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Oh my gosh that creep sent me the nastiest email putting the blame all on me. Calling me all kinds of names like delusional and paranoid he was making fun of my condition and my OCD (what is sad is he had OCD big time...........). Sure I am not perfect but he is so evil, so horrible, I even now blame God for bring this toxic horrible evil MONSTER in my life. I know that I am HORRIBLE at keeping friends cause of my extreme sensitivity but this guy made it sound like I shouldn't be alive, then he sends me another email saying he still is my friend, yes that was 15 minutes after the first one. Like that is going to make up for all the hurt and damage he did to me. I canceled the email addy and have him on block on my phone.
He is the type of guy who has a way of "convincing others" to believe things his way, to see it his way and he has a way to make it look like he didn't do anything wrong. He even has a friend of his who does the same thing, try to get people to hate me and make him look like he is "mr. Innocent" :(
All of this hurts to no end. He is the biggest mistake in my life :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Dear Flower, I am sorry about all that you are going through. But I know that you can begin setting more boundaries and start distancing yourself from this person. Do you have a girlfriend you can lean on, vent to, and confide in? You're certainly welcome to post here. Also, the CF Chaplains are here to offer support should you want to write one of us or start a thread in the Ask a Chaplain Forum located at http://www.christianforums.com/f792/

God bless you and all the best,

CH Sacerdote

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