• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

Baptism? How to be Baptized?

Jul 7, 2018
12
29
United Kingdom
✟24,267.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless
 
  • Friendly
Reactions: JCFantasy23

Kiterius

CF's Favorite Member
Dec 24, 2016
1,268
826
Earth
✟47,893.00
Country
Canada
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless

God saved you when he baptized you. Just don't despise your baptism.
 
  • Like
Reactions: ubicaritas
Upvote 0
Jul 7, 2018
12
29
United Kingdom
✟24,267.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
God saved you when he baptized you. Just don't despise your baptism.

I feel like a Baptism is necessary for me because I want to consciously renew my relationship with God from a conscious perspective. I want to live through the spiritual death and rebirth through the symbolism of being buried and reborn with Christ. I feel ready to rid myself of sin and to be reborn as a person to lives by God. I feel in my heart that a Baptism would be the right thing for me. Is this something that is allowed or typical within Christianity? A second/adult baptism?
 
Upvote 0

Kiterius

CF's Favorite Member
Dec 24, 2016
1,268
826
Earth
✟47,893.00
Country
Canada
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
I feel like a Baptism is necessary for me because I want to consciously renew my relationship with God from a conscious perspective. I want to live through the spiritual death and rebirth through the symbolism of being buried and reborn with Christ. I feel ready to rid myself of sin and to be reborn as a person to lives by God. I feel in my heart that a Baptism would be the right thing for me. Is this something that is allowed or typical within Christianity? A second/adult baptism?
It is sometimes done, but there is no spiritual need for it. That said, there is a practical need for it if you want to join a church that requires credobaptism for membership.
 
Upvote 0

dreadnought

Lip service isn't really service.
Site Supporter
Aug 4, 2012
7,730
3,462
73
Reno, Nevada
✟358,356.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
United Methodist
Marital Status
Celibate
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless
I bet you get some diverse answers. I was baptized as a baby. I didn't start thinking about the Lord till I was about 20. I've never seriously considered getting baptized again.
 
Upvote 0

Doug Melven

Well-Known Member
Nov 2, 2017
3,080
2,585
61
Wyoming
✟90,808.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
I feel like a Baptism is necessary for me because I want to consciously renew my relationship with God from a conscious perspective. I want to live through the spiritual death and rebirth through the symbolism of being buried and reborn with Christ. I feel ready to rid myself of sin and to be reborn as a person to lives by God. I feel in my heart that a Baptism would be the right thing for me. Is this something that is allowed or typical within Christianity? A second/adult baptism?
Have you started attending a church yet? If not, you should.
Then talk to the pastor/priest about it. And tell what you just said here.
 
Upvote 0

Kevin Snow

Well-Known Member
May 14, 2018
1,078
801
35
Wesley Chapel
✟39,373.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Presbyterian
Marital Status
Single
I was baptized as a child and I knew the same as you that I must be baptized with my own conscious understanding and decision to follow and obey the Lord.

There is no problem with being baptized for the first time as a follower of Christ. You were not baptized as a follower of Christ as a baby. You were commemorated. The fact that Christ said to make disciples of all nations baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit means that you must be a disciple to be baptized. And a disciple is one who has a conscious decision to believe and obey the Lord.

There are folks who are baptized as babies who fall away and never serve Christ. That baptism does not guarantee or mean anything. Baptism is the first step of OBEDIENCE of a believer. How could you have obeyed when it was your parents' decision? So it is only a commemoration. It is not obedience of that person.
 
Upvote 0

HTacianas

Well-Known Member
Jul 9, 2018
8,876
9,499
Florida
✟378,899.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Eastern Orthodox
Marital Status
Single
Re-baptism is prohibited within Christianity. As the Nicene Creed states, "we believe in one baptism for the remission of sins".

You should speak with a priest about chrismation to continue in the Church.
 
  • Friendly
Reactions: TuxAme
Upvote 0

Serving Zion

Seek First His Kingdom & Righteousness
May 7, 2016
2,337
900
Revelation 21:2
✟223,022.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
St. Peter described that the baptism is not the thing that saves, but the way that it saves is as a depiction of how the ark saved Noah - that is to say that it is not about taking off the filthiness of the flesh (as a person might believe that they need to quit this and that), but it is a pledge of a good conscience toward God's expectation so that He can carry us safely through the turbulent waters - and this is where the real power of salvation is found in baptism: St. Paul writes that we are baptised with Christ into a death like His, so it means that if we have a good conscience toward God, He will be with us, in us and for us - and that is more about having the confidence to know it and proclaim it - that one cannot gain through thinking "I have to quit smoking" or whatever the filth of the flesh is. There will be some times when we learn new things about God's expectations that then requires us to repent, and it is an ultimatum at those times, but generally when a person is following Christ, the changes happen automatically as He continues to shape them into His likeness - we just become less of a smoker, less of a cusser, not interested in parties etc, because our spirit is becoming increasingly holy. So in that way, if you think baptism is a step toward that, then it has become a legalistic burden to you - you will not feel saved until you have done it, but then again, if you believe the baptism "seals the deal", then once you have done it then you can always rely upon that knowledge. I hope this has been useful to you, as others have too :wave:
 
Last edited:
Upvote 0

hedrick

Senior Veteran
Site Supporter
Feb 8, 2009
20,608
10,958
New Jersey
✟1,400,047.00
Faith
Presbyterian
Marital Status
Single
I feel like a Baptism is necessary for me because I want to consciously renew my relationship with God from a conscious perspective. I want to live through the spiritual death and rebirth through the symbolism of being buried and reborn with Christ. I feel ready to rid myself of sin and to be reborn as a person to lives by God. I feel in my heart that a Baptism would be the right thing for me. Is this something that is allowed or typical within Christianity? A second/adult baptism?
Many churches have a rite for reaffirmation of baptismal vows. This lets you take responsibility for what your parents promised on your behalf.
 
  • Agree
Reactions: Tutorman
Upvote 0

ubicaritas

sinning boldly
Jul 22, 2017
1,842
1,071
Orlando
✟83,398.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Lutheran
Marital Status
Private
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless

According to my church tradition (Lutheran), you do not have to be baptized again. In fact, you should not do so. You have not so much converted to a religion as rediscovered your faith. It didn't go anywhere, it just got a bit dusty.

If you have not undergone confirmation, that might be an appropriate rite for you. But it's not strictly necessary in many churches that practice it, even if it is normative.
 
Last edited:
Upvote 0

TuxAme

Quis ut Deus?
Site Supporter
Dec 16, 2017
2,421
3,264
Ohio
✟214,197.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Celibate
I feel like a Baptism is necessary for me because I want to consciously renew my relationship with God from a conscious perspective.?
You don't need to be baptized again in order to do that. As a matter of fact, you can't. Baptism is how we enter into God's Covenant, just as circumcision was how Jewish boys did the same. One wouldn't be "re-circumcised" in order to renew their covenant with God. You can't "enter God's Covenant" a second time. Again, the purpose of baptism isn't to renew our relationship- it's to establish it. Now, you can renew your baptismal promises, but that doesn't entail being re-baptized.

In order to renew my end of the Covenant with God, I go to Mass every week and partake of the Lord's Supper. Whenever I fall out of God's friendship, I have to confess my sins- not that He isn't already aware of my faults, but to have my sin forgiven in the manner that He sees fit. Only then, when I am in that state of grace, am I fit to renew the Covenant. I can't say to God, "I wish to renew our contract" when I am in the middle of violating the terms of it.
 
Upvote 0

Albion

Facilitator
Dec 8, 2004
111,127
33,266
✟584,032.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Anglican
Marital Status
Married
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless
The answer depends on the branch of Christianity you affiliate with. If it is Catholic or Anglican or most of the older churches then NO. Once baptized, you are baptized. But if you are a Baptist, Pentecostal, or a church similar to that, they will talk to you as though your original baptism wasn't effective.
 
Upvote 0

carolina16

Jesus Christ is the Lord
Sep 21, 2017
212
63
Bs As
✟58,424.00
Country
Argentina
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian Seeker
Marital Status
Private
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless

You have to baptize because:
1) When you were a baby you did not commit yourself to the Lord. (Choose him as your savior and commit to a life of obedience)
2) Baptism represents the death of the old man and the new birth.
 
Upvote 0

JCFantasy23

In a Kingdom by the Sea.
Jul 1, 2008
46,753
6,386
Lakeland, FL
✟509,627.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Methodist
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
Others here have good advice - depends on the denomination. I am a believer in adult baptism, but since you had this baptism as a child and are coming into the faith now, I would look into reaffirmation of baptism vows.
 
Last edited:
Upvote 0

faroukfarouk

Fading curmudgeon
Apr 29, 2009
35,914
17,128
Canada
✟294,608.00
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Married
I feel like a Baptism is necessary for me because I want to consciously renew my relationship with God from a conscious perspective. I want to live through the spiritual death and rebirth through the symbolism of being buried and reborn with Christ. I feel ready to rid myself of sin and to be reborn as a person to lives by God. I feel in my heart that a Baptism would be the right thing for me. Is this something that is allowed or typical within Christianity? A second/adult baptism?
These verses may be helpful:

Acts 2.41-42.

The new birth is something distinct from baptism - a symbol for believers - ; the new birth is described by the Lord Jesus in John chapter 3.
 
Upvote 0

Andrew77

The walking accident
Site Supporter
Feb 11, 2018
1,912
1,242
Ohio
✟183,616.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Constitution
I’m a very newly converted Christian. So there is a lot I don’t know and am yet to learn, which is why I am hoping to learn more through this forum.

I was baptized as Catholic as a baby. But I never really practiced Catholocism growing up ever. Should I be baptised as a newly converted Christian? What should I do? Is there a process I should undergo with a priest? How exactly does one “seal the deal” or “officially” convert to Christianity?

Thank you :)
And God Bless

Great! This is wonderful. <3

So, I am not Catholic, and here was what my Bible says....
Acts 16:30
He then brought them out and asked, "Sirs, what must I do to be saved?"
They replied, "Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved--you and your household."

This is your salvation. Believe in the Lord Jesus as your savior, and you will be saved.

Salvation is of the Lord.... meaning, it's not about your actions. Do this, and sing a lullaby, and spin on one foot, facing the east, while holding this cookie with a cross on it.....

None of that. Believe. Believe that Jesus is alive, that he came here to bring everyone who repents of their sins, to salvation and Heaven. That's what you need to do to seal the deal.

And remember this when you have doubts, because you will have doubts. We all do. But we know that Jesus Christ, is our Lord, and we are saved through him.

Now let's talk about baptism. All I know is what the Bible says. The only places that talk about baptism are adults.

Baptism is the public expression that you are a Christian.
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Matthew 28:19-20
So that is what you should do. Baptism does not make you saved. Baptism is what you do to show everyone that you are saved.

My advice is this. Find a church. Doesn't matter how long it takes. Find a church that teaches from the Bible.

No, not all churches do unfortunately. Pray and ask G-d to help you in your search for a church. Expect to find some crazy churches. It's ok. Just go, sit and listen to some goofy people every Sunday, until you find a church with Bible believing Christians.

When you find that church, talk with someone in church leadership, and just tell them you wish to be baptized.

My church just has a baptism weekend, and I was so sad that the video wasn't available online. It was a great thing. Go and show everyone that you are no longer just another girl, but a daughter of the king. This is what you should do.

sun_silhouette_girl_by_kindiykhan-d5z6gqb.jpg
 
Upvote 0