So why again is there no center? How is each point the center? These 2 seem to contradict each other in the picture of expansion. (Which is what I was trying to get it in my previous question)
To me, this expansion is intuitive if there is a center. If 2 points that were originally near the middle both expanded equally, why / how would they not run into each other or overlap?
If you imagine there's a centre (there's not, but I'll get to that), then every point moves away from that central point with a speed proportional to its distance from the centre. That is, two galaxies close to the centre will move away quite fast, while a galaxy far away from the centre will move much faster. In this way, every galaxy moves away from every
other galaxy - you travel in a straight line away from the central point, so you can only collide with galaxies on the same line - but those closer to the point are moving slower than you, and those furtherer away from the point are moving faster than you, and you yourself are accelerating as you move away from the point.
Ultimately, in such a situation, not only do all points move away from the central point, they also all move away from each other (that is, their distance increases).
Now, what happens if you're on a galaxy, moving away from this central point? Velocity is relative, meaning you would see
yourself as stationary, and everyone else moving away, and they'd be moving faster the further away they are (this is a real observation). This is true for every galaxy, and indeed every point in the universe.
But, we have a problem. Suppose you wake up on a galaxy, and have to find the central point. How do you do it? You can't: every galaxy is moving away from the central point, but to you, it looks like they're all treating
you as the central point. You can't follow two galaxies, trace a couple of lines, and fine the central point.
In the above scenario, there is a real central point, it just so happens that from any galaxy's point of view, the other galaxies are moving away from
it. In the real world, there isn't a central point: every galaxy sees itself as the centre of expansion, when, in fact, every point in space is expanding.
And that's where the counter-intuitive-ness comes in. Hopefully that gives you a more conceptual grasp of what's happening... though in all likelihood I've made things worse