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A short but interesting article about the difference between what it is to be "hot" and "beautiful" and how we are losing appreciation for true beauty:

The Actual Difference Between Women Who Are Hot And Who Are Beautiful | Elite Daily

Women. We’re curvy, skinny, hood, pretty, cute, ethnic, bad, dime pieces, unicorns, babes, pieces of tail, juicy, fine, sexy, foxes, sultry, voluptuous… The list goes on.......

Hot is admired from afar; beauty is to be held.
Hot is perception; beauty is appreciation.
Hot is smokey-eyed; beautiful is bare-faced.
Hot is an appearance; beautiful is more than skin deep.
Hot is the way she moans; beautiful is the way she speaks.
Hot is a strong appeal; beautiful is strong mind.
Hot is youthful; beautiful is ageless.
Hot is conventional; beauty is unique.
Hot is a one-night stand; beautiful is sleepless nights.
Hot is a state of being; beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Hot is devious; beautiful is innocent.
Hot is bending her over; beautiful is baking her blueberry pancakes.
Hot is sultry; beautiful is wholesome.
Hot is her curves; beauty is her nerves.
Hot is a text message; beautiful is a love letter.
Hot is a facade; beautiful is a woman.
 

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I call my wife beautiful all the time. Mind you she didn't start out feeling she was. Like alot of women she never thinks she was beautiful enough. But now she feels more beautiful and she know I meant it when I say it. As for hot. Well I tell her that to once and awhile. But its usually in intimate moments. And that is because as stated hot usually refers to sexual terms.

However I could say I think my wife is beautifully hot too. :)
 
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I find "hot" to men these days is usually a woman under 30, skinny, in fashionable clothes, with long hair that distracts from her face. The face could be almost anything

Nope. Actually most men like someone who is in the US size 8-12 range. It's women perpetuating the skinny ideal.
 
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