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He is not saying marital acts should not be open to procreation in that passage.

The only thing he mentions is ones burning and that its would be better to marry then to burn, for example my sisters case, married so they would not burn, but now shes allergic to his "you know what", the condom would still be able to satisfy any burning either of them have, but making the condom a sin would make them no better then unmarried and burning when such a simple thing takes care of the problem for the both of them.
 
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Is being artificially inseminated ok with the church, or no in this case? Or should I ask someone else?
I think you should ask someone else
(someone with more authority ✟ )
 
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ouch.
 
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I am not aware of anything by the Church that makes this claim. Faith is not independent of reality.
I was clear in my OP that was a statement made by a Catholic. I didn't claim to have been fresh off a phone call with the Pope.


"isn't open to conception blah blah blah. Same difference. Just like the hypocracy of the NFP teaching being A-OK.

I know what is taught. I just don't cover up the reality of it with weasel-speak.
on a more individual level, a couple who it was deadly to the wife to conceive, but when he sterilized himself so they could enjoy at least a mostly normal marriage, excommunication was the result.

I note that you ignored this entirely. an uncomfortable example, perhaps?


again, it was a statement made by a Catholic. perhaps your teachers should do a better job.


interesting. So there IS situational morality. Yet we're told there is not.

(and also interesting that an abortion to save a mothers life is acceptable, but a condom, which could protect the same person from being in that position in the first place, is not. this lacks in common sense completely.)




Condoms objectify human beings, which was the cause of the HIV epidemic in the first place.
that's some finely backed horse apples.


Do you see the bible as a guide? That you half-hearted look to, except when it contradicts your morality?
yes, I see the bible as a guide.

I didn't see anywhere written in it's pages that you have to check your brain at the door though. I think God expects us to think things through.

if Jesus was intent on us following rules for rules sake, then he should have had the adultress stoned. He did not.

The Church is not a guide, it a means of preserving the truth for all generations until Christ returns.
that again, was in response to a statement made by a Catholic.



Yes, the Church considers such contraception sinful and thus could be quite detrimental to the soul.

indeed. Just like eating meat on a Friday. oh wait... that's ok now.

but nothing changes.....

You don't seem to even know what infallible dogma is.

sure I do. the claim is, it's always been believed and taught, and it's proclaimed ex cathedra, therefore it's infallible. It cannot change. It is immutable.

it's a really bad idea, of course, you can't even backpedal when you look foolish.... but there you have it. Don't try and play the "you just don't understand it" card. We're not idiots, we just don't believe it.

 
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he drops back, throws.... touchdown.
 
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Yeah, I leave it to her own concience then
Yeah, we all have to sleep with one of those, don't we?
And that fact alone carries a lot of authoritative weight.
 
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The Church does not have the authority to simply make up rules and dogma. And if we were to look at the context of the story of Onan, one would have to come up with a gratuitous assumption to conclude that the point was contraception. Also, though somewhat loosely related, how does the Roman Church explain the Song of Solomon; wherein which has some not-so-vague references to oral sex? And how far does this supposed doctrine, "if it is unnatural, then it is sin" go?
 
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Maybe I'm just confused. You're getting defensive about an issue that could be avoided if those same people just abstained from sex. Why do you insist that they have to be given condoms. Why do you have to argue with the idea that an organization doesn't want to support a habit of pure sexual gratification because it doesn't match their values? People dont HAVE to have sex, so what does the Catholic Church's stand on it have anything to do with compassion? If you don't like the fact that they won't support condom distribution, then start an organization of your own that does! I really don't get why you are so upset over this.
 
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Very real and deadly too.

Actually, God bound Himself to forgive us.
That's why He says that He is faithful and "JUST" to forgive us if we
confess our sin ...
If He did not forgive us, after Christ paid, He would be "unjust".
I think that presumes too much. John is especially writing to God's children, "we".

John said Christ was the propitiation for "the whole world". Christ's payment was enough to pay us all up. But God isn't unjust to punish some that the payment covers. Mt 25 comes to mind.
 
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Hey there you are Mikey.
What presumes too much?
Didn't you just say the same exact thing that i said?
*scratches head
 
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Is being artificially inseminated ok with the church, or no in this case? Or should I ask someone else?

I still highly doubt condom use would be condoned for reasons I told you in my last post to you. But you would get a surer answer from someone else if you want the Catholic teaching on the matter. You might want to call one of the Catholic apologists or the apologetics hotline at Catholic Answers. Tonight is open forum Q&A where you could ask it live on the air. It's 2 hours starting at 6:00 eastern. Radio number is 1-888-318-7884.

You can also call their general apologetic off-the-air line at 1-619-387-7200 any time you want.
 
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Whats the difference if i choose to abstain from sex
(For purpose of contraception)
or if i choose to have sex but use a condom?
There is none.

Abstinence does not compromise the sexual act because there is no sexual act. Abstinence shows respect for the gift of sexuality and its proper end. Going forth with sex and compromising the end with a condom is much different. You may think there is none, but I see a gigantic difference and so does the Church.
 
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