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**Be GAY or be alone!?**

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Bellicus

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In this forum no one is allowed to say "Yes, go on live in a homosexual relationship", I think 'Christian philosophy and ethics' are more open for debate.

My suggestion is that you follow what you think God want you to do. Jesus told us that if we seek Him first, then all the other things will be given to us, that if we love our lives in this world more then Him, then we will lose our lives, but if we give up our lives in this world for Him, then we will find life.

Said a prayer for you. Hope you will figure this out and that you don't have to feel lonely. God bless you.
 
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i think an hope the God i love forgives anyone for a sin they thnk they may be commiting accoeding to his word.especailly if the persons feel they have no choice in the matter.God is perfect an God does have answers but some of them i feel we have to find out for ourselves from him in an individual way.as he loves us all.but like all parents he may deal with us differently according to our needs.this is in my mind not an excuse to misbehave or fornictae freely etc.i think being overtly promicuous is indeed a down fall an we need to take heed of Gods word.i believe lying is a huge sin as is not loveing yr neighbour an judgeing are also things we dont have to do as we have a chioce in these matter. <edit>he loves us all.however if you are not comfortable with how you or anyone may be than no doubt you do need to ask for Gods help.<edit>we must obey Gods law as much as we can but we must not lie ,an that means to him a n ourselves.excuse spelling,not my strong point
 
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I thought I posted this, but maybe it didn't go through. What I wanted to say was there is nothing wrong with being alone, if people are making fun of you for that just ignore them. Especially if you are young, it is insecure for someone to always have to be with another at such a young age and not have room to grow as an individual. It's like they don't even know who they are they just always have to have someone. Those relationships don't last and are full of useless drama. Take your time, don't date someone you don't like just because someone advices it. Seek God, he's got the answers. He is the answer. Lean not on your own understanding. Maybe seek some counseling,... who knows.... for example, if you eat soy be careful not to overdue products like soy because it is a type of estrogen that is ment for women with moderation so for a male to be drinking and eating it in large quantities might have some negative effects. Blessings with your journey. Peace in Jesus
 
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Be whomever He created you to be. But be careful to listen to Him, not yourself, because your own flesh is very deceitful and can lead you down a very broad path. Just listen to Him, He always answers! However it turns out! God Bless!
 
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