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So, lately I've been considering the topic of "boundaries". This is probably a result of living within today's culture of "social distancing", among other things.
After pondering this for a while and discussing aspects of it in other threads, the following idea came to mind:
It is better to ask yourself, "Why am I not attracted to this person?" rather than, "Why am I attracted to this person?"
And then the Messiah came to mind and how people related to Him, specifically, the Pharisees.
I believe that they were of the mindset of looking for some attractive ideal they held in their own mind, and this led to blindness.
They didn't ask themselves why they were so repulsed by this figure before them.
How does this tie into boundaries?
Well, I believe we all lean towards having boundaries. I don't believe that there is anything novel about the idea of looking for toxicity levels in others. I believe that human beings are unnaturally (due to the fall) bent towards looking for that enticing spark in others, and not having the perspective of really asking ourselves why a person is so unattractive to us. This results in reinforcing the barriers we already have against the unattractive and erecting new ones where no bright ideal shines through.
I'm actually on a conference call, so I may be a little unclear...sorry.
But, i would like to explore this concept some more, so any thoughts and/or feedback is welcome.
Thank you
--T1
After pondering this for a while and discussing aspects of it in other threads, the following idea came to mind:
It is better to ask yourself, "Why am I not attracted to this person?" rather than, "Why am I attracted to this person?"
And then the Messiah came to mind and how people related to Him, specifically, the Pharisees.
I believe that they were of the mindset of looking for some attractive ideal they held in their own mind, and this led to blindness.
They didn't ask themselves why they were so repulsed by this figure before them.
How does this tie into boundaries?
Well, I believe we all lean towards having boundaries. I don't believe that there is anything novel about the idea of looking for toxicity levels in others. I believe that human beings are unnaturally (due to the fall) bent towards looking for that enticing spark in others, and not having the perspective of really asking ourselves why a person is so unattractive to us. This results in reinforcing the barriers we already have against the unattractive and erecting new ones where no bright ideal shines through.
I'm actually on a conference call, so I may be a little unclear...sorry.
But, i would like to explore this concept some more, so any thoughts and/or feedback is welcome.
Thank you
--T1