peace and pastoral advice for complex psychological problems. It may well be that answer for the mess we have allowed to grow within may be something that draws us out there into a larger vision and purpose.

I think the grand purpose we need to be making the centre of what all we do is building a society worth living in. There are any number of starting places for that - for those of us who are christians, we could start with the emphasis Christ puts on loving our neighbour. But for those who are not, this is not an exclusive stance, there are very few religions or philosophies which would stand against what Christ said. Instead of the moon or India or war or whatever it is, if we took notice of the horrible things happening right outside our front door - if those became our crusade. I don't know if I really believe that is possible though. I don't understand why we all find it so easy to switch off to human suffering and I include myself in that. Because there is so much time and resource spent on things which ultimately increase that suffering elsewhere, or are utterly futile, that it seems almost ridiculous to think that it might change, if people can't see it or can't be bothered, then how is it ever going to change.

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Regarding the price of houses I think actually the reason for the inflation of prices in England is basic supply and demand. the population is still growing on a small island. It is the price of the land rather than the increasingly cheaper materials used to build houses that is the problem. There has always been an outward population pressure in the place- the early version was male primogenitur and the latest is the price of houses. The difference now is that net inward immigration is accelerating the trend to higher prices. More people may have to live in flats is the simply answer.

Yeah there is supply and demand and we are a densely populated space, there are other factors too - certain areas being so incredibly expensive. The market includes more than just basic supply and demand, there is greed and snobbery and all sorts of stuff good and bad.

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I definitely disagree that impractically beautiful old church buildings are an unnecessary cost. Though this does depend on the quality of the building we are talking about. Not all are worthy of the cost of preservation but many are a powerful witness to the glory of God built into the very architectural fabric of our nation. It's a fact that beautiful churches often attract larger congregations and also allow for church tourists at weddings and funerals who later join the church proper , originally attracted by nothing stronger than an attractive place for a wedding. The effective management of these resources and fund raising activities are crucial factors of course but go hand in hand with the other aspects of the church budget.

It's not that I am against them. Its just that the proportion of money spent on buildings and maintenance verges on immoral. I haven't looked for a while but the last time I did the Church of Scotland was spending almost as much on buildings as it did on salaries. I suppose when faced with the scale of all the different needs which the church is there to minister to, and the fact that it is only possible to scratch the surface a lot of the time, part of me rages against repairing expensive and atiquated roofing, spending money on things that are beautiful but not practical. It's not that I am against any of it and I do appreciate the beauty and and the motivation behind those buildings, I just feel like we need to audit ourselves. If for example a church in an urban priority area is raising £40,000 per annum, and raising it from people who have very little, then is it right that £30,000 of that goes on keeping the doors open on a building which is too cold to use most of the time, impossible to heat, inflexible to use and not entirely accessible to the community. That money could in my mind be spent in much better ways. It's about the balance. If we can afford the luxury of beautiful buildings and take care of our first love - the people we are here to serve and care for then I think that's ok. If the building becomes a sink hole for all resources - and that is the case in many churches I know of, then I don't think that is ok. If half of the budget of the entire church is spent on maintaining impractical buildings, while there are people hurting, not being cared for, not being ministered to, then we need to be hard on ourselves about that. A building is there to serve us - every penny we put in should have a purpose that brings us back to people, and if that isn't the case - and I'm not saying that every church is in that situation - but if it isn't the case then it needs to be addressed. I'd sooner we rented community facilities as and when we needed them and abandoned the beautiful buildings, if it meant that more of the hard fought hard earned cash went into people and caring for people. Theres a phrase in scotland - 'the tail wagging the dug' which means that something has become out of balance and back to front - a system set up to serve has become the master. I feel like often that is where we are at with buildings.

There are examples - like the CofS cathedral in Glasgow - where the building has been handed over to historic scotland, who take responsibility for the maintenance and so on. The worshipping community are still allowed to use it, but they no longer have to bear the cost of maintaining it. The building may be something that introduces people to the worshipping community, but it will not be what makes them stay. That will be relationships with the people. And there are other more efficient and less costly ways of getting those introductions than by maintaining a fleet of buildings we really can't afford.

If you imagine that the budget for buildings was halved - either through going for lets in community space, or through contructing new more efficient churches, then that is a lot of money that could be spent on programmes, salaries, all sorts of things which would be about building relationships with people.

It's late - I just lost the other response - hit something and it disappeared. So I'll respond properly next week - I'm away this weekend as of tomorrow.
 
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I have seriously missed our discussions and have been thinking about your post most of the day. I can respect you are a Christian and yet yes we do have very different ways of looking at the world. The combination of those two things is a definite stimulus to serious debate :).

I, too, have missed your gentleman debates! I enjoy reading the thoughtful exchanges between the two of you. :)

He should give all of his money to the government. ;)

Mr. Gates's money may not be enough to save the federal budget, whereas Washington state does not need it, but, say, the Californian governor might appreciate a donation to save the silicon state. ;)
 
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My first reaction to this story was to pray for this lady but I think it is also a good example of how to approach the kind of brokeness you are experiencing daily from our different political perspectives. She needs a friend and you are there for her. She has some deceptions in her head about how God could never forgive her or love her because of her sins but they can be undone. She has addictions which have broken her self esteem and left her feeling helpless before the personal forces which seem to drive her towards self destruction.
So how did this happen and what's the best way to deal with it in the current circumstances? All sorts of questions were provoked in me by this.
Why is she talking to you- where is her family , her friends or the man with whom she conceived her daughter, why isn't the church speaking a language she can understand? You might be right and right now she may well be unemployable but I think the roots of this are deep in the culture that spawned her and her own complicity with that.

Right - I am taking some time back from work because I am hanging around waiting for a builder to arrive to do something to our new church building ;) (which is cheap to run, and beatiful, and incredibly practical!! ):) :) I knew this was going to bug me if I didn't get a response out before I went away!


I don't really know this lady very well, I have met her once, and in any case it wouldn't be right for me to discuss her in any more detail - there is anonymity you will never know who she is, but there is also her dignity to consider.

In general however, addicts are very very difficult people to be around. They lie, steal and manipulate - it is the nature of the mental state addiction creates - and this is as true for more socially normal addictions, such as alcohol and eating disorders, as it is for hard drug use and other more 'extreme' addictions. It is really normal after years and years of trying again and again and again for families to say that enough is enough. There is always a deep desire in those who love and care for addicts to stop them from hurting themselves, to do something or say something that will help break the cycle - but the reality is that the awakening and change of mind can only evercome from within the addict. In my experience thathas to go hand in hand with some kind of assistance for them to deal with whatever it is that they are trying to block out, whether that is their circumstances, traumatic events, self image, whatever. And again it always takes the addict reaching the point where something clicks inside of them and they are ready to deal with it. However it doesn't always work first time, or second time or however many times. And keeping on the wagon is a constant battle and often - unless there is significant change in the context in which they exist - too difficult.

The roots do indeed lie in everything that has brought her to this point - her upbringing, her choices, the society in which she lives, things that have been hard but fair, things which have been utterly unjust. And I'm not sure if you grasp how people like her are treated. We have a society which has no problem in treating people very differently based on their education, their social background and their ability to communicate.

And example of this from my own life - I can only claim to be middle class, I grew up in a middle class area, my father is a minister and mother is a head teacher, although both were the first generation in their families to go to university. I went to a good school, went to university. I grew up in a church and learnt the rules of social interaction from an early age - having to communicate with older people, having certain expectations placed on me in terms of my behaviour and example. So generally I find it easy dealing with authorities and I fit in a box they understand and respect.

However as a student I lived in a pretty ropey area within the town where I studied. I was burgled several times and I had dealers living next door. The last time I was burgled I reported it to the police and they came round, looked round the flat - and it was a fairly serious burglary - the flat had been emptied even furniture had been taken. And because they knew nothing about me, because I had hardly opened my mouth, because of where I lived, their opening gambit was to accuse me of having set the burglary up for insurance purposes. Instead of helping me, instead of looking round the flat, instead of the normal stuff like statements and so on, they went straight to suspecting me, and to treating me like the criminal. Now I was able to set them straight fairly quickly. I was able to contain my anger and speak calmly. They didn't apologise and they didn't think I was worth helping much. But that was one small incident which really showed me how much of a difference class makes to how your are treated.

Now imagine that from the day you are born you are treated like that, and you see your parents treated like that. It totally reforms your perception of the world in which you live. These people live in an entirely different world with totally different rules. And it is so easy for us to be utterly simplistic and say well it is all a case of x y and z and if these poor fools just behaved like we do, if they worked and thought and acted as we do, then life would be so much easier for them and everyone else. But for us to say and think that is to ignore our own privilege, and the injustice which is a big issue in their lives.

One of the pieces of work the church in scotland has undertaken is called the Povery Truth Commission. And amongst other things it is about reclaiming dignity for people affected by all of the many forms of poverty and injustice. Getting alongside people and helping them to take their experiences and testify directly to those in the highest echelons of government and society. Helping them overcome the communication and class barriers.

Poverty Truth Commission

mindlight said:
I also associate this example very heavily with your very Scottish reactions to Thatcher. I was amazed at the lack of balance and perspective in so many Scots when I researched their attitudes towards Thatcher.
http://discuss.glasgowguide.co.uk/index.php?showtopic=15756
http://www.newsnetscotland.com/index.php/scottish-opinion/4045-the-scotland-that-opposed-thatcher
Thatcher tried to put a poll tax on such people to encourage them to personal responsibility and to break the socialistic dependency culture and the sense of entitlement that it voiced but that definitely did not work very well and I have to say she may well have missed the deeper problems here. The preThatcher Scotland was heavily unionised but in many ways very male and hierarchical. Masculine self identity was bound up in steel manufacture, coal mines and shipbuilding. Real men built stuff with their hands and belonged to traditional hierarchies and communities. But these industries had failed long before "that woman"- Thatcher ended the charade and the culture is still recovering from the reality check she brought to it. Proud but broken men have yet to forgive and forget and my die stubbornly clinging to long dead notions of a perfect Scotland shattered by Thatcher. But a failure to forgive and to move on is seriously poisonous for Scottish people on so many levels and is possibly a reason why Scottish parties are all so left wing and so blind to the good stuff in Thatcherism and the lessons they should have learnt from the destruction of failed industries. The result is a culture that cannot be entrepreneurial, cause that is too like Thatcher, but at the same time still has a shattered welfare dependent version of the unionised left wing culture that destroyed Scotlands prime industries in the first place. How else could anyone explain a vote for the socialistic SNP except in terms of some kind of deranged response to a satanically enhanced vision of a monstrous diabolical woman of Iron holding a dagger to the throats of Scottish babies in one hand while stealing their milk with the other.

Right - theres an awful lot in here. I think I want to say that some of your views of scotland, and her psyche are not just or borne out in fact. For example attitudes to entrepreneurship -

Household Survey of Entrepreneurship in Scotland 2005

Scotland has for its size always produced more big hitters than we had any right to expect. We have exported capable and efficient people to all corners of the world. Whatever we make of the discussion on colonialism, whatever the rights and wrongs of it, a totally disproportionate amount of the colonial civil service was manned by scots. What you are promoting is one stereotype. There is another scottish stereotype - the canny scot - mean with money, calculating, amassing wealth. The two do not sit together. As with all stereotypes there is some basis for them, but they fail to take in the whole picture.

I've not heard about Thatchers unpopularity being about her sex, that is a new one on me, although I can't say that I have done any research to disprove it. However casting scottish society as male and heirarchical is not entirely accurate and could only be done by someone who has little experience of scotland and has never had or met a glasgow granny :) My great grandmother lived in glasgow all her life. She was PA to the director of a shipping line, and in fact ran the shipping line at a profit during the war when her boss volunteered to fight, despite having a reserved profession (i assume). He trusted her to run it, and he was right to trust her. She brought up my gran and great auntie on her own as her husband did not return after WWI. She was a formidable woman, and there were and are plenty like her in glasgow. We have our matriarchs too.

Its not really relevant, but as a point of interest Scotlands ancient royal family had a matriarchal succession, the line passed through the women.

Scotlands attitude to Thatcher is more justified than you allow for, and motivated by more reasonable feelings and experiences than those you put forward. In many ways she attacked and destroyed crucial parts of scottish society, and they have yet to recover. That is not to say that they were perfect or needed no reform.

The whole thing is just more nuanced than the picture you are presenting. I think it would be interesting if you ever got a chance to spend some time here in Glasgow. Meet some of the people i work with, and see first hand what I'm talking about. Prosperity and poverty sit and have always sat side by side in glasgow. Crossing a road can often mean property dropping from values measured in hundreds of thousands of pounds to values measured in tens of thousands. Even within the areas of greater deprivation there is a huge range of different people backgrounds and attitudes.
 
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mindlight said:
I have been in situations of brokeness with noone to call on but the Lord. Our responses to such moments define us as people. To considerable extent the change comes from our own personal choice but the culture can be supportive of that also.

I think that is right, but not all of the picture. You rightly feel proud of your response in those situations. But what about someone who reaches that point and does something awful out of desperation. Who doesn't have the strength and determination. Often we are talking about multiple problems layered on top of each other, and coping with your own failure is difficult. How you see yourself when you look and are disappointed with how you have responded or failed to cope. Those things are so powerful in how you move on. People lose belief in themselves. Lose the ability to respect or love themselves. We can blame them for that, say that its not our problem. But we in doing so we fail to recognise where they are and we are doing nothing to help them out. Its like they have fallen down a well and instead of getting a ladder to help them out we are standing around at the top and discussing how stupid they are for having fallen down a well, and yes it is a product of bad decisions. But merely explaining the bad decisions and point ing out the obvious consequences doesn't lift them out of the well.


mindlight said:
Where is the man that fathered this womans daughter he has responsibilities here. Where is her dad, her mother her brother or her sister. Why did the rehab programme she was on apparently fail to get to the root causes of the problems she faces? Getting on in this world means facing it as it is and the best way to get over addicitons is often to find healthier addicitons or visions to displace them e.g. Exercise, church, a hobby, a job for instance- sometimes God just gives the grace to make a choice as he did in my case with alcohol. Each small choice to do the right comes together to create a better world and we all have a role to play in that.

Some of these questions are right and good - but more about how she got here, and less about where she goes now. Replacing addiction is helpful, but to make it look as simple as taking some excercise or taking up a hobby is injust. Those things will help once she is out of the well. But we need to get her out first. Her and the thousands of others like her.

mindlight said:
Actually I too am not that familiar with the precise details of this latest bill. My perception is that doctors and nurses have not been involved in preliminary discussions about various risks to the NHS being considered by the government. It makes sense to me that preliminary discussions about reform programmes should not necessarily involve the people who may well be the heart of the problem but of course these people need to be involved and won over as the real policies are formed. The self importance of doctors can be a definite problem and their egos have been massaged by 10 years over fundings without the call for reform of bad working practices. It may well be that the Helath Secretary is just telling them they cannot walk on water. If they take a step back for a moment they may well realise he is right. But again I would need to look more closely at the detail to be sure that this was actually what was going on here.

I think something like the NHS is far too precious and important to be the subject of a party political tug of war. It needs a more mature style of politics. Cross bench consensus. A long view that extends beyond what is manifesto friendly come the next election. It is too precious to tinker with. For all of its many flaws it is still better than what exists in many other places. And it still has a way to go before it is as effective as what exists in Germany or France or scandinavia. But we also have a way to go before it is as well funded as health is in those countries.

mindlight said:
Giving money back to people in lower taxes may not lead in itself to a commensurate rise in charitable giving - TRUE. But by empowering families these charities and services may also not be so necessary as before. Boosting family spending power and available choices means that they are better able to support the care of dependent or broken relatives. Indeed this is the default way that these problems have been dealt with historically. To some extent socialism was a response to the breakup of traditional support and family networks with the move to the cities and factory culture. But it has always been an artificiality compared to the real thing. When families are bled dry by high taxes and by the insistence that loving your brother or sister is now a job for the experts they lose their power to help people. Restoring that power is essential to helping people like that broken women in my view.

We are mixing things together here. I am talking about the super rich avoiding tax and not paying their share, you are talking about tax cuts which make a significant difference to families. I'm not against tax releif for those on which it would have a significant impact. After deductions I have about 2/3rds of my pay to take home, so any increase or decrease in taxation has a significant impact on me. But it is those who can most afford to pay more tax who manage to pay less and less.


mindlight said:
You see a mass of petty and soiled motivations in the private sector and indeed in the emergence of the British empire which if truth be told was driven by adventurers, pirates and corporations. But you miss the courage, the hope the desire for a better life and the faith of these people who made the impossible happen and often toppled regimes far worse than the ones they brought with them or built businesses that spanned the world. 3000 British troops beat 100,000 well equipped soldiers at Plassey. A handful of Christian conquistidors toppled the corrupt, pagan and barbaric empires of South America. Disciplined RedCoats destroyed the armies of blood thirsty tyrants and slave traders. Yes I have a very different perspective on these victories - like the battle of Milvian Bridge in the distant past that preceded them all they were a good thing that brought good fruit in their wake.

Mixed fruit I think. I still think that there is far more human cost to all of this than appears in your renditions of the colonial period.

I can't get past the fact that so much of empire was about I want, I am stronger, so I take. The fact that in some cases there were attendant benefits to some (and not all) indigenous peoples is very much a by product. And the hasty withdrawal when we could no longer afford an empire shows exactly how much the good governance and stability of those countries and people meant to us. We can overlay noble stuff, and we can focus on noble individuals within the process. But the motivations at their most basic level are there for all to see, and I have a hard time squaring that with a view that it was a generally positive experience for the world.

mindlight said:
Personal and pastoral is not the only way to respond in a positive way to the problems of people in our society. Joining the church is like changing sides in the struggle between superpowers- you join a new army with a new and better vision , with a sense of excellence, truth , nobility and righteousness that outclasses its rivals. Our witness is motivated by the love of God not the desire to please people. We infect people with the hope, faith and love that comes from Him alone. Compassion is altoften an empty vessel cause it has not been filled with the love of God.

The church is broken too. We have our own demons. We need to be very careful about claming to have the solutions. We need to be ready to absolutely follow that up, and not let go or walk away. My experience is that this doesn't always happen. Not through badness or through anything other than the fact that we are all broken people. all of us.
 
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