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MrsGnomeCrusher

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Goodness, look at all the people wallowing in their self-pity. "Woe is me!" Honestly, I wouldn't want to date anyone like that!

Listen, there are people who are going to play games irl as well as on the net. You have to learn to ease into things and not jump in head-first. If you're feeling like the world is coming to an end after a month of talking via the internet, or a few dates or soon after meeting and it doesn't work out, I think there are different issues here. These issues are ones that must be addressed before going forth in a relationship.
 
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Spicy McHaggis

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Caelda said:
Goodness, look at all the people wallowing in their self-pity. "Woe is me!" Honestly, I wouldn't want to date anyone like that!

Listen, there are people who are going to play games irl as well as on the net. You have to learn to ease into things and not jump in head-first. If you're feeling like the world is coming to an end after a month of talking via the internet, or a few dates or soon after meeting and it doesn't work out, I think there are different issues here. These issues are ones that must be addressed before going forth in a relationship.

mad props to Caelda
 
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chanis

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Caelda said:
Goodness, look at all the people wallowing in their self-pity. "Woe is me!" Honestly, I wouldn't want to date anyone like that!

Listen, there are people who are going to play games irl as well as on the net. You have to learn to ease into things and not jump in head-first. If you're feeling like the world is coming to an end after a month of talking via the internet, or a few dates or soon after meeting and it doesn't work out, I think there are different issues here. These issues are ones that must be addressed before going forth in a relationship.
SWEET! I totally agree with you...
 
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JPPT1974

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OhhJim said:
Welcome to the club, my friend. The not-at-all-exclusive club of men who have been played by women for their own enjoyment.

I know, that doesn't make it hurt any less. Just know that you are not alone, and many of us have been there.

Nobody is not alone at all. And that you aren't the first nor will you be the last one being played. It happens all the time.
 
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