You misunderstand this entire situation. God didn't WANT Samson to be disobedient to His law, for it was unlawful to marry a pagan. However, God worked with Samson even in His foolishness to bring trouble upon the Philistines.
that is the whole problem here... Do we really know what God wanted?
lets take Ruth for example? Was she a pagan? maybe the law was meant to be understood in the general sense with possible exceptions...
what is most important here IMHO, is the transparency of the bible...
so... when the bible says
But Samson said to his father, Get her for me. Shes the right one for me. 4 (His parents did not know that this was from the Lord, who was seeking an occasion to confront the Philistines; for at that time they were ruling over Israel.)
I heard a preacher saying that the author of the book of judges doesnt want to present his here (samson) in the bad light, he apparently deserved, but rather passed the blame onto God.
Why is that? why couldnt God just have the author write down how Samson disobeyed the law and how it had such an impact on the end of his life and that he could have achieved so much had he been obedient to the word of God, yet the bible says that it was from the Lord, so what was from the Lord, the confrontation? did God see Samson behaving foolishly and then decided to use it for His own purposes? I read it in the way that God made Samson fall in love with that woman, for he sought to confront the philistines... of course one might also come up and say that God knew before that Samson would fall in love and He didnt do anything against it, so as to confront the philistines lateron... one way or another the bible doesnt blame Samson for it, and neither should we...
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At what point in time does God ever approve of disobedience? This has nothing to do with EGW and everything to do with what the bible ACTUALLY teaches, versus what we want it to say.[/quote]
Maybe this whole thing was just a guideline, like I said think about Ruth...
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Again, you misunderstand what the bible is teaching. I've never read Sr White's statements on Samson yet I knew the bible wasn't saying that God was in favor of Samson's choices anymore then God actually wanting Pharaoh to fight against Him. However God has a habit of working things out to His glory, and according to His purpose, even when His chosen one goes the wrong way.[/quote]
so wouldnt the bible describe it in this way, then? why the cover-up?
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There is no either or when it comes to Sr White and the Bible. It's amazing how many people will swear they are understanding it and that she got it wrong, but won't consider the opposite to be true.

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Everything is considered... do you ever consider the other way round?