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karalianne

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This post is going to be long. I'll re-use the thread as necessary to request prayer for specific people.

Background: I've been working with autistic children for the past five years. I do ABA (Applied Behaviour Analysis), incidental teaching, etc. - depending on the parents, the child, and the other professionals involved in their lives.

On Friday, the Supreme Court of Canada made a ruling about ABA funding. Because it was the Supreme Court, it cannot be appealed. There are many sides to this issue, and I am embroiled in this issue on every single side.

I wrote this last night:

The decision that the SCoC made was that the BC government does *not* have to fund ABA (Applied Behaviour Analysis) - specifically Lovaas-type (there are four types that I personally am aware of) - for autistic children using health care dollars.

Now, this is a good thing because (and *only* because) there are other types of ABA out there that are much more humane and actually treat the child like a *child* in the process of teaching him/her new behaviours and academics and whatnot. My personal view is that the families behind the court case were taking a tremendously narrow view of appropriate treatment for autism. I know for a fact (from personal experience, having lived in BC for two years during the initial court battles there and being on the wrong end of some of these families' sympathizers) that they are rabidly *for* Lovaas-style and refuse to support *anyone* who doesn't use Lovaas-style ABA... even if it's still ABA. I have a *really big problem* with that. Morally and ethically, it is *wrong*.

The SCoC decision basically says that ABA can't be covered under the Canada Health Act because it's not delivered by medical personnel or in a hospital or other medical facility. This is quite true. While the consultant often (but not always... proper qualifications is a different matter altogether) has a Masters or PhD in Psychology, the actual therapy is delivered by people like me (or really a lot *unlike* me), who have or are working on an Undergraduate degree in Psychology or Education.

In the States, the school boards generally cover the cost of ABA provision, though it's expensive and difficult to get them to fund the amount deemed necessary by ABA proponents. Cost is another issue again; it can cost up to $60,000 per year (or more, if you're really unlucky) to run a 40 hour per week program for a preschooler. That's why families can't afford to pay for it themselves. Of course, a lot of the cost involved is paying all these professionals (the consultants) their $150/hour fee for coming in and observing sessions, writing reports, and doing training workshops. The rest is paying the therapists, who I've heard might charge as much as $25/hour when they're *still in school*! I've been doing this for five years, and I would *never* charge more that $15/hour at my current level of education. But, that's me and the way my ethics direct me. Other people don't have the same sensibilities I do. And I do understand that, even though I really hate it.

As for family stress, that's a really huge thing. A *lot* of families break up due to the stress caused by having an autistic child. Some stay together, but I can see (and sometimes hear) the effects of the stress when I'm in the home for a session.

Here's what happens.

The provincial government says, "Okay, we'll fund this ABA treatment thing for your autistic children." Then, they set up regional centres to provide ABA. Except that the people they put in charge don't know much of anything about ABA, and the people they hire to be the therapists know even less. You're generally lucky if these people even know what autism really *is*.

And then, a child is diagnosed at 3yoa. They're put on a waiting list for the regional centre so they can get this wonderful ABA treatment (well, I suppose something is better than nothing). While they're waiting, they're denied all other services, "because you're going to get ABA".

They wait. And they wait. And then the child turns 6, and is SOL. Because, the government says, the findings are that ABA is most effective before age 6, which *obviously* means that it's completely *ineffective* after that age. (I really don't know how much common sense there is in parliament... I suspect next to none.)

The provincial governments could quite easily decide not to fund *any* autism treatments (beyond occupational therapy, physiotherapy, and speech therapy) based on this, which is what is bad about it, in my opinion.

I am stressed out emotionally over this because I am stuck on both sides of the issue. On the one hand, I'm glad that Lovaas-style ABA wasn't determined to be "medically necessary" autism treatment (which it really isn't... it's an educational technique when it comes right down to it, which I believe is part of why the schools pay for it in the States). But on the other, I'm worried about what could happen to all these kids who so desperately need *something* to help them learn.

It just feels so big again, and the autism thing hasn't felt big like this since Fall 2002.
Pray for the government - all levels. Pray for the professionals. Pray for the parents. Pray for the siblings. Pray for the autistic children. Especially pray for the autistic children.
 

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I've worked with a lot of kidlets over the years.

Right now, I ask prayer for a family I do not yet work with.

This mother e-mailed me on Thursday, looking for information about getting funding for her 8yo son to have ABA. They moved out here to Alberta three weeks ago from Ontario, where the scenario I described above was played out to a "T".

I directed her to a couple of places for information and offered to talk more.

She asked me to phone her.

Yesterday morning, I did just that. I got the full story, offered her some more moral support and information places and the like.

They are a two-parent family, thank God. She is working, and he is staying home with the kids, dealing with all of this stuff for the first time. It's not easy.

Pray for them.

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The other family I would like you to pray for is a family I've been working with for just over a year.

They are a single-parent family; a house full of men (well, man and three boys). The father is an amazing parent. He does a phenomenal job in the face of overwhelming odds. His oldest son has ADHD, the second has Asperger's Syndrome, and the youngest (who I work with) has autism with severe sensory processing dysfunction.

The father has only recently been able to begin to rebuild his credit rating, which was demolished when he had to declare bankruptcy due to his ex-wife's gambling habits. He is active in autism advocacy and helps other parents constantly. He is always on the phone or on the computer, talking to local parents about getting the funding and services they require for their children. When I have a question about an agency, I always ask him first.

The child I work with is a very sweet boy. It kills me when he is melting down because of something I cannot do anything about.

Please pray for them.

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Perhaps I care too much for these children I work with. It's been suggested that I need to distance myself from them more.

But if I did that, I don't think I could do as good of a job as I do. These children need someone who will challenge them, yes. But they need that challenge to be tempered with love, and it all needs to come from someone who is further removed than a parent... but not as far removed as some seem to think I should be.

Please pray for me.
 
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karalianne said:








Perhaps I care too much for these children I work with. It's been suggested that I need to distance myself from them more.

But if I did that, I don't think I could do as good of a job as I do. These children need someone who will challenge them, yes. But they need that challenge to be tempered with love, and it all needs to come from someone who is further removed than a parent... but not as far removed as some seem to think I should be.

Please pray for me.






I know what you mean! I care for my students a lot too. I pray for them constantly.

I will pray for you. I have been teaching children with autism for 5 years too. I teach in a part of the States where the programs are quite good. We use structured teaching/lifeskills and vocation training to help our children. Parents come from all over the world to have their AU children taught here in the "Triangle" of NC..
 
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Pray for the government - all levels. Pray for the professionals. Pray for the parents. Pray for the siblings. Pray for the autistic children. Especially pray for the autistic children.
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Father, help these families, children and teachers.

Provide relief and treatment for these children. Raise up church schools that will hire people to treat these children and people who will intercede for the healing, family needs, etc.

Move in Canada to open better programs and more places for children to recieve the treatment they need. Help them to stop this problem of children missing the treatment they need at the appropriate age. Amen
 
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As an aunt to 3 autistic children I lift these prayers up to The Lord. Please take care of these children God, and help them all to receive good treatment and education. Please bless the family of these children and the educators. Thank you so much for those who are called to work with these children.


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