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any one else get 'Those calls'

Princessperky

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The 'I know you are due soon and was just checking up on you' calls.

Like I might forget to tell them when the baby was born?

And do I need reminded that everyone thinks I should have had this baby by now?

I do appriciate the concern really, just......

Maybe it is only me cause I live a bazzilion miles away from everyone.

Or maybe I am just cranky cause I would REALLY like to have had this kid!
 

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Well, are they like your family? Or just your friends? Because I am going to leave the calling up to everyone else, and hope it circulates form word of mouth,because calling everyone while I am in labor or in the day after I deliver my baby isn't something high on my priority list. :p

I mean, my family will know the minute I go into labor, and my best friends, but not my "regular" friends.
 
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karla

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YES!!!!! That is why I lied about the due date of our second child by a week. Thank God I did because he was a week late :) What is annoying me most this time around is when people see me and say "oh, you haven't had the baby yet?" I so want to respond with "Yes I did about three weeks ago. I am just really fat"
 
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karla said:
YES!!!!! That is why I lied about the due date of our second child by a week. Thank God I did because he was a week late :) What is annoying me most this time around is when people see me and say "oh, you haven't had the baby yet?" I so want to respond with "Yes I did about three weeks ago. I am just really fat"

You just gave me the greatest laugh!!!!! :D
 
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I was amazed at how many people told us to have sex toward the end of our pregnancy to induce labor. I mean, even strangers! Like it was ok to discuss sex with you because obviously you'd had sex AT LEAST ONCE since you were pregnant.
 
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