If we offer up to God obedience to mans directions and not His, that is vain worship. The person that is baptized as an infant may avoid all the benefits of being baptized as an adult, since as you teach they should not be rebaptized. Baptism is a privilege and honor, but what is the difference between baptizing an infant and spraying water on people that do not understand what you are doing to them?
We baptize infants, and not go out and hose down non-Christian adults in the Triune name is because the latter is rude and forced while the former is about the beginning of Christian life and discipleship. At least that's one reason.
If a baptized infant has all that you are talking about would any ever need conversion?
I might put it this way: We were truly converted in Baptism, we became dead to the world and alive to Christ, it was a true and real conversion that justifies us; and yes we are currently
being converted as the Holy Spirit lives in us, sanctifying and transforming us into the image of Christ.
How can you withhold baptism from infants that are not asking to be baptized?
As obeying the command of God to make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them all that the Lord has commanded us. We baptize infants for the same reason we baptize adults, the word of Christ.
Infants are unable to ask to be fed, or taught to speak or to walk. But, if we love them we do these things for them anyway. As Christians, who believe in Christ's word to baptize all nations, why withhold Baptism which is far more important than all these other things?
An infant is in a safe condition, because he/she has not sinned, so does not need forgiveness or any of the stuff the infant cannot understand, handle or use.
Infants are born into the same fallen world that you and I as adults live in every day. They are no less in need of the grace of God as you and I need.
What tells you a non-believing infant gets any of these things at their infant baptism?
God's promises that whoever has been baptized has died to sin, having been buried with Christ and therefore rise up together with Him to new life in God. It is not rationally comprehended, but believed upon because of the good and gracious promises of God. There's nothing that tells me, rationally, that anything about the Gospel is true, but yet I believe it by faith.
Do you believe baptized infants are automatically believers?
They have faith by virtue of their baptism. So yes.
I am still confused by your answer. Can we show definitely that some unbelievers were water baptized in the first century? Can we show believers being water baptized?
Probably not.
First ,second and third century secular history is poor especially with all the persecution going on, but of the good records we have does not show any definite examples of infant baptism in the first and second century. We do have examples of believer water emersion baptism.
There are implicit examples of infant Baptism in patristic works in the 2nd century at least, and definitely by the end of the 2nd and 3rd centuries.
An example of the former might be St. Justin's statement in his First Apology,
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And many, both men and women, who have been Christ's disciples from childhood, remain pure at the age of sixty or seventy years; and I boast that I could produce such from every race of men." - First Apology of St. Justin, ch. 15
Or, for example, St. Polycarp's claim that he had served Christ for "eighty and six years", i.e. his entire life.
St. Irenaeus explicitly says, "
For He came to save all through means of Himself--all, I say, who through Him are born again to God--infants, and children, and boys, and youths, and old men." -Against Heresies,2,22:4
Etc.
The practice was common, regarded as having apostolic origins. Whether that's true or not is up for debate, that it was so common as to generally be assumed normal by the end of the 2nd century with
potential evidence that it was practiced before the close of the first century (as per the remarks by St. Justin and St. Polycarp) seems to be fairly evident.
It may not be explicit apostolic practice, but it is a natural growth out from apostolic practice; it certainly wouldn't have been strange considering Christianity's Jewish roots with the practice of Circumcision (with which Baptism is compared to in Colossians), and since Christian Baptism evolved from the Jewish practice of the mikvah, which includes infants being washed in the mikvah it hardly seems strange that the administration of Baptism would be given to small children and infants as a natural part of Baptism's role in the Christian community as a sort of "new circumcision" and conversion process available. Which, further, may shed light on the concept of whole households being baptized.
So while, no, there's no definite evidence for infant baptism practiced before explicit statements coming from the mid-late 2nd century; an argument of silence does not itself substantiate that it did not happen. It would, instead, seem to make sense that it would have been quite natural to baptize infants, if not strictly apostolic itself would seem to be so early as to make the quibble perhaps trivial.
Eph 2:8 does not show faith to be a special gift. The special gift is salvation.
All mature adult humans have the gift of trusting other and/or self. God has also provide mature adults with His Love as seen in Jesus to trust in, but that does not mean all mature adults will chose to trust Gods Love enough to accept His forgiveness.
At this point we'll likely not be able to come to any agreement, Lutheran theology is incompatible with any form of Decision theology.
-CryptoLutheran