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But the fact that your father has to rub it in, means he has some insecurities he wont admit to you. or that he has managed to hide from you. I know I still have my older "useful" siblings on a bit of a pedestal but before they were way up on high. We need to find our confidence in something so that we don't feel so small.
You need to get some nurturing now and avoid contact with him. Is that possible? Otherwise he will just reinforce your low self-esteem.You are correct.
My father is a very insecure person. He was emotionally abused and verbally abused by his mother (my grandmother).
My father attempts to hide his insecurities through arrogance, bravado and anger....
Hey, I actually wish I could point you to some Bible reading to help you. Maybe you can do that. one that provides re-assurance that everything will work out for both of us.
You need to get some nurturing now and avoid contact with him. Is that possible? Otherwise he will just reinforce your low self-esteem.
They have limited value I admit but they give us something to talk about on CF, which is of some interest to me.All these labels are just that, labels. Each human being is so unique, I don't think any label serves them justly. But you can throw me into the same general pile of INFJ-ish people.
They have limited value I admit but they give us something to talk about on CF, which is of some interest to me.
Anyway again, I send my prayers and really hope that someday this current problem will make sense in the light of future happiness.
I will make an illogical assertion that I know sounds weird but it holds some emotional truth for me. Guess I need an example.True, true. Do you have problems being understood by people, you mention being annoying in debates to some, or to be accepted? Hard, no? Or relatively easy to blend in?
My father criticizes me because he says that I lack common sense and wisdom.
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