At what point in your relationship did your SO see you at your worst? Meaning, looking really nasty and in a horrible mood or whatever.
Or will you never let them see the other you? lol
Or will you never let them see the other you? lol
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Hmmmmm Brittany has seen me wake up in the morning that would have to be when I am at my worst I am a bear at that time. I can't stand mornings. I still can't believe she has seen me with bed head. Of course there isn't much hair so it isn't so bad.
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I think the worst point Joey has ever seen me at is when we were talking about my Grandpa and all my fond memories of him. My Grandpa has passed on now so it is hard to talk about it too much without crying. Well let me just say I didn't just cry I started bawling on Joey's shoulder. I felt so bad and must have looked like a complete mess, but Joey just held me and comforted me as long as I needed him to.
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Hmm... For us, it was before we were dating.
He became my "time waster" (ever played mancala for hours on end, for months on end, every night?) right after my ex dumped me. I was needing to be extremely tired to sleep. He saw the real bad, angry, hurt and depressed/anorexic/low side of me.
And I've seen it of him many a time.
He became my "time waster" (ever played mancala for hours on end, for months on end, every night?) right after my ex dumped me. I was needing to be extremely tired to sleep. He saw the real bad, angry, hurt and depressed/anorexic/low side of me.
And I've seen it of him many a time.
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My boyfriend had seen me with no make-up and just wet hair tossed up in a clip before we even started dating- since he lives with a family I nanny for and I don't exactly get all glammed up to play with a 3-year-old. So I don't care if he sees me without make-up. I try to look put together at the very least, for him as well as for myself, but he's seen me in all states of put-together-ness.
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He's seen me at my worst in many different states.
Physically, for instance, he came with me to the hospital after I had been throwing up for the past 16 hours, no makeup, no brushed hair, no clean clothes, no smile, no great smellingness. It was pretty bad. He stayed with me while I got examined, got blood drawn, and IV fluids. He's seen me in those hospital gowns, which are not flattering, or fully covering. So.. he's seen me at one of my many worsts. And he still gave me kisses on the cheeks and forehead, and said I was beautiful.
So.. there's one example.
Physically, for instance, he came with me to the hospital after I had been throwing up for the past 16 hours, no makeup, no brushed hair, no clean clothes, no smile, no great smellingness. It was pretty bad. He stayed with me while I got examined, got blood drawn, and IV fluids. He's seen me in those hospital gowns, which are not flattering, or fully covering. So.. he's seen me at one of my many worsts. And he still gave me kisses on the cheeks and forehead, and said I was beautiful.
So.. there's one example.
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hmm... my worst is probably when i'm angry and i let myself get really snappy and short. not pretty! physically my worst? well he's seen me in three-day old clothes without a shower right after waking up in the morning. And he still cuddled with me... what guy, eh? 
his worst was when he'd be manic and anxious and obsessive. hasnt' been that way for a year-ish now. physically I've seen him sweaty and gross and unshowered.
his worst was when he'd be manic and anxious and obsessive. hasnt' been that way for a year-ish now. physically I've seen him sweaty and gross and unshowered.
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At what point in your relationship did your SO see you at your worst? Meaning, looking really nasty and in a horrible mood or whatever.
Or will you never let them see the other you? lol
Hmm...Just two weeks ago....for a whole 9 days! lol...
I went to visit my BF's family up north and stayed in his parents house...with him and his brother...
Now that was a dandy little party!
He saw me first thing in the morning...no make-up, bed-head and all..
And vice-versa...Plus, one of the last days I was there...he and I went down to the shore... over and hour drive from his house....and I got sick to my stomach.
Nausea, etc...He was so patient and attentive it was adorable...he went and got something for my stomach, got me some water, and just waited with me for about 2 hrs of doing nothing until I felt better....
IF that aint love, I dont know what is!
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reverie_maiden
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Awww....that's so sweet...Hmm...Just two weeks ago....for a whole 9 days! lol...
I went to visit my BF's family up north and stayed in his parents house...with him and his brother...
Now that was a dandy little party!
He saw me first thing in the morning...no make-up, bed-head and all..
Plus, one of the last days I was there...he and I went down to the shore... over and hour drive from his house....and I got sick to my stomach.
He was so patient and attentive it was adorable...he went and got something for my stomach, got me some water, and just waited with me for about 2 hrs of doing nothing until I felt better....
IF that aint love, I dont know what is!
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Mentally - depends on what you mean at my worst. We've been together for 2 years now, so my gf has seen me at times when I've just totally broken down. I guess if I had to pick one situation, it was about a year ago when we got into an arguement over which we almost broke up. During that arguement I raised my voice at her once and that was probably the worst she's seen me at.
I know she hasn't seen me at my absolute worst because I only really get super angry/very violent when I'm physically protecting someone I love. I woud say what I'm like during those situations is when I'm at my worst/scariest. However, I've never needed to physically protect her from someone else, so she's never seen that side of me (most people I know haven't - it's very rare). I'm normally a mellow and very, very, very patient guy.
I know she hasn't seen me at my absolute worst because I only really get super angry/very violent when I'm physically protecting someone I love. I woud say what I'm like during those situations is when I'm at my worst/scariest. However, I've never needed to physically protect her from someone else, so she's never seen that side of me (most people I know haven't - it's very rare). I'm normally a mellow and very, very, very patient guy.
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Heh... to you girls who say about seeing there bf at his worst, I think i've seen a guy who was worse..
He hadn't showered, or changed for 2 weeks... His clothing was somewhere in transit between Dubai and Nairobi, and he was now in Tanzania (10 hours drive away) and he'd been waiting for his clothes for a week!
He hadn't showered, or changed for 2 weeks... His clothing was somewhere in transit between Dubai and Nairobi, and he was now in Tanzania (10 hours drive away) and he'd been waiting for his clothes for a week!
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Uhm, back when we were just friends. About 2 1/2 years ago. We saw each other at our very worsts.At what point in your relationship did your SO see you at your worst? Meaning, looking really nasty and in a horrible mood or whatever.
Or will you never let them see the other you? lol
The consequences of that, was it completely opened us up to one another once we got over it, in quite an intimate way- once you've seen the other at their worst (more mentally- we had had a very serious fight) and you get over it and forgive them for it, you no longer really have to hide anything anymore, because you know you're safe and the person will not leave you etc, as they didn't then.
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Heh she saw me when I was at my grouchiest cuz of worries over money, or more specifically, money that my roommate owed me. We were both cranky that weekend, and not only did we live through it, but I'd venture to say it brought us closer, knowing that we could see that and still love each other
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A couple months ago I went to VA for a few days to visit my fiance.
Somehow,I got pink eye in both my eyes the day before.
By the time I drove 6 hours to his parents house,I could barely open my eyes.They were soooo swollen and blood shot.By that night,I had to go to the drug store and get medicated eye drops because they were weeping all this grossness.I looked sooo bad.Oh,my gosh,it was horrible.
I was embarrassed to go out in public.
Thank God,the drops cleared up my eyes really quickly and about 2 days later I was back to normal.
He was really sweet and kept telling me I looked beautiful the whole time (even though I knew better )
I kept telling him he was not allowed to take any pics of me untill my eyes cleared up!
Somehow,I got pink eye in both my eyes the day before.
By the time I drove 6 hours to his parents house,I could barely open my eyes.They were soooo swollen and blood shot.By that night,I had to go to the drug store and get medicated eye drops because they were weeping all this grossness.I looked sooo bad.Oh,my gosh,it was horrible.
I was embarrassed to go out in public.
Thank God,the drops cleared up my eyes really quickly and about 2 days later I was back to normal.
He was really sweet and kept telling me I looked beautiful the whole time (even though I knew better
)I kept telling him he was not allowed to take any pics of me untill my eyes cleared up!
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