Anyone else experience this?

[Kenyetta Anderson]

I am new to the group and found this forum while searching the web. I have been married to my wonderful husband for six years now and we have a seven year old son together. My husband is a hardworking guy and loves his family very much. I love my husband dearly but there’s just one thing...I don’t enjoy [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. I’ve talked to him about it and he finds that I’m selfish and should be always willing to do it no matter how I’m feeling. Is this normal to feel this way in a marriage?

 

[NerdGirl]

It's absurd to say that someone is selfish for not liking something. People like what they like. He's the one being selfish by expecting his wife to do something she doesn't enjoy for his personal benefit. Acts of intimacy should always strive to be mutually enjoyed.