• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Back to work blues

hygienemom

Active Member
Sep 27, 2004
132
4
56
Manitoba
✟22,782.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
On Tues, Feb8, 2005 I will be going back to work after 1 year maternity leave...(in Canada we get 1 year paid leave). I have all the arrangements made for my baby girl to go to a home daycare and the two older boys are in school (8 and 5 yrs old).
I could use some prayer and words of encouragement as I am feeling low about the whole thing.
This is such a change in life and will miss my baby girl immensely. I am feeling stressed about how busy I will be in the morning to get myself up @ 5am, get myself ready then get the kids ready for school/daycare. DH leaves for work @ 6:30am so not able to help much. I have to be out the door @ 7 for work @ 7:35am. I have to start a new job (dental hygienist) as the old job didn't have enough hours for me. That in itself is stressful.
I know that it will all work itself out and once we are all in a routine it will flow...but i'm feeling stressed to the max!!
Help!!
 

Addicted2~Jesus

Senior Veteran
Jan 5, 2005
3,611
435
49
Texas
✟20,863.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Republican
Sorry to hear ya feelin so down, you've got our prayers no doubt. I really hadn't got a whole heckuva lot of advice an I'm sorry for that also. If'n it were up to me, any one parent who wanted to stay home an tend to their faimly would, sadly enough in this world it's simply become so dern hard to go from 2 to 1 incomes. I don't spose ya'll could, but it might be sumthin to think bout an absouletly pray bout, is you stayin on home like ya have been. I realize it's a bit late in th game to think or rethink goin back to work, but one thin you can always be sure of, if it's God's will then it'll defiently work out.
 
Upvote 0

Leanna

Just me
Jul 20, 2004
15,660
175
✟39,278.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
I'm sorry, that is difficult. About a month ago I tried to get a part time job to help with our fianances. (my son is 5 months old) I actually got the job and was going to start the next day. I had such anxiety over not being around my son much I couldn't sleep. I just couldn't do it. My husband said I shouldn't take the job and I should stay home. We both feel that being a stay-at-home mom is an important job. If you don't want to go back to work (I realize you already have), maybe you could get used to living on only one income? There are lots of ways to do it.
 
Upvote 0