Hi swan,
Thanks for the like. Whenever I consider 'how' we should live our daily lives, I often think back to the times of Abraham, Isaac and Joseph. I imagine that their food intake consisted pretty much of just breakfast, lunch and dinner. Between those times of eating they worked or kept themselves busy doing things. They likely didn't obsess about what people thought of them and partying and having lots of 'friends' doesn't seem to have been a goal that we find any evidence that they sought.
Today, on the other hand, we don't feel 'self worth' if we don't have lots of friends and aren't invited to their parties and get togethers. Living a life of just taking care of ourselves and our families is seen as boring. Keeping to ourselves is seen as stuck up introversion. I certainly don't mean to infer that we don't need or shouldn't have any friends, but life today has become, for many, many people, a popularity contest. We get excited that we've been invited to some gathering because we associate the invitation with being popular and liked. When such things don't happen in our lives, then we become forlorn or depressed and find ways to soothe our hurt.
In the days of the Patriarchs there wasn't any refrigeration or microwave ovens. Food wasn't so readily available 24 hours a day as it is today. There wasn't any pre-packaged, zap for 30 seconds food in the tent or home and there certainly weren't any 24 hour drive thrus at which one could exchange a few dollars for hot and ready food to eat right now! The food 'industry' as we know it today, didn't exist. Most meals likely took hours to make as food would hang over an open firewood flame to be cooked. Breads had to be kneaded and baked in the home.
I think back to the account of Esau bringing in meat and making stew for his father and I imagine that it took quite a bit of time for him to do that. Even his father seems amazed when Jacob brings in the stew that his mother had made, apparently earlier, so quickly. So, a part of this issue stems from the ready availability of quick cook or ready to eat food. But ultimately, what and when we feed ourselves is solely our individual responsibility.
The other part, as previously mentioned, seems to me to be where we find our self worth. In God or in others.
God bless you.
In Christ, Ted