My mother and father in-law gave my husband quite the lecture today. They feel that we are overprotecting our son because he doesn't ride the bus to and from school. In our town there are a lot of parents who do not put their kids on the bus, the school lobby is packed morning and afternoon, day after day with the same parents. On average I would guess that aprrox. 100 kids are transported to and from school each day. It's not like we are the only ones doing this.
It has been reported in the papers and we have seen with our own eyes, the bus drivers in our town breaking the speed limits, making very unsafe moves with the buses and there is a lot of free reign for the kids on the busses.
We are trying very hard to raise our kids right. We want them to have values and goals and most importantly a love for God and Jesus. We want that to be a strong foundation for them. The things we see on the drive to and from school each day also helped make our decision. 7-10 year olds swearing at each other, we once saw a kid pelting rocks at another child, and once a child chasing another child with a pair of scissors. And this was in the location around the two elementary schools.
I know these are the realities of a lot of public schools, but I don't see why we have to throw our child completely into it. The reason the whole disagreement took place today was because my husband and I will be buying a car for me, from a family member so that when my husband starts working second shift next month, I will still be able to transport my son. They see it as a waste of money and an excuse to be overbearing with our child. Did I mention that he doesn't want to ride the bus anyway.
So what would anyone else do in this situation? And do you think we are being overprotective. I stated why the lecture took place today, but this disagreement has been going on since last september. It's getting old.
It has been reported in the papers and we have seen with our own eyes, the bus drivers in our town breaking the speed limits, making very unsafe moves with the buses and there is a lot of free reign for the kids on the busses.
We are trying very hard to raise our kids right. We want them to have values and goals and most importantly a love for God and Jesus. We want that to be a strong foundation for them. The things we see on the drive to and from school each day also helped make our decision. 7-10 year olds swearing at each other, we once saw a kid pelting rocks at another child, and once a child chasing another child with a pair of scissors. And this was in the location around the two elementary schools.
I know these are the realities of a lot of public schools, but I don't see why we have to throw our child completely into it. The reason the whole disagreement took place today was because my husband and I will be buying a car for me, from a family member so that when my husband starts working second shift next month, I will still be able to transport my son. They see it as a waste of money and an excuse to be overbearing with our child. Did I mention that he doesn't want to ride the bus anyway.
So what would anyone else do in this situation? And do you think we are being overprotective. I stated why the lecture took place today, but this disagreement has been going on since last september. It's getting old.